Getting Ready For A Cuckold Session - Maybe Too Soft For Some

highsurf03

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I sometimes wonder if my notion of cuckold fun is too soft for this forum. So many postings bash, belittle, ridicule, and humiliate the husband. I'm stuck in the idea that cuckold fun should be fun for EVERYONE involved. My wife and I do it that way. She loves me, she loves sharing experiences with me, she loves sexual variety more than I do, but I love watching her enjoy the variety she craves. We support each other in it all, and she would never think of ways to emotionally or physically hurt me.
I think I am really lucky and I'm sorry that I don't see more of that same kind of attitude in a larger portion of the captions posted here. End of rant.
Here are some more pictures capturing our idea of cuckold hotwife fun:

balloon

surprise

washed

lube

highsurf03

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fixed strap

tie me up

train

bedside table

Fredsub

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Wow, please go on with these caps, specially with the strap ons

DarsLangly

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Great! Lots of people here are not really into all the degradation stuff (though one always has to keep in mind the one person's degradation is another's playfulness). I'm also super sick of the race fetishism that dominates half the threads; it is creepy and dehumanizing. So, let your flag fly, and a lot of us will watch with pleasure!
darslangly

kennyboy82

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I'm with you, DarsLangly, there's a pre-conceived idea that cuckolding is automatically about humil-iation and can only be successfully carried out by a black guy with a 10" cock fucking a white wife's brains out while her husband is tied up being f0rced to watch, that generally isn't the case. A lot of cuckolding is a step further from what used to be called 'swinging' and is done with all partners agreement and encouragement. I've been fucking my buddy's wife for decades and there's role play involved, but that's all it is, role play. Any humil-iation involved is by mutual agreement.

Mywifeforyou

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Well said by all 3 of you.
My wife loves bull seed

highsurf03

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Thank you so much -- all four of you: Mywifeforyou, kennyboy82, DarsLangly, and Fredsub. I really appreciate your taking the time to write -- and I am truly encouraged that you too like work where the husband is respected and is part and parcel of the wife's fun. I suspect that, while our kind of thinking is in the minority on this thread, there are more real life cuckold couples like the ones in these pictures than in the other kinds. And I surely bet that couples with the attitudes we like certainly stay together longer than the others -- assuming there is any truth in what the humili-ation husband de-grading type of captions posted on this site. I know that I would immediately divorce any woman who treated me anything like that.
Thanks again for writing.
I just posted some more new ones. I hope you'll enjoy them too.

Heikoo

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I agree 99%.

For me a tiny bit of playful *********** (when it is not hurting!) is a part of being a cuckold.

I like your caps!

hotcplindc

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My wife and I are in the same place you seem to be. There ~is~ some implicit... *********** may be a bit too strong, but ~something~ that accompanies watching her get ready for a date with another man.

Are you familiar with the terminology and syntax of "vixen & stag" rather than hotwife & cuckold? It's a community of people who - like you - reject the abusive elements that seem to be pretty prevalent (and popular) in the more general cuckold community.

highsurf03

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Thank you Heikoo and hotcplindc. I appreciate your taking the time to write and post your thoughts. I'm going to look into the "vixen" and "stag" notion. Thank you!

butch42mn

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