My Introduction Story II

Looks promising mule. just keep up what your doing, let the natural progression happen. u are slowly but surely becoming her sissy slut. let her have complete control and with time the natural thing will happen.

i wouldnt read tooo much into the gym sessions, as you might be giving the situation high expectations when nothing might be happening. if something does or is happening then thats great (and soo hot) but its important to be realistic with the situation.

i love this post because your right at the start of your cuckold journey and it so hot reading it all unwind. i would carry on at the pace you are and carry on mentioning it to her. of course you shouldnt go over the top as you say. it has to be her decision to do this, you cant make her do this. remember your becoming the sub and she the dom so she has complete control. when she is ready she will do it im sure. have faith in her curiousity, her domination and control, her frustration and her sexiness and confidence.

i think your last post has the best signals so far. not to do with the gym but what she was saying.

first quote is signs that she has acknowledged that this is what you are and that there doesnt seem to be any confusion anymore if this is what you want. this is becoming the norm for her now.

the second lot of stuff she said in bed show she is taking control of in the bedroom and of your sexuality. keep this kind of thing up. make it the regular. remember cuck, you are no longer allowed to have what you want in the bedroom. she chooses and controls everything. and if you are too horny you will just have to masturbate from now on. she should always start things off and she is the one who needs to be in the mood.

therealsea - thanks for the advice and words of encouragement!

As far as the verbals she used last night, I couldn't tell if she was truly meaning those words, or knew those words would make me hard being so tired as that I was. Maybe she knew saying those things would get me up just enough for her to enjoy herself. But I guess at the same time, in the end, she was doing what she needed to do just to get herself off and use me either way.

I agree with you saying I shouldn't read too much into some situations, especially the gym one. As I know nothing is happening, but nonetheless, it's just opens the door for that possibility or thought to enter my head. Although, yes, It would be extremely hot if something were true. As even though my fantasy here is watching her with someone else. I can't help but think it might even be hotter to find out she is doing it secretively and just not telling me because she isn't 100% sure this is what I really really want and also doesn't want to hurt me, as explained as why she hadn't told me she sometimes thinks of others when using her toys or when we have sex. She knew it was hot for me, but still was hesitant in saying anything as to not hurt me or feel like she was being mean. But yes, in the end probably nothing here of substance.

little tidbit of things....

Last night we were hanging out with friends and one of her friends is getting married out of state, I believe over this Summer. She right now is unsure if she will be able to go due to work and expenses, but she does want to go and feels bad for her friend if she is not there. If she did go she would go with one of her friends here (who is a bit wild herself) and they would meet up with girlfriends down there and stay at some girls house. One of the friends we were with last night said, they might also be able to stay at a guys house that she knows down there. I heard that and I got an instant pit feeling in my stomach...All of a sudden a rush of all these images and situations crossed into my mind. I couldn't imagine my wife staying at some dudes house with a bunch of girls, especially because out of all her friends my wife is the most attractive one. And knowing she would have a green light, because i would assure her before she left that being out of town like this would be a great way to test the waters...and after a couple of party nights who knows what could happen...

I highly doubt she would stay at the guys house with her friends, but if she did go down she would stay at this girls house that they know through another friend, so either way she would be down there with a bunch of girls and who knows what would be going on...But driving home last night thinking of getting a text or something saying she did it, or that she was out partying I just got this rush of emotion, almost as if it really had happened already. For whatever reamister I truly felt like it will or would happen if she went down there and if that feeling I got was anything like the real thing of being a cuck, then it is one heck of a feeling. That pit fall feeling in your stomach, yet I was hard as could be!

I didn't bring anything up about the trip or talk about it, as it appears it might not even happen and I will wait until she says she is going before I bring anything up..

Later that night though we were just hanging out on the couch and she brings up out of nowhere that she wants to try getting edible treats and lick it off each others bodies...It was out of nowhere that she said this. But adds to the beginning list of she is starting to express her sexual desires and starting to get ideas on her own of branching out and trying different things.

But the main thing is, I can't get the feeling out of my head of thinking of her on a trip with a bunch of girls and something actually happening! It is incredibly hot to think about and makes it feel so real. I hope she will be able to go as it really could be the door that needs to be opened for this to happen.

I forgot to add, when the friend suggested they could even stay with a friend she knows down there, my wife didn't freak out and say "no!" Or "That be weird!" Like I would expect her to say, she didn't really say much at all, almost seemed like she was thinking about it as of a way to go to the wedding and save money without having to pay for a room.

I got curious and started researching top male fetishes and fantasies, it took me to askmen and while reading the top 10 fetishes and fantasies I realized that all sounded pretty hot to me and completely willing to participate in all of them. Also, many in the top 10 on there are some of my most wanted fantasies/fetishes..Cuckolding, submissive/Dom, feet, latex/leather.

So I got to thinking, "huh I wonder if I can find the same list only from a womens perspective." So on the same site I found the top 10 for women. There are plenty that coincide with the mens fantasies, one that caught my eye were the 'Having sex with a stranger' and 'Having sex with two men' ...Both sound hot, but they described the having sex with two men being both men serving the wife and the wife simply enjoying both. Even more hot was knowing this was like #3 on the list of most common!

I am now wondering, well if many of my fantasies are on the mens top 10 list, my wifes certainly has to have some on the womens top 10? And if I am willing to participate in all the ones listed on the mens side, would my wife be willing to participate in the ones on the womens list?

She has admitted to fantasizing over other men at times. I just wonder why she is so hesitant when this appears at times to be something hot to her and she knows I am for it. My guess is she was raised on good values and was very very shy sexually when we met, I basically opened her up to everything so far, so I guess her sex life has only been active for about 6 years. While my mind has been dirty for a long, long time.

