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tracygurl
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# Posted: 23 Jan 2008 15:52:10
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Hi...
I am an effeminate sissy-cuckold, after years together we want to get married. We'd like it ti be somewhat on the BDSM fetish side
both of us will be semi-nude or in dresses. Anyone else do this? Any ideas, suggestions, links to sites would be appreciated!
tracy
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tracygurl
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# Posted: 25 Jan 2008 15:01:04 · Edited by: tracygurl
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Interesting, over 800 views and not one idea or anyone else with similiar
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tracygurl
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# Posted: 25 Jan 2008 15:02:18
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Interesting, over 800 views and not one idea or anyone else with similiar intersest? hmmm
'will have to keep trying!
tracy
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davidmurray
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# Posted: 25 Jan 2008 20:38:23
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How about you in a wedding dress and butt plug, crawling up the aisle on a leash held by the best man, knowing he'll be the first to fuck her that night for you (seeing as you can't satisfy your own wife being a sissy, and she has to be made scream in her pleasure on the happiest day of her life, so you wouldn't deny her that, would you?).
You could also make your own vows such as "Do you take this woman to be your loving cuckoldress and superior, never ever expect sex from her, to assist her in any way she wishes before, after or during the fucking of her many lovers and to take your sexual pleasure only when fucked by other men?". You would then mumble "I do..." as you gobble on the minister's cock which you would have been holding in your mouth for the whole ceremony as your new bride looked down pityingly on you.
david murray
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kb6093
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# Posted: 26 Jan 2008 21:42:55
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Send me an invitation!!...here is my suggestion (have fun)
THE CEREMONY
Background
The wife decides that she would like to celebrate and make official her status as a cuckolding wife. Based upon the manner in which she lives the cuckold lifestyle there are several options open to her. The cuckolding ceremony should parallel a standard marriage ritual with some important and obvious differences.
The cuckold ceremony should only be used by couples actively in the lifestyle. The event should be held as a celebration of the wife’s sexual freedom and the husband’s submission and devotion to his wife’s pleasure.
Preparation
It is important that the Cuckolding Affirmation follow many of the traditions of a standard marriage or vow renewal ceremony. The wife should carefully consider and plan all of the details ahead of time so she can relax and enjoy the happy event. The cuckold husband should play a major role in the planning and preparation of a ceremony in accordance with his wife’s wishes.
If the ceremony is very detailed it might be advisable to have a rehearsal shortly before the actual ceremony.
Location
The best and most convenient place to hold the ceremony would generally be in the couple’s home.
Guests
As part of the celebration a small number of guests should be included. These guests should be either cuckolding wives or couples for obvious reasons. They would be present to witness the ceremony, support the wife and help her celebrate.
Some guests may want to hide their identity from the cuckold husband or the wife’s studs because of their job or standing in the community. These guests would wear a stylish mask of some kind over their faces.
Leading
The ceremony should be lead by a woman that is knowledgeable of cuckold related issues. This woman could also help the wife and her husband plan the ceremony details.
Cuckold Party
The ceremony would obviously include the wife and her cuckold husband. Based on the wife’s preference the following scenarios could be used;
• The wife and husband are joined by several of her regular studs.
• The wife and husband are joined only by her primary (only) stud. The primary stud would also be considered the “Best Man”.
• The wife and husband stand together, none of her studs are present.
• There can be a maid or maiden of honor if the wife chooses. This woman could hold some things used in the ceremony.
• Another cuckold husband could serve as the “Ring Bearer” if desired or the “rings” could just be kept on a small table until they are needed.
Ceremony Dress
The wife could wear her original wedding gown if she so desires. She could also elect to just wear her bridal veil and wear a short tight fitting dress instead. If the wife wants to flaunt her sexuality she can wear something very sheer and revealing. The wife should also wear one old fashion slip-on garter for possible use later on.
The husband and wife’s studs can be dressed or undress as she chooses. If the husband is a cuckold due small penis size the wife could have him and her studs naked or in thongs that would make it clear to everyone why the husband is a cuckold and what the wife gets to enjoy outside their marriage.
Start of the Ceremony
The woman leading would call for everyone’s attention and announce that the gathering is being held as a celebration of <wife’s name> official status as a cuckolding wife. She would then ask the couple if they are ready to proceed. The wife would affirm their intent to proceed with the ceremony.
The woman would ask the couple: “<Wife’s name> and <husband’s name> are you ready to assert and demonstrate your deep love and commitment to one another here to today?”
The couple each answers “Yes”
The woman would say “<Wife’s name> please kiss your husband. The wife would give her husband a deep kiss. This would signify their bond together as a couple.
Vows
The wife and husband should write the “vows” to be used at the ceremony. Here possible the wife’s primary stud may assist in writing part of the vows. The vows should affirm the wife’s right at having sex outside the marriage and the husband’s pledge to remain faithful to her. Each vow should reflect the wife’s interests and cuckolding style.
Woman (leading): “Do you <wife’s name> declare your rights and freedoms as a cuckolding wife here today?”
Wife: “I do”
Woman: “Do you <wife’s name> take <husband’s name> as your cuckold husband to cherish and control?”
Wife: “I do”
Woman: “To tease, frustrate and deny him as a cuckold wimp should be?”
Wife: “I do”
Woman: “Do you <wife’s name> promise to pursue and use other men as studs and to enjoy yourself with anyone you desire?”
Wife: “I do”
Woman: Do you <wife’s name> promise to let your cuckold watch you with your studs or tell him every detail of how they please you?”
