Sometimes it isn't all fun Part One

I’m not sure if my experience should really be posted here since I am only 50% cuckold - I don’t have a small cock (although it isn’t huge) and I love fucking women - I think I’d be a bull if I didn’t enjoy the lifestyle of my wife being fucked by other guys as much as I do. A bit of background: I was married to a wonderful girl who introduced me to this lifestyle. We had a great sexual relationship made so much better by her extraordinary ability to fuck just about anyone, enjoy it and no strings attached etc. Sadly, after 9 years of being together circumstances powerd us to go our separate ways, although we remain good friends. I since remarried and we have been together for 11 years now. She is the kind of woman who has no control over her emotional attachment to other guys and when it happens she has to fuck them - or as she would say, make love. Of course, most of the time they have only wanted a fuck buddy and she makes a very good one, but she is always after the romantic and emotional attachment which can lead her to become very upset if it doesn’t ‘work out’.

Since I have known her, she has had 11 men look after her sexual desires. But it is number 11 that this is all about. She met him at work 3 years ago and I could tell from the way she talked about him that she was very keen. She is white, petite and very pretty (of course I am biased but then a lot of guys have told me that she is) and he is Indian with very dark skin. Just after Christmas, she started going out after work for takes with her work mates; an unusual thing for her since she doesn’t like takeing that much, so I knew something was happening. You know, break with routine, out of norm behaviour etc - all the clues were there.

I should add here that I absolutely adore my wife being fucked by other men - I just love it - why else would I be on this site? Those of you out there who have experienced the thrill of it will understand completely and those of you who are still in the fantasy phase will think they know but believe me, until you’ve tried it, your wildest imagination won’t have prepared you for the feelings you get. I’m not knocking fantasy - I started that way too - I think we probably all start that way and its very horny!!

Well, one evening she came home quite late and said we needed to talk. I surprised her by saying that I knew she wanted to become involved with this guy and that did she need my permission? Now this last bit is quite fanciful really, since she does not need my permission and has never sought it on those occasions when the sex suddenly happened, but she is a very polite girl - most of the time! I asked her how certain she was that he wanted to have her and she told me that they had stolen passionate kisses in empty offices and he was always very flirtatious and forward and often making very horny suggestions to her. She wanted me to tell her how she should proceed.

Part Two - I said she should call his bluff - assuming she really was dubious about how much he wanted her after a deep throat kissing episode - and send him a text telling him that if he really wanted her he should make a very dirty suggestion and that she would do whatever he asked. She sent the text and of course he didn’t reply which got her worried. So we had a weekend of angst while she wondered if she had overstepped the mark. Nothing to worry about - back to work on Monday and he was all over her, asking why she sent the text, was she takes, did she really mean it etc etc. She came home very horny and we had some great sex that night. On the Wednesday he told her he was going out takeing on Friday evening and he would like her to go along and he told her that she might expect to be home very late. She asked me on Friday morning if I was worried or that I might not want anything to happen. I put her hand on my cock and she knew straight away that I had no problems at all with whatever happened!!

I told her to try and keep me posted with what was happening when she went to the bar and that should he invite her back to his place she should send me a text saying I am going to Amanda ( a friend of hers). This served two purposes; first of all it meant that she was as certain as she could be that she was going to be fucked and that meant a very horny night for me wondering what was happening and secondly, it meant she could explain to him where she was telling me where she was going so that he wasn’t worried etc. Nice plan, huh? Then, should she get to his place and the fun was about to start, she should send me a simple X by text.

Well they stayed at the bar till around 11.00 pm and I got about 15 texts from her, each one getting hornier and more hopeful - it was obvious she really liked this guy. The I got a text saying ‘he’s asked me back and told me he wants to fuck me - what should I do?’. I told her to do whatever she felt comfortable with and she replied ‘are you ok with me doing this?’. I told her not to worry and to have fun. The I got the text that she was going to Amanda.

You guys who have done this will know just how horny that made me feel. And it got a lot better when, twenty minutes later I got the X text. That was around 11.30. The next text I got was at 4.00am saying she was in a taxi on her way home. I had tried not to cum before she got back but since relax was not an option, I had already cum twice by the time she got back. I was lying on our bed and when she came in she looked hot and horny. She lifted up her dress to reveal no knickers and a very very red pussy. So horny. Well they had fucked for around 3 hours and then chatted mingled with kissing. He had told her that he was in a sexless relationship and that he and always wanted to have her and was now really pleased that he had found a soul-mate to have sex with.

Over the next two years they saw each other every week or every two weeks. Nothing like as much as she wanted but he seemed to be playing her around and enjoying the control he had over her. I was worried since I knew she wouldn’t cope with this very well. During this time, in fact after about four months, she confessed to me that she was in love with him. This was not a surprise to me since I knew she was always likely to really fall for him. In fact, it became an even bigger turn on - the extra risk of losing her to this guy and the fact that she was giving herself so willingly to him. Risky I know. Very risky. But then, with this lifestyle, no matter what rules are made, if she falls for the guy, then the rules mean nothing. She would tell me that their love making was really special to her and that he made her so happy when he fucked her and came in her mouth - she would give herself willingly to him and let him do whatever he wanted to with her - the dirtier the better.

