Reading wife's email...

sexyboygirl,

Yes, I agree with what you are saying. In fact, if I were with my old asian girlfriend she would be very shy and there is a good chance she would never do anything like this. BUT...there is also a chance that she could be opened up and led into a greater world of experience as she is very suggestible to me for some reason...and that is what I daydream about. Oh well. Thanks for talking with me about it, as I never get to say this out loud anytime.

Great Post "His her us " well told , the build it is very sexy i am holding my breath until your lovely wife says "yes" !

An interesting development !!! Sounds like she might have finally overcome the reservations she initially had about starting a sexual relationship with him. My guess is that this signals the start of something between them....and that if they meet again, Peter is going to get the opportunity to start (discretely) fucking her, on an on-going basis.

Here's hoping you and Peter can soon create another opportunity for your wife and he to get together
DCG

Glad so many are enjoying the posts. It is very exciting development for me which I am happy to share. It may be a few weeks before something likely to happen in person though. We are going on vacation as is Peter. So not many chances for him to come over and I to leave.

On the positive side, the delay will keep the tension building. My wife will surely be incredibly full of sexual energy by the time they do meet. I also do love knowing she is preparing for her next encounter. With her last bull, I know she took great care to present herself to him with new sexy lingerie, getting her nails done, and in general prettying herself up.

Peter will continue to be in touch with her. He has been very good at not being too forward and making sure my wife sets the pace. At this point though I think he can be a bit more aggressive and take charge. Coupled with her growing excitement, perhaps he can get her sexuality to blossom even more.

I'm lovin this thread

It sounds like Peter can read Japanese women pretty well, and as such, he's taking it easy at this early stage. I'm sure when he feels the time is right, he'll be a little more assertive with her. For now though, it doesn't sound like the timing is right anyway, due to the coming holidays etc.

Anyway, here's hoping Peter does read her pretty well, and recognise when the time is right....to stop being Mr Nice Guy, and become, Mr No-Strings-Attached Bull for sex. My guess is...that time is fast approaching.

Have a great holiday with your wife.
DCG

Technology is a wonderful thing. Internet access readily available and portable so Peter and my wife are continuing to flirt with each other online. He has been updating me along the way as well. He asked me if he should ask my wife for a picture of herself. And if so what type. He was worried it might turn her off somehow.

What do readers of this thread think? My wife is usually conservative about this type of thing but she has surprised me in the past. She is also so pent up these days who knows what she will do. Or maybe I keep both of them pent up until their first night together?

I seriously doubt that him asking her for a picture, of some sort, is going to be a negative thing. She can decline to do that....or she can comply with the request. Either way, she has control of what photo she takes and sends. If I were him, I'd test the water, and ask her for a photograph. He doesn't have to be too specific, at this point. Just leave it quite "open" to her interpretation of what type of photo he might like to get.

Just asking the question, is showing what type of man he is....that he will take control and ask, probe, require. That alone, is a positive message to give her, I believe.

Either way, it will increase the sexual tension between them, not decrease it.

- David
DCG

tell him to ask her for a photo, if she asks what kind, he should say "your face, why what kind did you mean?"

if she giggles or equivalent (I know this will be a kind of chat/email giggle) then he should say "oh that kind of photo! mmmmm" but leave it at that. You don't want him to sound like a perv, let her drive that.

Ideally he and she would conspire to make you take them and have a good laugh about it behind your back but having him suggest this would be a high risk strategy.

Are you sure she doesn't know you are reading her mail?

I like the way you think, sexyboygirl....that's a clever ploy.
DCG

I'm lovin this

I told Peter to be non-pushy as he has been and let her send at her pace.

In the meantime I am taking pictures on our vacation. She is so horny these days I am sure to get some pictures on the naughty side. Would be interesting to see if she ends up sending any of those pictures I took to him.

That would be interesting indeed !
DCG

Back from vacation with a quick update. Took some nice pictures while on vacation. One benefit of the cuckold status is an extraordinarily horny wife! Peter asked for pictures of her without specifying what type at first. As sexyboygirl predicted, she coyly asked what kind. He was equally coy and said anything is fine but of course he would love to see as much of her beauty as possible. She said she will think about it so we will see what happens. On the meeting front, something in September is likely to be scheduled. Dates still falling into place so keep your fingers crossed.

Great to hear from you again YouHerUs... i hope you had a wonderful vacation with your wife... cant wait to hear what happens next... looks like things are certainly going in the right direction... would love to see some of the recent pics of your wife... keep us all informed...

sexyboygirl

"There is nothing particularly promiscuous about asian women." Too true.

For the most part I find them very conservative. Oddly enough, even the ones who were whores in their former life....are most often like this.

With Asian women, their devotion to their man should never be confused with submissiveness or proclivity to be promiscuous or not. They are hardwired quite differently than western women.

If they come to sense that you (the man) wants someting, even if they say now, they will ultimately try to get that for you. Whatever it is.
Joe Preston

Well said redimac ! I couldn't agree more with those observations.

They're easy to like, that's for sure. Fascinating, wonderful women...
DCG

YOUHERUS,
Any updates? Did your wife ever send any pictures?