I do think that with the patience and slow process continuing as it has, over time she will probably do it. Since we are still very young it is something that will just take time to get to. I also think that since she is somewhat shy and new to things, that once she does or ever does it, she will really like it, probably love it. But lately I have had real feelings of her doing it and preparing myself for it and my goodness is it hot! I get this pit in my stomach and then I feel a hard on come along.

I just found it interesting that in a way, cuckolding is one of a women's top fantasies, actually higher on the list then males. I believe male was #10 under "Sharing your partner" while #5 on the women's list was having sex with a stranger and #3 was having sex with two men.

Update:

Yesterday, earlier in the morning I suggested to the wife that we read an exotic story that night, she didn't seem to mind the idea and agreed to it. As the night came, we were just goofing around and she said something about "watching something" I jokingly asked, "something naughty!?" Knowing full well she meant a show or movie on TV..Her response surprised me, "Well, yeah, we can later." In a tone that expressed she actually wanted to watch something online! I was excited and for the rest of the night anxiously awaited what video she would choose.

As the time came, we sat down on got on the computer, I tried my best to keep my composure and not have a raging hard on, so that I could last awhile. I took her to a site and let her pick the category, as there are hundreds of categories to choose from. I believe her first one was picking some video under 'public places' it was a short clip of what appeared to be two amateurs on a boardwalk at the beach. Then it was my turn to pick something, she asked, "what do you want to watch?"

I told her, "Well, you probably don't like the ones I like to watch." I gave a little laugh, hoping she would disagree and say something comforting like she actually does enjoy them. Instead she said, "Well don't you like anything that isn't dominatrix?"

I said, "sure" and went to the category labeled 'Socks' which provided several videos of women in knee high and calf high socks having sex. When she started seeing the pictures she said things like, "Oh you like these." "You want me to wear socks like this for you?" and pointing to one, "Aren't these the socks you want me to get for the gym?" As she pointed to a pair of knee highs with colored striping around the top. So, we watched one under this category and we moved on to another choice made by her.

She picked a 'Jacuzzi' category, while watching a clip in this one, I finally touched her to see how she was doing, she was somewhat wet, but she has been wetter before while watching videos.. After the Jacuzzi clip was over I picked a femdom category in which she actually picked the video within the femdom category...She pointed to a picture of a guys face in the mistress' ass and said, "Look at this one, he has a harness that keeps his face in her ass the whole time, so no matter where she goes his face is always in her ass." It seemed hot, but what was interesting was, looking at the picture, I couldn't even tell what it was! How did she know!? I am one who goes to that category at least a couple times a week and know all the little toys and gadgets under femdom and I couldn't even make out what that video was about, I couldn't tell he had a harness that kept him sladyed, all I could see was him getting sladyed, but not the description she described about it. Which made me wonder if at all possible, could she be watching these things herself!?!? Highly unlikely, but it caught me by surprise...Anyways, we watched that one and I mentioned how hot it was.

It was then her turn to pick a category, and I swear she was looking for the 'cuckold' category. She scrolled to the C's (as they are alphabetically listed) and I thought I caught her looking for something under the C's, she didn't see anything (As the C's are broken up, because they start at the lower end of page and continue back near the top) and so she scrolled back to the top. Again, it seemed like she was looking at the C's. I spotted the 'cuckold' title and was screaming in my head for her to pick it, dying for her to pick it on her own. Also, at this point I really felt like I wanted to open up and just express to her that this is what I wanted. She hovered the mouse near 'cuckold' but ultimately stopped and picked something else. But I fully believe she was looking for it, just felt like she was either at least looking for it and couldn't find it, OR she found it, was hesitant for her to actually click it and was hoping in her head I would suggest clicking it...But something felt like she was wanting to find it and watch it.


After she picked her category (i wasn't sure what it was as I was still fixated on the 'cuckold' link) the video didn't load properly so she suggested I pick again and said, "you can pick another category if you want" so I did and I did something similar as to what she had just done, I hovered my mouse over the C's and in my head hoping she would suggest the 'cuckold' category...She didn't say anything so I just picked it while she wasn't looking while she was giving me a kiss.

As the hundreds of images popped up to advertise for a cuckold video appeared, my wife grew silent, but she wasn't rejecting anything...I carefully started looking for the right video, as I didn't want to click on one too extreme as it would turn her off and it seems like a lot of cuckolding videos get to that extreme point where it would cross the line for my wife. So as I was carefully looking for one, SHE actually points out one to watch! "How about that one? You'd like that she has those socks you like."

Sure enough, there is an image of a girl doing reverse cowgirl wearing knee high socks! I quickly clicked it and we started watching it..It seemed tame as the video started off with the girl telling the cuck that she needs something bigger and better, I clicked ahead after that as I know my wife doesn't like the storylines of these videos and just wants to get to the action...And it shows her getting fucked by this guy and the cuck is sitting on the couch watching, jacking off...During this scene my wife says, "You would just love this wouldn't you?" Before I could agree, she adds, "It will never happen." Although that seems like a damming statement that does say she will never do it, I truly don't think that is what was meant. She said it, but don't think she truly meant it, because it wasn't a hard "it will never happen." It was a playful tone, hard to explain, but in the past she would have said that and she would have meant it and the tone of her voice would have expressed that, but this time it was different...

We continued to watch the video and I again felt her to see if she was enjoying it, she was definitely wet and more wet than the previous time I felt. When I felt her she grabbed my penis and gave it a few tugs, I was super stiff. We kept watching and she seemed entrenched by it...I looked at her hands at the corner of my eyes when I wasn't touching her and could see her slowly, very slowly, but slightly rubbing herself as she watched. She hadn't touched herself in any of the previous videos..