Part Three - Now, about two years ago, and when she was about 6 months into the relationship, she told me she wanted to have youngren. We had discussed this before and had tried but no success since it seems I am not very fertile. Now, of course, she is with a guy 10 years her junior and he was clearly virile and fertile. She said what would happen if he made her pregnant. That was both unbelievably horny and frightening at the same time. If she had a baby to him, I had no doubt that he would run a million miles and leave us trying to pass off a dark skinned baby as our own. I said that we would resolve it somehow but that perhaps she had better be careful. Of course, I knew she was having bareback sex with him but I also knew that he never came inside her - always in her mouth.

Now to the present day. She hasn’t had sex with him for about 6 weeks now. The frequency of their meetings began to diminish when he started to tire of her emotions for him. That and the fact that he met another girl. Of course, my wife is hurting badly and still wants him to want her. The episode six weeks ago followed the pattern that had been established about a year ago. She would go out, ostensible for a take, or to meet a friend and return around 2 - 4 in the morning and then confess to having had sex with him about 5 days later, even though I knew - or was pretty damned sure anyway. This time he had had anal sex with her and that was her first anal experience - just something we had never gotten around to - so she was an anal virgin for him and it meant a lot to her.

Last night, she got very emotional since there seems to be no sign that he wants her anymore and she is devastated. So that’s the way it is right now and any advice you might have would be greatly appreciated, although I’m not certain if there really could be any meaningful advice other than to let time take its course. We no longer have sex at all - she has given her body to him only so in that regard I am the complete cuckold. I have no complaints about the situation, but I wish he would treat her decently so she wasn’t so upset by the experience. The point here is that my previous experience of this world with my last wife was so different and this time it is, to say the least, a testing time. But having said all that I would not change the way I am for anything - if she wants to fuck a guy she can and if that means falling in love with him so be it. If you have any questions feel free to ask and I will do my best to answer them.

rdhead44d's husband; I can relate to your position, a similar thing happened to us many years ago, and it included having his baby. If you think about it it is very possible for someone to love more than one permister dearly, but for quite different reamisters. We have been married for 35 years now, and my wife has had many men along the way, but she has fell in love with two of them, who just like yours did not have the same feelings. It is to your wife as though someone died, and also rejected her before he did. You cant turn off love, but you can help her grieve, give her space, and most of all be there for her, dont pressure her, or try and make her talk it out, love her with an open ear and as time goes by she will adjust, but always respect the fact she loved him, and let her know that is ok. Bottom line in all this lifestyle is un questionable love, if not for that there is no purpose for the cuckolding experience and it simply wont work. Just my 2 cents worth, hope it helps.

Thanks redhead it did help

Just so you can all see what she looks like I thought I'd post a pic - I have posted this before so it isn't new but it was taken about an hour before she went out for one of her nights with him.

It's walking a fine line in the lifestyle to keep it at the "sport fucking" level. Emotions can and do get involved and you have to RUN not walk away from some situations if they get out of hand emotionally IF you wish to keep your marriage/relationship intact.

My wife will "sport fuck" and she enjoys it. She will not see anyone unless I'm present, even though I would enjoy her going out she just won't do it.

My first experience of this lifestyle was with someone just as you describe bremenpetite but my wife now loves to have sex with new guys but there always has to be a romantic element to the affair. I last saw her having sex about 6 years ago and only because she thought I was out and managed to creep downstairs to watch them in the living room. It was a very horny and beautiful experience for me.

Thought I would let anyone know who reads this thread that she saw him again last night. She called me and told me she was going out for a quick take after work with her colleagues - whenever she does this I always hope she might be seeing him. She got back around 10:30 - not that late but with plenty of time to have seen him. I asked her right out if she had been with him and she said no she hadn't but I could tell she was lying. This is quite normal now because she doesnt want me involved in any way at all. After about 20 minutes of chatting she asked me if I would have been annoyed if she had seen him. I told her no, but that the only thing that does annoy me is when she tries to keep it a secret when she has to be one of the worlds worst liers!! She said that she had gone for the take in all innocence but that she knew he was going to be there and she hoped she might get lucky and he would ask her back to his place. Well that's exactly what happened and they got back to his home at 6:30. They had agreed on the way back not to do anything since he wasnt into the emotional stuff that she is. But she told me that when they got back they started kissing and then ripped each others clothes off. If you have read this thread throughout you will no that he is the one that deflowered her arse and last night she got him to do her anally again. She totally adores it and told me that when he was easing himself into her she felt so close to him and told him that she loved him. He told her again that although he didnt love her he is very fond of her and loves fucking her and loves fucking her arse more than anything - he has never fucked anyone anally before her either. So they fucked for 3 hours and finally he came in her mouth. Now she is home she keeps telling me how much she loves him and his cock and can't wait to see him again. And so it goes on....

Copying This And Printing It ...... It's Look Delicious!

Thanks!

Kevin I
Smile; And The World Smiles Back At You. (Physics)

Throw her suitcase at her next time she lies about seeing him.

Good Read; Thanks.

LOL @ Oleeaglefeather...

Kevin I
Smile; And The World Smiles Back At You. (Physics)