Fingers crossed ... for an update. I enjoy this thread!

Maybe she found this thread and now YouHerUs gets kept locked in a cage underneath the stairs when he isn't serving her and her lover. That's why he doesn't get to post anymore.

Sorry for the long silence. Been too busy. Also been disappointed. Peter turned out to be a more an ass than a bull. He has cold feet and has been making excuses for seeing my wife again. Perhaps his wife suspects something and she has his balls on a leash. If something interesting develops I will post again.

Sorry to learn of what has happened in regards to Peter. Whatever the reason for him getting cold feet and making excuses...I understand why you are so disappointed.

Here's hoping that another Bull comes onto the scene soon....one who isn't big on talk and low on action.

I'm left wondering if you shouldn't simply bring the whole cuckolding issue out into the open with your wife....and let her know that you'd be comfortable with her taking a lover or two on the side. Be sure to explain first that you are already perfectly happy with everything in your marriage, and that her pleasure and your enjoyment of the cuckold role, are what motivates you to be open minded about this issue. Who knows, if you went that way, you could actually make more progress in this area. Rather than rely on dumb luck, you could proactively seek out Bulls for her to consider. ....Just a thought.
DCG

I think you are right David. What happened with the ex-boyfriend to start all this off was chance and unlikely to just happen again. My wife is surely sexually frustrated at this point. She left a banana by the side of the bath tub the other day. Wonder what she was doing with it?

Why don't you just confess that you know about her last BF, it turns you on, and you want her to do it again? Why sit on the side lines and play games? Just talk to her and maybe both of you will get what you want.

If I were you YouHerUs, I'd have an open and very frank discussion with her, in relation to this issue. You could ease into it, and simply confess to having a fantasy of being cuckolded by her. You could tell her how much it excites you, to think of her having a secret lover. If you admitted your position in relation to that, you would effectively give her permission to do it. You would certainly be giving her a green light...and it would be easier for her to admit that she had fantasies about doing it. You need not cover old ground in telling her you knew about the old boyfriend. Anyway, I think you could move this issue forward positively, if you chose to.
DCG

I think it's more exciting if she doesn't know that you know.

I think that it is more exciting that she knows that you know , but i wouldnt tell her that you have known what she has been up to unless after a frank chat she tells you.

For my two cents worth of advice i think it is a good idea that you start to bring this out into the open with her and see where it gets you . Why dont you tell her that a friend at work has found out his wife was having an affair and it turns out the husband was happy to have found out. then tell her it is a fantasy of yours and see what her reaction is

An update....

My wife and I recently attended a formal party. One of those fancy fundraisers. She sometimes wear a kimono for this type of thing and did so for this event. As usual turned quite a few heads. After we got home and started to undress she said to me how in the ladies room, many women ask her the same question...what does she wear under the kimono? I told my wife that I am sure many men were wondering the same thing all night. We sort of laughed about that.

At this point she had only loosened the obi but still mostly dressed. We were standing in front of a full length dressing mirror. I started to do a little bit of role play and pretended to be a stranger coming up behind her and trying to peel back the layers of her kimono. I whispered in her ear things like, "so what's under there?, why don't you show me?, just a quick peek?" She started to get into it and leaned back against me. I slowly pulled back the outer layer and then the inner layer to expose her breasts. I parted the bottom part of her kimono to expose her crotch (she wears panties underneath but no bra...now you know!)

Anyway, we were soon both naked and hopped into bed. She was really aroused from that game. After we had sex and were just lying in bed, I asked her if a strange man really did come up to her and ask what she wears underneath, what would she say? She thought about it and said probably "it's a woman's secret." I said to her, "maybe if it is a good looking guy, you can reward him with a peek." She sort of got a naughty look in her eyes and said in a somewhat joking tone "well...if he is REALLY good looking."

I figure that's my opening and I better take it now or never. So I said to her, "You know, I think it will be very exciting to see you play with another man. You will be so sexy flirting in one of your kimonos or some other sexy dress. Men were watching you all night. I think you know that and you enjoy the attention right?" She said of course and then got quiet. Then she said, "So what are you saying?" I said, "That I don't mind if you play with another man as long as I know you are safe." She was quiet for a bit longer then she asked, "So you want to be with another woman? Is that it?" I said, "No..I just think it will be exciting to see you enjoy yourself with another man." She looked at me kind of funny. I am not sure if she believed me. All she said was "Interesting idea. Go to sleep." She then got up to go to the bathroom to finish taking off her make up and perform her various bedtime rituals. I did not push the matter but I think the seed has been planted.

That is awesome! I love the way that you told her when you had that chance. Hopefully now she knows its ok with you for her to take a lover. I wonder if she try to talk this out more with you and come to an agreement or if she will just do it without you knowing about it.

hey there Youherus... great to see this latest development... i just hope that she is not worried about you taking another woman now.. i think it is important for you to ensure that she believes and understands where you are coming from... i think if you bring the topic up again in a few days and make it clear with her what you want etc. that it might help to reassure her that you still only want her... but congrats and it looks like things are going in the right direction for you! enjoy and looking forward to the next update! Great thread!