The video was long, probably around 20 minutes, and it was just fucking with the guy watching, it was good, but I figured after awhile she might be getting bored so I fast forward to the final 3 minutes...Well the place it stopped after I fast forward was the cum was already on the girls face..My wife goes, "Go back! We missed the ending, we missed the good part!"

I was shocked! so I quickly went back a couple minutes and it showed the guy pulling out and cumming all over the girls face. After that my wife grabbed my dick and said, "Lets go, I'm ready." I didn't argue as she got up to leave, I was about to click out the browser to follow her, but waited to see the final ending to see if she made her cuck clean up...I waited a good 30 seconds and my wife waited to as she stopped at the door way to look back, no clean up happened and we both left to the bedroom.

She immediately took her pants off and I began fucking her, After only a couple seconds she already moans "I don't want to cum yet!" She was SUPER wet and was already about to cum!! I was doing better than her! I slowed down and kissed her a bit, threw in a couple of dirty talk talking about the videos we just saw and if she liked that, she just moaned yes..After a minute or so she wanted to ride me and got on top of me and after a minute or so of that she couldn't hold it and had a long and seemed to be great orgasm. She got off of me and laid next to me, my dick now soaking wet and super hard. She was out of breathe as she said, "I bet you want to taste my cum now."

I moaned yes and she rubbed herself with her finger and stuck her finger in my mouth, "Taste it!" She demanded, "Do I taste good?" She asked after I sucked her finger clean. I just moaned yes and she began the talk I had been waiting for...."You're so pathetic, I need a big dick to fuck me, a bigger thicker dick to fuck me better than you."

I was getting super horny and was trying to hold back from cumming as I wanted to hear more. I would moan questions like, "you want a big dick?" and she would reply, "oh yes, I need one to do a better job than you."

She continued, "I'd make you watch in the corner as he fucked me." .....After hearing that I felt like my dick was going to pop out of me and I immediately stopped jerking off and got on top of her and started fucking her. "whoa baby!" she said with a surprise..

Part of me was doing that out of extreme hornyness and couldn't control myself, the other part of me did that to show her how hot that would be..I started to slowly fuck her to contain myself from cumming early. I then couldn't control my words as I was overwhelmed with being horny and started expressing what i wanted..

"You make me watch you fuck a big dick?" I moaned as she replied, "mmmmhmm you'd be lucky to watch." I moaned some more and reassured her by saying, "I'd love to watch you fuck a big dick." I continued by telling her "You could dress up sexy for him and fuck him good while I watched."

she siad, "oh yea, i'd be hot." I couldn't hold it anymore i mumred something that I think came out, "i want you to fuck someone." And i pulled out and came all over her.

Afterwards we both laid there out of breathe and I again told her how hot that was. Then a kiss goodnight and she rolled over and went to relax.

Phew......Long long post, so sorry if you got lost or it wasn't as interesting as you'd hope a long length of a post this would be...But definitely definitely felt like a little progress was made with this...Even though she made that statement early on, those were her words, not what her body or emotions were saying. From her apparent interest in the video, to how wet she got, to how quickly she came in bed, and the tone in which she said "You would love this" about this cuckolding video and the tone she said "It will never happen" all made it seem like she might be opening up to the idea...Sounds crazy since she said what she said, but everything else leads me to believe something positive happened.

i also feel like now, I can be more open about the subject..And I think that is because i feel like she is becoming more comfortable with the subject.

Anyways, weekend is over and it is back to work..Which i actually look forward to work now as during the work day is when I get the best chance to talk about things as we are both bored during the day. I am trying to think of some ways to bring up the subject again..The following is how I plan on bringing it up..

-Tell her I had a very realistic dream that she cuckolded me and that I have this weird feeling, a pit in my stomach, yet very hard...And emphasize how real the dream felt.

-be simple and tell her how hot last night was.

-Bring up a misterg I heard on the radio, which is new, and ask her if she knows the band and hope she mentions she likes it...I know the misterg and band already, New fallout boy misterg, which seems to have cuckolding lyrics behind it...Once she tells me what it is I am hoping she mentions she likes it, that is when I will tell her it has a cuckolding meaning to it...

A couple ideas there, which you think is best? They are all subtle, but think they could work to get things talking, the ones I don't use I can use later.

That's it for now, sorry for the extremely long post, but a lot happened and I needed to get it all out!

I am also wondering if it would be better to be silent about it and not say anything and let it settle for a day or two before I bring it back up..And also while i Don't say anything, hope she might bring it up on her own. But at the same time could be a great chance to capitalize on a good opportunity by talking about it more.

I think you need to tell her just how hot it made you. I have a feeling it did the same for her.

As for losing interest, only someone who isn't interested in sex could lose interest in this. I think it is very hot. As a matter of fact, I feel a restroom break is necessary right now!
Loving Wife, Mother, and Bryan's Slut

Thank you donna!

Well what a difference a few hours at work makes...I went into the workday feeling like I might have made huge progress and we were on the verge of her admitting she would try it..To after a few texts hearing that she isn't interested and feels as if it is cheating..

It started off with me telling her that last night was super hot and a lot of fun. She agreed and said it was fun as well...SO I am thinking, so far so good...So I eased into the situation and asked her what video she liked the best and she said "Ummm all of them were good." I then asked her if she got any new ideas she would want to try or anything new from watching the videos, she said, "Not that I can think of what about you?"

Again, I am thinking pretty good as she said all videos were good that means cuckolding one as well...She asks me that question, I told her the footjob while driving, the slave who was attached to his mistress ass and the cuckolding one..I slipped the cuckolding one in there last but grouped it with those others.

