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oneheart
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 14:24:31
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Before i left this site i had to let some people know cause i know they enjoyed my caps. However i realize that this isnt a cuckold site. and thats why i came here. I guess im just tired of getting on here and seeing topics called forced faggot, cross dressing, cocks getting cut off, incest,..you know what im talking about. Topics that have nothing to do with cuckoldry. And i know some people will say just skip past those topics. However the problem is i have to read through the topics to find one i may like. And when i see some of the topics names, im completely turned off and think to myself, what the hell is going on here. Am i innocent because of my fetish of wanting to see wives with other guys? no, and i dont claim to be innocent. However if i wanted to see cross dressing, gays, incest, and guys getting there cocks cut off. I would go to other sites that had those things. I didnt think i'd be seeing it at "cuckoldplace.com." So sorry for taking up your time in reading this. I wish i could stay around to see how pissed some of you get..lol. But Im out of here.
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boss
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 15:57:39
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I'm truly sorry that it got to the point where you felt like you had to leave. I know that sometimes nowadays I, much like you, am also very shocked and appalled by some of the topics that come up on this board (including many of the ones you mentioned). It does seem, though, that unlike you, I have been able to ignore or not click on these threads... or, on the rare occasions that I have, I still managed to find some inner strength to stop myself from flying into a tizzy and moralizing about my personal rejection of other peoples' kinks as though my own sphere of perversion was the only one that is permissible.
One thing that helped me was my steadfast commitment to not being an insufferable self-centered twat who would presume that others would even care if I were so shaken and incapable of dealing with change. I'm sure you can imagine that the whole "penning a heavily-moralizing and high-handed screed designed to chastise the community" part that you tacked on wouldn't have even occurred to me, even if I had thought of leaving. Well-played!
I certainly will miss your (one set of) captions, though. If I recall correctly, they were fairly competent, if uninspiring, but that they were also a bit of a superfluous rehashing of some pretty well-worn themes.
I hope you find a new community that suits your standards!
http://imagefap.com/profile.php?user=Bull%20boss
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Sa Tyr
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 16:54:42
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I quite agree with most of "oneheart" said and I think the response from "boss" to someone who has already left is that of a fatuous bully from a safe distance. There is one dimension of cuckoldry that is generally ignored in this site and that it is the psychological/emotional side of it. Sissies, slaves, subs, bottom-bi s and masochists are well represented here but, like "oneheart" says, where are the addicted voyeurs of their beloved woman being seduced and used in ways she enjoys? I am there to watch and enjoy the view and to make sure she is safe and that she is never forced to do anything she does not want or like.
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faggot89
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 16:58:03
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Interesting to see that even someone who wants *his wife to fuck other men* can be judgemental, despite cuckolding itself being strongly frowned upon by society at large.
Who is he to say what constitutes cuckolding and what doesn't? Couples often mix crossdressing, forced feminization, gay sex, B&D, S&M, chastity, etc. in with cuckolding. What, they're not doing it correctly? I didn't realize we had appointed a Perversion Cop.
There's a saying in the chastity community that cuckolding follows chastity like night follows day. Cuckolding can be a very profound power exchange, which for some couples clearly puts it in the dominance/submission realm of behaviors.
So there we have it--a cuckold-fetish bluenose. Remarkable!
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faggot89
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 17:00:02 · Edited by: faggot89
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Sa Tyr: There are plenty of threads here that cover the aspects of cuckolding you enjoy. The point is that oneheart appears to believe that there should be only certain ways to be cuckolded, and that (apparently) s/he should be allowed to determine which of those are "good" ways and which are "bad", and that the "bad" ones shouldn't be on this site. Good god, just go to the next topic.
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NickCuck
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 17:54:59
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I have to agree in some respect to what oneheart says I don't see what some girl fucking her uncle or a daughter fucking her dad has to do with cuckolding, it is actually a big turn off for me so as far as that is concerned I agree it is actually fucking sick. BUT!!! I also know everyone has there own thing and I know which forums those are in and just don't look at them. so I think when it comes to this site you just need to look at the topics you enjoy and skip the ones you don't like, I think the good of this site out ways the bad and I love this site and I don't plan on ever going anywhere, lol. But I do ask can we at least stay away from the pics and caps of girls that are under age? That is just very very wrong.
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faggot89
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 18:42:25 · Edited by: faggot89
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There are no photos of underage girls on this site that I'm aware of. They look young, but they're from sites that deliberately find the youngest-looking legal girls. You can see the 2257 compliance boilerplate on their home pages.
