shaved:
In my opinion too many closet homosexuals who dont have the guts to admit their preferance use cuckolding as an excuse.
Cuckoldry has Nothing to do with being. gay.
If you think you're gay do your wives or girfriends a big favor.
Admit you are gay so both of you can find suitable partners.
Certain acts in cuckoldry may be very similar to those of gay couples but they do not make you gay.
Be submissive to your Wife or her Bull but remember its not about You.
So if you are gay stop hiding behind cuckoldry because its easy and convienient and find a gay partner.
OK,
shaved, calm down. There is no reamister to get into a "gay panic" over this. No one is saying that your interest in cuckolding makes you gay. (Well, some folks might be saying it, but only out of fear or to stimulate themselves, not from serious thought.) Let me be the first to reassure you: Just because you like to be cuckolded, that doesn't make you gay. Take a breath and relax.
That said, I think you are a bit too categorical in your separation of cuckolding fantasies from gay fantasies.
Yes, they are different, and yes you can have one and not the other, but to say they have "nothing to do with" each other is overreach. Both fantasies have powerful dimensions of emasculation. That is a potent overlap. "Forced gay" fantasies also have significant presentation and control elements that are often found in cuckold fantasies (including, it seems, yours.) So it isn't surprising that they run in tandem in many people. Indeed individual sexual psychology is a place of dizzying variety and idiosyncrasy - every permister a unique stew.
So you may want to reflect on why it is so very important to you permisterally to make such an insistent, declarative distinction between fetish cuckolding and homosexuality. I mean, I don't see you making such angry statements about people mixing cuckolding in with interracial, cross-dressing, domestic service, femdom, public offense, or "family" fetishes on this site.
And by saying they having nothing to do with each other are you saying that fetish cuckolding is purely for straight males? You cannot imagine a gay male couple engaging in this thrill? What about lesbians? What about straight women in the role of cuckold to their male partners? If that is what you mean (and it is a fair read of what you wrote) that is a pretty narrow definition of the kink in my opinion. What about the unmarried straights? Do you think that a man can be cuckolded by a woman not his wife? I mean, how very precisely and pure do you want to see this kink defined?
Lastly, it is frankly callous and shallow to make such sweeping ideological prescriptions about what is best for gay men (whatever you mean exactly by that label) or their female partners. Every permister, every life, every relationship, is different and pair-bonding is about a lot more than what's in your head at orgasm. To insist that sexual orientation is a toggle switch that automatically rules out happiness on any but your rigidly prescribed terms is arrogant and bigoted.
If you don't get off on the gay dimension, go spend your time on a thread on this site that speaks to you more.
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