She sent a text back saying, "Yeah those were fun! I'd try them!" I could believe what I was reading! Now I know she probably didn't mean the cuckolding one, but for a moment there I had a lot of hope, maybe she did notice that one? So I sent an excited message back saying, "ALL of them!!!??"

I waited anxiously for her response, she didn't text back immediately which sucked as I had a quick stand up meeting to attend. I put my phone on vibrate and walked into the meeting. I was so anxious to get a response I couldn't even focus on my boss talking. All of a sudden my phone vibrates, my heart started racing a mile a minute. Hundreds of thoughts are running through my head, all awhile the hope of she saying something like "maybe..." knowing full well she saw and acknowledged the cuckolding, but I also kept calm knowing that she most likely would say "well not the cuckolding one." It was *******ing me that I couldn't open my phone and the meeting seemed to drag on for eternity. Finally, it was over and I immediately reached into my pocket and pulled out the message,

"well not the cuckolding one hahaha" it read. What a downer....I responded with "oh haha" leaving bait out there that there was a hint of disappointment in it.

"Do you like want to do that for real?" was a text I got back very quickly...Again, my heart raced. I didn't know what to say...Was this a trap question? Was I doomed either way? IF I said yes would she get mad? If I said no would I lose my chance of moving things forward? I decided I will let her control which direction the answer went. SO I sent back.

"Well.."

Within seconds my phone went off, it read, "Tell the truth!" Again, I was stuck in a position where I had to decide to come clean and indulge her with my true wants and risk this whole thing blowing up, or play it cool and keep it to myself, but risk losing a golden opportunity, because what if i say yes and she says yes?? I decided the 'what ifs' wasn't worth it and told her the truth..

I sent her, "Truth is, yes, if you wanted to and wanted to try it I would be up for it." I sent it and felt good about it..Hoping just hoping that she would respond with even an "ok...." or "maybe...." that would be it! Hell, she wouldn't even have to mean it just to tease me with the possibility would be hot enough for me..Looking back at the rest of events, I wish I would have added to it "before you respond, understand just the possibility of it happening is hot enough."

I got a phone call at the worst time, as when the phone rang and I picked up, I got another text...It was almost *** to be on this tedious business call while starring at my phone seeing the '1 new message' notification sitting there on the screen. My wildest fantasy might be waiting for me!

I opened it up and there it was....the message we don't want to hear.."I would NEVER do that...its cheating in my book."

I was a bit devastated..all hope lost? I realized after reading that it might be time to withdraw the troops a bit and pull back, but I wanted to clear things up just to know if maybe sometime down the road the hope and chance might still be alive..I responded "ok that's fine"

Her response to that was.."You are so kinky......" Weell now I was a bit confused. It is usually her game that if she wants something to stop she wouldn't respond to my last text of Ok that's fine, or if she would respond it would be something not related..So I felt like the door was left open a bit to continue our conversation..

I told her, "I know but seriously wouldn't be this kinky if you were so hot."

"Suuuuuuure" she responded.

"Your hotness makes my mind wander and think of things. Im serious I wasn't ever THIS kinky before I met you. I liked dominatrix and stuff before, but not cuckolding or anything."

"hahah ok"

Before I knew it I was just spilling my desires out there, I couldn't stop. "But something about how hot your are makes me want to see you get pleasured as good as you want and just to watch that..."

Then I added, "But it's not cheating if I know about it haha "

Her: "I think it is still...."

Thinking I lost all shot here, I asked one more question to see if maybe down the road there was hope.

"Be honest, do you not want to do it because its wrong? But you still think its hot? Or not hot at all?" Figuring if she finds it hot then there is always hope that down the road she changes her mind on things. But knowing I was doomed if she said it wasn't hot at all.

"Ummm I can see how it can be hot, but I do think it's wrong and can cause so many issues."

Liked hearing that she didn't say it wasn't hot...As for the can cause issues part i figured this would be a good time to let her know I would be there for her.."Yea it can that's why I said only if you wanted to because if so we'd have to talk and set rules and everything."

"It would just be weird being with another man."

I figured I better get off trying to push her any more otherwise I might get her mad...So I said, "But if you see how it can be hot and maybe we can fantasize a way to make it seem real."

She suggested, "We could use toys."

"Yes! Like get dressed up like you would if you were going on a date and let me watch you use a toy while I sit in the corner."

"Ok" was her reply

I also suggested she go out with her friends and dress sexy, leaving me at home wondering what happened, if anything..

I ended trying to lighten the mood and asked if she was mad at me now or disgusted with my dirty mind.

She said, "no hahaha. I always knew all this about you." she continued, "You let me shop. I let you be kinky......"

I said it was a good trade off and and she agreed and I kept things quiet for awhile...

I sent her a text later in the day telling her that our conversation earlier has just made me want to be naughty. She asked like what.

I told her she could choose, either tonight she cuckolds me with a toy or tomorrow we role play Dom/Sub all day, I leave for work locked up in chastity and later that night I taker her to dinner and she dresses up in her dom outfit she said she would be willing to wear publicly and we go all out and maybe she wears heavy make up like dominatrix do.

her response was "Ok!!!" I figured with the exclamation marks she must actually want to do that. I suggested a few things to her like we go shopping after dinner and she buys clothes and she make service her in the dressing rooms. (goes along with her fantasy of doing it in public places) I figured she would reject and say something like "naughty boy.." or "babe...." Sorta along the lines of 'yeah right' but instead I got..."Oooooooohh yes!!!! I love that idea"

Sounds good to me! I told her that she is going to have to play along all day because I'll need something to keep my occupied while locked up, it will be *******ing me. and I asked her if she was ready for that.

"hahahha sure...."

That was the end of the convo...