(But if there are any such photos, they should be deleted immediately.)
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faggot89
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 18:44:40
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There's a scene from "Blazing Saddles" that applies to oneheart's post.
In that scene, the black workers and white citizens of the town have just defeated the evil railroad baron, and the blacks want to be allowed to live in the town. The mayor says no, but then even the white citizens boo him, so he says oh, alright, *everyone* is allowed--"But we don't want the Irish!".
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faggot89
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 18:49:43 · Edited by: faggot89
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And if you want to see what happens when some grand poobah is in charge of determining who gets to live in town... I was banned from eunuch.org. Now, eunuch.org is a site all about castration and penectomy, so you'd think they would like my captions, what with the penectomy and all. But they didn't like my *username*. They said it is offensive.
Which is pretty funny, because my Wife calls me "silly faggot". It's engraved in lowercase cursive into the dogtag I wear on my Iron Maiden chastity device. It's what Her lover calls me. It's what Their girlfriend calls me. It's my name, dammit. But apparently the word "faggot" is offensive to men who want their testicles and/or penises removed.
People are so sensitive that they wind up balkanizing the world into little cliques. And that's the start of discrimination, racism, bigotry, homophobia, etc.
Just live with others. If you don't like what they do, but what they do doesn't hurt anyone, ignore it.
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martin100
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 18:51:02
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There are certainly aome threads that absolutely amaze me, castration being one that I never thought had a chance of taking off, but has. I simple avoid those sites. As one who has posted a very large selection of caps, I do a lot of cuckold caps, but after doing hundreds of them I also like to throw in a lot of tease caps and I like to make some fun stuff. I know by now that I am very moderate and there are a few, and I mean a few, that seem very extreme to me. So I don't look at them. I will say though as one who has been here a very long time. The extreme ones are grwoing in number.
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martin100
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 19:02:26
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I forgot to mention but the person who pointed out that there different ways to cuckold someone reminded me about what seems to happen to every group I have ever seen where female domination is mentioned. Eventual;ly hardliners take over and state that domination (or cuckolding) has to include so and so. There are people who believ it must mean males swallowing sperm (no turn on for me) or it must be to a black man, or whatever. The only thing that must be in these relationships is what the couple agree on and that the womans needs come first. If she wants to toally deny the husband or allow him to have sex also, whether she yses force or the force of words. If she is allowed other men, or in a dominant relationship, if she calls the shots and they are happy, then it is a cuckold or dominate relationship, depending on which you are going for.
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faggot89
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 19:07:47 · Edited by: faggot89
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Hardliners who take over and say cuckolding has to include XYZ are guilty of the same mistake as oneheart. There is no "right" way to do cuckolding. If a couple likes it soft and gentle, fine. If they like to include female domination, fine. If they like to make the cuck suck the lover's cock, fine. If they like to make the cuck dance on one foot while juggling and singing that song from "Man With Two Brains", fine. The point is that there is a wide spectrum of what works for people, and no one way is best. I wouldn't presume to tell the people who like light play that they're doing it wrong and their threads offend me, and all I'm asking is that they extend me the same courtesy.
In other words, martin100, I'm agreeing with you.
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PalmCoastCouple
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 19:14:27
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We feel your pain, oneheart.... Sorry you had to leave the forum.
Like you, we hate having to browse through the piss drinking, dog fucking, incestuous, lock-me-up-in-the-corner-and-shit-on-me gay guys to find true Cuck material, but such is life.
Sometimes you have to wade through the swamp to find good fishing.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1. the husband of an unfaithful wife. NOTE - It DOES NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, sissyboy, crossdresser, cocksucker, scat eater, piss drinker, beastiality, incest or pedophilia.
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faggot89
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 19:27:40
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Why are you the arbiters of what constitutes "true Cuck material"?
A less-judgemental statement would be: "to find the kind of Cuck material that appeals to us".
It's a buffet. If you don't like jello salad, don't eat it. But don't criticize people who like jello salad, and don't tell the proprietor of the buffet that they shouldn't offer jello salad. Otherwise, someone who is lactose-intolerant will get all the dairy products removed, various religions will get the shellfish and pork removed, some vegan will get the rest of the meat removed, and etc. until there's nothing left but shaved ice, empty bowls, and a lot of hungry diners.
Some people really like jello salad.
Blowjobs used to be illegal in this country because some bluenose decided that wasn't the "right" way to have sex. Dildoes were only recently legalized in Texas. There's always someone who is pretty sure they know how other people should fuck.
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faggot89
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 19:32:34
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I expect now someone will start in with "I'm no censor, it's just that <fill in the blank> is over the top."
