Do I have a hotwife or am I a cuckold?

I always thought our MFM fun was because my wife was being a "hotwife" but now we're learning about the cuckold stuff and wondering if I might be a cuck.

My wife is super hot and she seeks out the big "bull" type guys to fuck her brains out.

You decide:

Pro Cuckold Stuff:
She is the jealous type (how ironic is that?)
I love to see her/help her getting ready for a date and it's not with me!
I love to see her give in to a lover's advances even in public like at a restaurant or in the hotel lobby while it's clear to everyone else that she's my wife.
I love it when she tells me that her lover will be fucking her first tonight and I'll have to wait my turn.
I love to hear her moans and screams and know that some other man is in control of her.
I love it when she allows a lover to stop wearing the condoms after developing a long term relationship with them
I love it when she begs a lover to fill her.
I enjoy taking pictures/video taping when she is being fucked
I also like it when she goes out on a date without me and comes home completely fucked and soar and full of cum in her pussy.
I love it when she teases me about forgetting to take her pill for a few days before a big date.
If she wanted to, I would let a lover try to impregnate her and be totally into it.


Stuff that would not make me a Cuckold:
My cock is one of the biggest my wife has had at 8.5" long (not like the 3" cocks I've read about) and she's very happy with the way I fuck her and enjoys sex with me the most. (I know, I'm a VERY lucky hubby)
I still fuck her whenever I want except on date nights
I don't wear women's panties or anything like that
My cock is not going in a cage
I wouldn't suck a guys cock even if she begged me to
I won't eat her creampie in front of her lover
It doesn't matter to me if her lover is black or not
I would fuck another women if she was open to the idea
I would love to be some other couple's bull

So am I a cuckold?

We think there is a fine line between hot wife and cuckoldry. I guess its easy to slip from the former to the latter. The dictionary definition of a cuckold is one who's wife is unfaithful. You sound very much like us in that we prefer to think of it as a hot wife scenario. At the end of the day does it really matter so long as everyone concerned is enjoying them selves

You kind of prove my point , that the size of a mans cock , does not dictate , a bull , or cuckold husband . You may say , that you would never suck her lovers cock , or I wouldn't do this or that , but at the right time , you might do anything . Most of my cuckold affairs , started out straight , then turned into much more . I am dominant , but my cock has been sucked many times by husbands , that noone would ever beleive would suck a cock ..I say enjoy sex , in any way that pleases you , behind closed doors , who cares about a name for it ....Latter

London Couple. I think that i agree with those above. As long as you both are enjoying it, dont put a lable to it.

By the way, i am in the same town as you and if you want to get a hold of you can. pathfinder369@hotmail.com. I would luv to chat with you about your relationship. mine is similar to yours

Hi LondonMan. We've taken a break from the swinging for now as my wife is pregnant. It's a long way off but maybe next year once she gets back in shape?

Are you a cuckold? I think the correct term is "lucky guy." I'd love to have a wife or gf risk pregnancy with other men (but have me pull out).

I love the idea of a woman fucking a vasectomy-safe hubby only with condoms, and fucking her lovers bare, and maybe risking pregnancy with them by "getting carried away" and telling her lovers to cum deep inside her as she held them deep with her legs and arms and holding their cock inside until it went soft.

I love stories where the lover cums in her the first time "by mistake" or after promising to pull out (but doesn't), and then he continues to fuck her all weekend, cumming deep inside her married pussy with neither mentioning condoms or pulling out and her begging him to cum inside her.

I like the idea of hubby using condoms, or maybe she doesn't want him inside her at all.