So an up and down day as far as progress. Who knows. One thing is for sure, she does enjoy being a Dom more than she use to. Progress has definitely been made there...Gotta run I'll add more thoughts later.

I lost my train of thought of what I was going to add at the end of that last post. But I guess we will see where things go. The fact that she is not just more comfortable being a Dom now, but seems to have fun with it shows the progress has come a long way since I first told her of my fantasy of being a sub. I am also sure after tomorrow she will enjoy it more with the fact that she sorta gets to dress up and play a character so to speak, with the heavy make up and somewhat provocative outfit that portrays her as a Dom.

And since she was a shy conservative very very vanilla when I met her and when she first attempted to take a dominant role to see her now, gives me hope that the cuckolding fantasy still has a chance. If she finds it a little hot now, but just feels like it is wrong, her mind can change over time. Maybe, now that we both have somewhat gotten more open to it with each other and with us using it more and more in role play or watching videos online - which can lead to her finding it more hot, she will become more comfortable with it and get use to the idea and see that it isn't 'wrong' and isn't 'cheating'

We are both still young and I am pretty sure down the road it will happen. Just got to keep in mind the slow and steady pace is vital.

I can't wait until tomorrow, full day of chastity is always a fun ride. Hopefully she plays along and sends naughty texts throughout the day...My wish would be she sneaks a pair of panties or socks into my lunch box and when I open it up there is a note that says, "enjoy your lunch " Ohhh boy would that be hot! But a huge surprise as I don't think her mind has gotten that naughty yet lol. I also hope that for our date she makes me wear something humiliating under my clothes, like her panties or stockings even. I would also love if at dinner she told me to go to the bathroom and handed me a pair of her socks or panties to sniff in the stalls. The fun games i Come up with in my head!! Wish she would come up with them! lol

I think you are handling this very well. Slow and steady is the way to go.

A journey of a thousand leagues begins with a single step.
Confucius
Loving Wife, Mother, and Bryan's Slut

Thanks Donna for the encouraging words. It is for sure a journey..Already have made great strides from day one on this whole thing. But a long and awaited journey makes the ending result so much more rewarding.

Anyone have any ideas for what we or she can do to me for our outing tonight? I tried looking online for things Doms can do to their subs in public, but didn't really come up with anything.

I want to give her a few ideas to think about during the day and see if she chooses some tonight. Remember, she isn't super crazy kink in public...yet..so nothing too outrageous (Although I'd love that) but subtle naughty ideas would be great!

Have her order for you in the restaurant, acting to the waiter as if you have no choice in that, or any other matter.

Have her ask the waiter where the LITTLE boys room is, as you need to use it.

Order a take and have her overrule it, telling the waiter that you will have a Shirley Temple. Answer with "Yes Mam. I am sorry Mam.
Loving Wife, Mother, and Bryan's Slut

dude you need to let her know that cuckolding isnt cheating! she is obviously worried how cuckolding might affect the relationship. she probably looking out for you as it sounds she is very happy in the relationship and doesnt want to risk hurting it. you need to be clear with her that this is what you want and that you will always be there. dont give her riddles and games. be honest!

theres a difference between the emotional connection with a partner and the sexual. you need to be clear with this distinction and let her know that you two will always have that special bond that none of her other sexual partner can have.

this is what she really cherishes and is afraid to harm. you need to let her know that her having sex with hot studs wont affect this at all.

its communication thats all. tell her how much you love her and why you want to do this. obviously she finds the idea hot! who wouldnt! but you need to tell her the honest truth and let her know this is what you want and that it will be an exciting journey that both of you can go on together and will make closer not push you further apart.

Donna - those are great ideas! I love the thought of her asking where the little boys room is. Great ideas!

realsea - I absolutely agree with you. But I felt like at that current time it wasn't the appropriate time to continue pushing the subject. I now know where she stands and how to work it from there. I told her we would have to talk about everything and set rules if she was interested. I was running on fumes with the discussion and thought that had I continued pushing it, it might have set me back a ways. But I agree with you and will definitely use your advice down the road. I also think with her that if I come at it the way you describe it, as this is what I really want and it's just sex and nothing emotionally attached and if we both want to try it it can be an experience that can bring us closer together. Great idea..Now that i know she just thinks it's wrong and not having trouble thinking it's hot I have an angle to work from. I also watered the seed as she now knows I do want it, but it's her from stopping it from happening.

So far for today.....

I got home from the gym this morning before work and quickly put on my cage. As I was leaving she asked, "is it on?" I said yes and she walked over and grabbed it, "good" she said. She also asked me what she should wear, I told her I thought she was going to wear the dom outfit she said she would willingly wear in public, she said, "Oh yeah...Well I will look online and get ideas of what to wear." I left for work already fighting my cage with a hard on...

As I got to work it wasn't long before I got several messages from her..They were pictures of an outfit she had picked out. Knee high black boots, black skinny jeans, a silk tank top covered by her leather jacket. Her hair is going to be slicked back in a pony tail or bun (Not sure which yet) and she is going to wear some over the top make up. She asked me how I liked the outfit and before i could even respond she said, "I think it's hot."

I told her that I could already feel my cage restricting my boner and she responded with "good....." I told her how much I liked wearing the cage as everytime I thought of her I was reminded I was completely owned by her. She responded with, "good. I love controlling you."

Now as I expected she wasn't giving me dirty raunchy texts all day long to tease me. Although I would have loved that she rarely seems to do that, but i do know she sometimes gets busy at work and doesn't have time. I mentioned to her to see if she could find time to search online for some kinky ideas to do in public. (Much like i asked here) and she said she would look..Hasn't told me anything so I guess it will be a surprise to see if she found anything or not.