That's obfuscated English for "I'm a censor".
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brenda
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 20:55:30
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lots of problems with this site eg to many vids etc + all the above problems, it off the track and should be put back on track.
fem wimp
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faggot89
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 21:10:25
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brenda: What "track" exactly would that be? Is there an Approved Form Of Cuckolding you would like to make be the official way in which cuckolding is to be performed by all practitioners? Is there a formal review process for approving the Approved Form Of Cuckolding, perhaps with a public-feedback period? Who is the Official Approver of this sanctioned approach to cuckolding?
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kimlane
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 21:33:36
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faggot89 hold on you capitalized Iron Maiden so like that band makes chastity devices? oh and I'm no censor, it's just that...
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faggot89
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 21:39:48
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http://ringofsteel.net/ironmaiden.html
Named after the medieval torture device, not the band (the band was also named after the medieval torture device).
By far the finest, most-comfortable chastity device I've ever had the privilege of wearing, and the vendor is great to work with. Mine has a customization to retain a Prince Albert piercing, and at some point the vendor will probably release a product with that built in. With the PA retainer, it is completely secure. My Wife/Keyholder/Cuckoldress keeps me locked up in it most of the time.
But chastity might not be an Approved Form Of Cuckolding, so I'd better be careful about talking about it!
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NickCuck
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 21:41:38 · Edited by: NickCuck
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Hi again, just want to say something else for those that say there are no rules to cuckolding, I AGREE 100% what ever works for you and turns you on is great if it is adding to the fact your woman is fucking another man OR woman, If you like a dominant cuckoldress or a nice one that lets you watch and then you two have sex it's all great. BUT, what does and young girl even if she is 18 or older teasing her uncle or a young girl teasing her father have anything to do with cuckolding how can a daughter cuckold her father, that implies incest, which I strongly believe should not be on a site like cuckoldplace.com. I am not trying to start an argument with anyone over this so please don't jump my ass over this. I am simply stating that incest themes are not for a place like, The name of the site is cuckoldplace.com . again not bashing anyone just stating my opinion. I mean if you ever saw any of my caps you would know I do some forced bi, and clean up and dominant caps too. to each there own.
More power to everyone.
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faggot89
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 21:50:57
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NickCuck: I agree that the incest theme doesn't seem to match cuckolding (but I also don't want to be the guy who says we don't want the Irish). I don't get the incest theme from a technical standpoint--a daughter (even one of age) can't cuckold her father. The one thing I think we can agree about is that cuckolding requires a marriage, and a daughter can't marry her father, at least not outside a Greek tragedy (and as Homer Simpson said when he heard the plot of Oedipus: "Who pays for that wedding?").
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PalmCoastCouple
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 21:59:05
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Quoting: faggot89 brenda: What "track" exactly would that be?
Any track that is non-cuckold related. Look up the definition of Cuckold.
Last I checked, it wasn't defined as - "Fetish that includes beastiality, sexually abusing your daughter, gay sex, female domination, surgical removal of male organs, farting and shitting, piss drinking and guys named Faggot redefining it.".
It's called CuckoldPlace.com. Don't you think maybe... just maybe... it outta be Cuck content? It ain't called "EveryFetishUnderTheSun.com".
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1. the husband of an unfaithful wife. NOTE - It DOES NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, sissyboy, crossdresser, cocksucker, scat eater, piss drinker, beastiality, incest or pedophilia.
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faggot89
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 22:10:50
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PalmCoastCouple: So, it's limited to a man with an unfaithful wife, period? Then let's make sure we nail this down properly. Does the man get to see the wife commit adultery? That's not in the definition--that's voyeurism. But if he's prohibited from watching and wants to watch, that's female domination. Kind of tricky to get that part worked out, so let's move on. Does the husband get to fuck his wife or not? If so, that's group sex. Is that allowed? Or is it not group sex because the fucking occurs at a different time/location than when the wife commits adultery? Or does he not get to fuck his wife, which is female domination again? What are the wife's motivations for sleeping with another man (or men)? If it's because her husband is inadequate in bed, that's small-penis humilation, or some related fetish. Is that allowed? If not, what is her motivation? Is she just so horny one man isn't enough? That's nymphomania. Is that allowed? Are there particular sex acts she performs when she's being unfaithful? For example, can she give her lover a handjob, or a footjob, or a titty fuck, or a blowjob, or buttsex? Are those really under the standard definition of infidelity? (The dictionary I looked it up in makes a distinction between acts that can lead to pregnancy and those that don't.) Also, if footjobs are allowed, aren't we drifting dangerously into foot fetish and away from cuckolding? Does the cuckolded husband go down on the wife after her infidelity? That's creampie fetish. And it verges on gay sex. Speaking of which, would the wife commit her infidelities in such a way that the husband is a participant? If so, how much does he participate? Would he touch his wife's lover in any way? Seems kind of gay. But if he doesn't touch him, is there some kind of intricate ballet of body parts that avoids the touching? That seems kind of rude, actually, the husband going so much out of his way to avoid contact with the lover--I mean, is the lover diseased or something? And what should the wife wear? We have to be careful she doesn't wear anything fetishy, because that would blur the lines. I'm starting to get kind of tired trying to keep all this straight, but it sounds like basically the wife can have vanilla sex with a man not her husband provided she does it lovingly and the husband doesn't have to touch anything if present or is not present and she washes carefully after sex before her husband touches her.
