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smallMaria Member 8	# Posted: 8 Jul 2008 21:34:52 Reply Since my teens I have been a crossdresser. My current girlfriend, that I have been with for 2 years, knows of it but so far didn?t want to be part of it or even see me dressed. All that changed 4 weeks ago. Suddenly she shows a great interest in my dressing up and even wants to take part in it actively. So she helped me with my make-up twice and even bought me a pretty satin nightgown. Also she told me to shave my whole body which I haven?t dared so far because of her. We have had three beautiful evenings together at home both of us in pretty dresses watching TV, drinking wine and talking. It was really a dream come true for me. But although I love that girl-time with her I?m alarmed by some other changes. When she leaves for work in the mornings she suddenly does more make-up and dresses more provocatively (My girlfriend is from Poland and in the past often told me that she couldn?t dress in tight tops and miniskirts as she was used to because everyone would think of her as a slut here. Now she doesn?t seem to mind anymore). Besides that she tells me more and more often about a new guy at her work. Especially on Sunday when we were both sitting on the sofa in pretty evening gowns she told me lots of things about him like that he is really tall (my girlfriend has always been attracted to tall guys and I never figured out what she saw in me because I?m only 5 ft 10 in), his charming compliments to her, his great sense of humor. I think she has probably some feelings for him. Now that alone isn?t so disturbing to me although I feel some jealousy. I love her very much and if there was another man who could give her sexual fulfillment I would accept that but I?m so afraid to lose her to him altogether. Although on the one hand we have a great relationship on the other hand our sex life sometimes is a bit frustrating. My cock is only about 5 in when erect and I always have trouble holding an erection for more than a few minutes. She only has an orgasm with me when I go down on her or use some of her toys on her (she likes her 8 in lifelike dildo the most). So until now I thought we were nevertheless both satisfied in bed because in my opinion cuddling and caressing is much more fulfilling than the hard pounding you often see in porn flicks. But if my girlfriend needed a “real man” in bed now and then I probably would understand that and support her. Now my problem is how and when I should talk about those things with her because I?m so afraid to lose her if she misunderstands me. I really want to see her happy and I?m ready to show consideration for her needs as long as we can stay together. I?d appreciate your advice. By the way: Sorry for my bad English and please don?t flame me because of my mistakes but I?m really out of practice in writing.
stewart999us Member 147	# Posted: 11 Jul 2008 23:53:07 Reply Maria, like all relationship questions, the only real way to solve anything is to talk honestly with your girlfriend. But, you need to be careful not to say too much all at once. You need to be careful how you approach this. You have a woman who cares for you and has become accepting of your crossdressing as part of who you are, that is a very rare thing. What would probably work best is to start with gentle questions. Ask her if she is satisfied with you sexually, what she enjoys about your relationship and what could be better. You must be very careful not to sound accusing or threatening, just curious. Many women have a hard time discussing their love life with their partners for fear of offending or angering them. If she tells you that she likes when you go down on her, but doesn't get much pleasure from having sex, then you can gently talk about her co-worker and find out if she is attracted to him. If she is, then you can gently ask questions to find out if she would like to sleep with him, if she thinks there is a possibility of that. If she is interested in trying that, you can find out if she would like to continue your relationship, but use him when she really needs a pounding. I think that many women would choose to have the best of everything if they had the option. To have a loving boyfriend who can make you cum with his tongue and you can have fun with and to have a guy who you can screw sounds like something many women would enjoy. If, at any time, she says something that indicates she's not interested in sex with other men, or that she is satisfied with your relationship, then DO NOT PUSH THE SUBJECT. If you press her about it, the conversation probably won't end well and she'll feel like you're accusing her. If you talk about this slowly and gently, being very careful not to accuse or offend, finding out what you want to know should be easy. And if you mess it up, you can always apologize until she forgives you and you can go back to the way things are. Good Luck! Stewart. For more good captions, see www.FETthavenue.com

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