I also asked if wearing her black corset would be visible under her shirt..Expecting her to say I was crazy for thinking such an idea, she said, "oh! maybe! I'll have to see" I followed that by mentioning to her that I read somewhere where it can be sexy to wear kinky things under clothing so that only you and the other permister know...Hoping to lead into her telling me to wear some panties or stockings out!

I also mentioned to her that if she wanted to feel naughty like me wearing my cage, she could wear her ben wa balls that we got awhile back, she has only worn them a couple of times and the few times she has she says it feels super good and at times can almost give her an orgasm. So I suggested she wear those, again expecting her to say no or seem put off by it, she said. "Yeah I will...if they stay in.." She wears these things there is no telling what the night might bring!

I didn't recieve any texts most the day, which was a bit disappointing because here I am locked up, so I sent her a message suggesting an idea she could use or not, since she is the Dom she chooses what games we play. But I told her a humiliating game we could play is...She mentions to me when she notices a guy checking her out and also she shows me guys she finds hot and fuckable.

She just sent back. "baby...." Now that is either a, Come on that's ridiculous, answer...or as she has mentioned in the past her "...'s" mean it's a good idea..So we will see if she plays this.

Anyways, waiting for her to get home and she will begin to get ready. I was hoping for more teasing throughout the day but she must have gotten busy. As for entertaining myself, it was quiet the rush going to the bathroom today. Having to sit down to go pee was a bit humiliating within itself.

I will update as the night unfolds and what happens.

She got home and while getting dressed she has agreed to wear her black corset under her clothing and jacket and also try to wear the benwa balls! I really didn't have to push her too much to try them on either, the only problem I had was getting her to wear the knee high boots she promised me she'd wear. They looked super hot, but with the weather being nice she thought it would be weird and was going to wear heels instead, but after sometime in the mirror she put on the knee high boots.

She is currently putting on make up...so hot to glance in there and see her getting ready..She looks super sexy and I can't wait to serve her and also see what she has conjured up for our night tonight!

I'm going nuts in my cage, I want to rub my hard on on her tight legs, but can't! It's *******in me! I am hoping when we get back home she cuckolds me with a dildo.

when she asks for the LITTLE boys room, have her hold up her fingers about two inches apart.
Loving Wife, Mother, and Bryan's Slut

Donna - that would have been great!

Recap of the night...

She got done getting dressed and picked out my outfit, nothing naughty or kinky to wear under my clothes..darn...but I was happy that she was wearing her benwa balls and corset under her own clothing so I didn't mind if I wasn't wearing any naughty outfits under mine. After all I had my cage. She looked absolutely so hot and she did a great job of almost going over the top with her outfit. I believe she sent a message to people with what she was wearing, I also believe that she really enjoyed being dressed up like that herself. I caught her multiple times checking herself out in mirrors or store windows, whenever given a chance to see herself she would catch a glimpse.

The plan was to go to the mall to get her some new clothes and then go to dinner before coming back home to have some fun. On the way to the mall and listening to the radio that new Fall Out Boy misterg came on, "my mistergs know what you did in the dark." Full knowingly it was Fall Out Boy, I played dumb and asked, "Is this Fall Out Boy?"

She replied, "yes." And I told her, "Huh, you know this misterg is about cuckolding." (No idea if true, but heard that lyrics suggest it and also Fall Out Boy has a previous misterg about cuckolding as well)

"really??" She asked with intrigue.

"Yeah, I read it somewhere, things in the lyrics suggest it is." I continued, "They have another misterg too about it where the music video and the misterg suggest it."

"Ohh." she said and proceeded to sing the lyrics of the older misterg trying to figure out the name, I helped her out by telling her it was Sugar We're Going Down swinging. She asked, "what in that misterg suggests it?"

I told her that there is a line where it says, "Im watching you two from the closet wishing to be the friction in your jeans. And their music video has the main character walking around with horns on his head."

"Horns on his head? Does that mean something?" She asked seeming a bit curious.

I told her, "Yeah, horns is a symbolic meaning of cuckolding."

She said, "Hmmm interesting, maybe one of them is one."

We got to the mall and while walking in I asked how her balls were doing.."Good!" she said happily, I asked her if she liked them and she said, "yeah! It feels really good, it definitely makes you feel horny..."

When we entered the mall I loved getting glimpses of guys checking her out as she walked by. I most definitely noticed it. What was weird, is, even in the past I would notice guys checking her out and even with this fantasy I would get jealous, but yesterday for whatever reamister I was very proud and wasn't so much jealous about it. We walked into one store where she started trying on clothes. I went into the dressing room with her and watched as she changed clothes and checked herself out in the mirror. There were people to both sides of us in the dressing room and the doors didn't even go down to the floor for full privacy, you could see someone's calf easily. Between changing and standing in her thong she would give me these super wet kisses. Finally, I started rubbing her and ended up going down on her. I was expecting her to say "NO!" since we were in public and people to the left and right of us in the dressing room and you could hear them talking, but she was silent and enjoyed it. I licked her for a minute or two and stopped. She just smiled and told me, "You liked that, I know."

As we started walking from store to store I would purposely hang back for a minute and walk behind her, enough distance to where it didn't seem like we were together..All awhile just looking around to see who would check her out. I noticed almost any guy she walked by would stare, even guys there with their wives or girlfriends would turn their heads as she walked by. It was great! She had no idea the reamister I walked behind her, but it was certainly hot to see the reaction of everyone. Usually when I am walking with her in public, I notice eyes turn and stare, but I hadn't ever gotten an opportunity to stand back and make others think she was alone, then I saw head turns, not just eyes..

When we got to dinner she sat down and said, "these balls feel reaalllly good." " I will definitely wear these again." she added. We ate, unfortunately no humiliating things done at dinner.