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kimlane
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 22:25:35
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cuckold |ˈkəkəld; -ōld|
noun archaic
the husband of an adulteress, often regarded as an object of derision.
verb [ trans. ]
(of a man) make (another man) a cuckold by having a sexual relationship with his wife.
(of a man's wife) make (her husband) a cuckold.
DERIVATIVES
cuckoldry |-drē| noun
ORIGIN late Old English , from Old French cucuault, from cucu ‘cuckoo’ (from the cuckoo's habit of laying its egg in another bird's nest). The equivalent words in French and other languages applied to both the bird and the adulterer; cuckold has never been applied to the bird in English.
It has on this site as well as many others though consensus been established that a submissive aspect of varying degrease can/is part of cuckolding if you really truly think it cant be you should go back into your egg. let me put it this way If you cant keep your wife happy in bed your self then one of you is either to horny for one man or not enough man for one woman. so either your a slut or a failure.
I will concede that many of my post my have contriduted to oneheart leaving and that is sad as he at one point had thrown
his (?) hat in and created content for every one to enjoy. weather you enjoyed it or not he did put an effort into giving back to this forum more then just divisive words. I have no plans of stopping or changing what I post as the positive feed back and numbers of page views indicate that far more people enjoy my content then don't.
again I don't agrea with oneheart but am sad we are losing some one that offered up something other then an argument.
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PalmCoastCouple
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 22:36:59
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All straight men are gay. Why? Men have sex with women, but women have sex with men. Therefore all men are gay, right? Of course not. The degrees of separation is a silly argument.
Sure...Cuck obviously migrates out to other fetishes, and there are overlaps. The problem arises when the PRIMARY focus become off-topic.
Most are quite tolerant here. We're all in an alternative lifestyle. But when the focus shifts to other fetishes and Cuck becomes a minor aspect of the theme, then it's not really a topic for CuckoldPlace.com.
You can't be "Cucked" by your daughter, you can't be "Cucked" by your Great Dane, and if blowing your neighbor is your thing, GaySex.com is a more appropriate site. That's all we're saying. We're not judging.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1. the husband of an unfaithful wife. NOTE - It DOES NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, sissyboy, crossdresser, cocksucker, scat eater, piss drinker, beastiality, incest or pedophilia.
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faggot89
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 22:49:43 · Edited by: faggot89
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In my captions, which have been vilified for extreme content and accused of being off-topic, every single one directly involves cuckolding. There isn't a faithful Wife in any of them, and I bet 95% of them directly state in the text that the Wife is having, or soon intends to have, sex with someone other than Her husband. Yes, the cuck also is missing a penis, is being beaten, is sucking cocks, etc., but it's always in the context of a marriage, and with an *extremely* unfaithful Wife. I even manage to work love in there occasionally. So how are they not on topic?
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kimlane
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 22:51:07
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god i wish i could just shut up...
I really have not seen all this scat and bestiality and what is with the bold. we can all read what you are saying with out it. If you don't like the daughter content then don't read it. Most if not all is labeled to make it easy to skip over Or did it have to be in bold. That you don't get it is all you I have explained the connection to many times to repeat it in bold for you. you so keep it to your self. ok thanks I feel better now enjoy your day
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faggot89
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 22:53:17
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Perhaps this could be addressed with custom filters? If this site supported those, then users who don't want to see certain groups could add them to their filters and be done with it.
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kimlane
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 22:58:47
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if only our computers had an interface that would let us direct a pointer around are screens that let us pick what pages we opened and did not open... Oh yea. ok really i am done now
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footlicker
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# Posted: 25 Mar 2008 23:40:45
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What a load. Take your ball and go.
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