We got home and I was so ready for a hard domination session. I needed to go to the bathroom and she asked, "how do you go with that cage on?" I told her that I needed to sit down to pee. She laughed out loud that I had to sit down to pee. She came into the bathroom to watch me do it and as I sat there she laughed again saying, "You have to pee like a girl!" So hot as it was not a purposeful offense, but it most certainly was!

I had gotten undress and she too was getting undress, she kept her corset on, but took out her benwa balls. They were SOAKING wet!! You could see cum on them almost dripping off. We were both somewhat shocked at the amount..Then she grinned at me and said, "smell them." I did as I was told and smelled them. She then was about to wash them off in the sink, but grinned at me again and said, "I should make you lick them."

I told her, "Your my mistress, I do whatever you say."

She held out the benwa balls dripping in juice and said, "lick them!"

I slowly leaned in and took a huge lick of the most dense area. I could see a huge grin on her face and almost a shocked look as I did it. "How does it taste?" She asked.

I told her, "good mistress."

"good, now go lay down on the bed."

I almost ran to the bed in excitement for a great session. She came in and laid on the bed and immediately put her feet on my face. Super hot because her feet smelled, she hadn't showered that day and it showed! She rubbed her feet up and down my face demanding me to "lick them! and smell them!" I did as I was told and my constricted cock was doing it's best to break out of its cage. "Look at your pathetic locked up dick trying to get hard!" She said as she was shoving one foot in my mouth and the other covering my nose.

"I bet you want out of that, don't you?" She asked, I told her yes I badly wanted to get out and she had me go get the key. She unlocked me and laid back on the bed waiting for me. Me thinking we were going to have a naughty dom/sub session asked..

"are we doing anything?"

she said, "I can't wait any longer, I need you to fuck me, I need dick!" I figured she is the mistress and I do as I am told.

I started fucking her and she was super wet. I tried my absolute hardest to hold my orgasm in, but I couldn't wait any longer, as she was about to cum while riding my extremely hard cock I moaned I was going to cum as well. Problem was, I came too early as she was almost to her climax...oops..

I unloaded a huge load in her pussy and as she got off it came pouring back out. She was very frustrated again with my pre mature ejaculation. "You always do this!" She complained. "I guess go get my toy."

Feeling bad that I ruined it for her I got her toy and laid there next to her watching her use her vibrator, jacking myself off again trying to get hard for her so I could continue to get her to orgasm. "What are you doing?" She asked disgusted. I told her I was trying to get hard again..."No, don't bother it won't be the same. I'll just use my toy." I still was laying there jacking myself off and I did get hard again, I was thinking of that toy being some bull fucking her while I laid there stroking my pathetic dick.

As she was getting more into her toy I told her I was hard again, she didn't refute and said, "ok fuck me then. But you don't cum again after this, you don't deserve another orgasm."

"yes mistress" and I got on top of her and started fucking her again, she at first tried to just use me as she put her vibrator away, but it didn't last long and she acting a little annoyed started using her vibrator again along with me fucking her.

She did eventually orgasm, but pushed me out of her.

All in all even though we didn't have some hardcore dominatrix session where I was in my hood and she wore a strap on, it was a hot night and overall hot day. She seemed to have a lot of fun going out all dressed up and having those balls inside her. The only problem was is that I came too early and she said, "the problem with these kinky days is you ALWAYS cum too early." So we gotta figure something out..I suggested before I fucked her the first time that we use a toy to start off because I knew i was going to cum early, but she needed my dick.

Maybe next time I will give her a far ahead warning that it be best if she used a toy early on and then had me come in and fuck her when she was near orgasm. Or obviously the best solution would be to get a bull to do her right who is bigger and thicker than me and has a lot more stamina than I do!

I hope we get to play like this again soon. I will say overall things felt a little more comfortable in this role play. She definitely came off confident and that she enjoyed it.

you cant please her so dont even try. let her use the toy. she said herself she needs dick. eventually shell get frustrated and cuckold you

good words! Got a hard one just reading that!

Today I laid low, didn't bring up the anything naughty..I figured I would give her a day off from my naughty thoughts, until I got a text from her asking, "How is my naughty boy doing?"

I assumed she must want some entertainment in the kink realm, so I told her that I was good and of course thinking of her and how much fun yesterday was.

She said she had fun too and that she liked it...I asked her what was her favorite thing from the day and she said, "wearing my benwa balls out and wearing my corset."

I told her how I was getting hard everytime I thought of how hot she looked and I would have done anything she wanted."

Her response was, "Good!!!!!"

I kept it low and didn't really push anything or say much else. Just reassured her how hot she is and how I love being her sub.

I plan on getting back to talking dirty tomorrow. I would LOVE for her to take a pic holding the cuckold hand sign. Now that she knows the symbol is horns, I want to ask her if she would take a pic holding up the horns sign.

But I got thinking today, people talk about planting that seed and letting that seed grow. Well, one thing that could happen is now every time she hears that misterg she is going to be thinking of "cuckold" or maybe even now every time she hears a misterg by that band she might be thinking "cuckold" ?? Don't know! But if so, that is a good thing because that is a new misterg and the radio plays it a lot!

Update:

I will start by late last night when we were watching tv on the couch. This really probably doesn't do much, but the following shows she does have that naughty piece in her mind that just needs to be released..

As we were laying on the couch we were watching some show where they went into a gay bar, she mentioned that the bar on the show looked just like the one she had gone into when she had a girls night out when we were out of town...I didn't say much more than "oh." And next thing I know she is rubbing her feet on my dick and saying, "I bet you'd love it." Out of nowhere she says that!! Again, she said it in a super teasing voice and tone, and I am sure all mens wives innocently tease them with stuff like that, but it was still hot. She probably has no idea how hot that innocent teasing or innocent words she says sometimes.

Today..I sent her a text asking if she wouldn't mind putting a "spark" into my morning. She asked what and I told her when she had the time to send me a pic...She could dress sexy if she felt like it or just normal, whatever she wanted, but to send a pic of her holding up the horns sign...I didn't explain to her that it was the cuckold symbol, just told her to make horns with her hand...She just responded with "hahaha you're so weird..."

I didn't know if she knew what it meant or not, i was thinking she might at least be able to connect the dots together from the other night when i told her horns is the symbol of cuckolding. But I didn't bring it up. I then told her that I had a very naughty dream about her last night and that it felt extremely real, and I woke up with a pit in my stomach and my dick has been super hard everytime I think of it.

I was hoping she'd ask what the dream was about and I would begin to tell her that it was about her just coming home from the gym one night and just starring into my eyes and saying, "I did it." It was going to be something super subtle and clean. But she never asked what it was about.

A few hours after I requested the photos she sent me two...It was her in a black bra, black panties and leather thigh high boots and she was displaying the horns symbol! Better yet, the hand making the gesture was her ring hand! SOOOOO damn hot! And I let her know how hot that was! Even told her that putting that image into the dream I had makes me so horny I was almost out of breathe.

Still no question of what the dream was...I then asked her to send a caption with the pictures, asking, "If you were to say something with those pics what would it be?"

Her response: "..............you only wish......"

I kept telling her how hot that was and how hot she was in the picture.

I said "Thanks!" and again expressed how hot they were and she replied, "You're lucky you got those."

Later in the day I brought up the question of if she knew why I had her make the horns sign or why I wanted her to do that."

"No. Rock on?"

ohhh darn. I thought maybe she knew..I told her I thought she knew what it meant because her caption with the pictures seemed to sorta fit.

She asked what it was and I told her, "Looks like you have a little research to do "

So far nothing heard back...But the pictures is awesome, I got myself some nice material to look at!

Although she has said she won't do it...It is somewhat very hot to me that she knows she has the green light to do it and knows I want it that it's hot wondering if she is thinking about doing it or not. Even though highly unlikely, I got to thinking yesterday while she was quiet looking on facebook on her phone, if by any chance she was looking at some guys page and thinking to herself, "Could I fuck him? How could I approach it?"

Again, probably not going through her head as I don't think kinky thoughts run through girls heads as they do mens. Where I am seriously thinking about this all day long..But it's just hot knowing she knows I want it and I am just left wondering as you never know will one day it just click on her and she'll be interested? Is she thinking about the possibilities now? Is she getting more opened to the idea?

I think you are progressing nicely. Steady even pressure will win the day.
Loving Wife, Mother, and Bryan's Slut

Thanks Donna! I hope so! Although I am starting to run out of subtle new ideas to drop.

talk with her man. i still dont believe she knows that this is definitely what you want. dont be so subtle.

This is absolutely true. But, at the same time I can't come at her right away with this idea. It will turn her off and probably set me back several steps. I gotta make sure she is at the very least a little bit interested and go from there.

Maybe some people have the sort of wife where they just jump right into the pool, but with my wife and her being so vanilla and naive about this sort of kink world, you gotta have her get her toes wet first, then her feet, then she might be ready to jump in.

But my fear is I come out and just splurge she could get turned off to the idea. I also don't want to make her feel like she is pushed into this either.

You are on the right course. To hard a push and you could ruin all the progress you have made.

I recommend you keep showing her how popular cuckolding is and maybe read her some of the milder stories about it.
Loving Wife, Mother, and Bryan's Slut

I agree with Donna. She has enough hangups about it that it would be a bad idea to hit her right between the eyes with all of it at once.

xoxoxo

Christine

Not much to update, but a few little things..

the other night after having sex she watched me as I jacked off to her. While I was jacking off she started talking about a scenario.. She said, "When you were fucking me, I was imagining us fucking in a stall and people were around us knowing what was going on."

Super hot as she has never said anything like that before and I blew my load shortly after that.

Then just last night she was trying on clothes and asked out of nowhere said. "People at the gym love me."

I immediately got excited and asked, "how do you know!?"

"They always are staring at me." she said as she was checking out her ass.

I started rubbing up against her and was super hard, letting her know how hot that was to know. I even mentioned, "That's hot."

Shortly after that we ended up having sex. She seemed to really enjoy it, although there was no cuckolding mentioned or dirty talk.

When it was my turn to jack off, she said things like, "You're so pathetic, you only jack off to me you can't cum in me."

"I should just go to relax while you jack off."

"You don't deserve me."

"Pathetic little boy can't cum in me."

Finally she stuck her feet in my face and made me sniff and lick them as she hadn't showered from returning from the gym earlier that night..After I blew my load she said, "You're so pathetic you cum so easily from my dirty feet."

I might try to expand today on how hot the gym comment was. As it came out of nowhere and it was all on her own doing.

Steady. Steady. Good job.
Loving Wife, Mother, and Bryan's Slut

Thanks Donna, I hope the steadiness works.

I forgot to mention in my last post, the other day she bragged about getting hit on. I told her something about that someone found me attractive and wanted to know more about me, but they found out I was married and that was that.

So after I said that she says, "Well, I get hit on all the time. One time a guy asked if I had a boyfriend and I told him I was married, he got sad and said tell your husband I'm jealous."

I got excited and told her that was really hot and why she has never told me that before!?

She laughed and said, "You like hearing that?"

"Of course I did!!"

She smiled and walked off. I wish that guy whoever had the guts to talk to her would have also had the guts to not care she was married and asked her for her number or something, or at least pushed on the conversation showing he didn't care if she was married.