Wife: “I do”
Woman: “Do you <wife’s name> promise to be a good <slut / Hot wife> to your studs?”
Wife: “I do”
Woman: “<husband’s name> do you promise to accept being <wife’s name> faithful cuckold in body, mind and spirit freely and without hesitation?”
Husband: “I do”
Woman: “<husband’s name> do you accept the position of cuckold husband with the understanding that <wife’s name> has complete freedom to have sex with whoever she wants while you must remain completely faithful to her?
Husband: “I do”
Woman: “<husband’s name> do you promise to love and support <wife’s name> extra-marital affairs be they long-term, short-term or one-night stands?
Husband: “I do”
Woman: “<husband’s name> do you acknowledge the fact that sexually you cannot provide <wife’s name> with all of the sexual pleasure she deserves?”
Husband: “I do”
Woman: “<husband’s name> do you promise to help find competent studs for your wife <wife’s name> that will provide her with the sexual pleasure you cannot.
Husband: “I do”
Woman: “<Stud’s name> do you as <wife’s name>’s stud promise please her sexually.
Stud: “I do”
Woman: “<Stud’s name> do you understand that you are used for the <wife’s name> sexual pleasure and can make no claims to this woman as your own?
Stud: “I do”
The vows should be tailored to suit the couples and primarily the wife’s interests. If controlling her husband’s orgasm were important to her then one or more vows on this topic should be included.
Rings
One or more rings should be used in the ceremony. To denote the wife’s status as a cuckoldress a thumb ring and/or toe ring can be used. The female leader should direct the placement of the rings and announce their significance in the wife’s marriage.
The thumb ring can signify the wife’s sexual freedom and could be put on her by her stud or husband.
The toe ring should be put on by the husband while he kneels before his wife. This ring signifies the husband’s devotion and submission to his wife making and keeping him a cuckold. After placing the ring on his wife’s toe the husband should reverently kiss her foot. The husband should remain kneeling for the remainder of the ceremony.
If the wife desires she could accept a ring or other jewelry in a previously pierced nipple. This could be placed by either her husband or her stud.
For the husband the wife could slip and secure a leather collar around his neck. If the husband is nude or nearly so the wife could place and lock a chastity harness around his cock if one is not already there. She should also attach (or be displaying) the key to the lock onto a necklace she is wearing.
The Kiss
With the vows recited and the rings ritual complete the woman leading the ceremony would declare the wife free to pursue all of her sexual interests while her husband remains her faithful cuckold.
She then says “<wife’s name> you may kiss your stud(s)”.
The wife gives each of her studs in attendance a deep full mouth kiss. She then would extend her rump out for her husband. Each stud might grope or fondle the wife. The wife should pre-arrange this with her studs before the ceremony.
The woman leader would invite the husband to give his wife a “cuckold kiss”.
The cuckold husband, still kneeling would plant a reverent kiss on each of her ass cheeks. If she wants the wife could have her cuckold kiss her crotch instead of (or in addition) to kissing her ass.
The ceremony is then complete
Celebration
With the ceremony completed those in attendance would celebrate the happy event with a small party. Drinks and light snacks would be served and if the couple wanted, some fun activities could be enjoyed by all.
Boutique or Ring Toss
Since the bride usually tosses her boutique at a traditional wedding a similar “toss” can be done as part of the cuckold ceremony celebration.
If the wife carried a boutique she can toss this. I not she can take her husband’s wedding band, tie a ribbon to it and toss it instead. All women in attendance would be asked to stand on one side of the room; the wife would stand on the other side with her back to them. Note, all women, married and single can participate in this.
The wife makes her toss over her shoulder. The woman that makes the catch get to have some fun with the cuckold husband by giving him a spanking. A chair is placed at the front of the room and the woman told to sit on it. The cuckold husband is called forward and told to remove his pants and underwear. He is instructed to lay prone across the woman’s lap. She is given a paddle. The husband is to receive a swat on each cheek equal to the number of women in attendance. The woman would deliver a double swat, one on each cheek. In front of everyone the husband’s bare ass is spanked while everyone counts off the blows. Once the appropriate punishment had been given the wife could, if she use the paddle to smack her cuckold’s once on each cheek for good measure.
If the wife wants her husband humiliated in some way another activity could be substituted like;
• The husband must kneel before the woman (catcher) and jerk-off, squirting his cum on her shoes. He is then required to lick up the mess and clean her shoes with his tongue.
• The women in attendance stand in a line, each about two feet from the other with their legs apart. The cuckold husband is required to crawl through the tunnel made by the women’s legs. As the husband pass through each woman’s legs she can swat his ass as he goes by.
Garter Toss
The cuckold husband or the wife’s Stud is called forward to remove the wife’s garter. All of the “eligible” men would be told to stand at the back of the room. Depending on who was in attendance some men might be considered “ineligible” to participate in this activity.
Again either the husband or the wife’s Stud face away from them and toss the wife’s garter backward over his shoulder. The man that catches the garter gets to have some fun with the wife.
The garter catcher might be allowed to kiss and fondle the wife through her clothing in front of the everyone. If the wife preferred she could decide to give this man his treat somewhere private.
Ceremony & Celebration Photographs
If she so desires the wife can have a friend in attendance take some selected photographs (digital) of the cuckold party. Here the photographs would not be explicit but just to capture the moment. The photographer must be aware of any guests that do not want their photograph taken.
Memory Album
Any photography or other details of the day’s activities should be preserved in a Memory Album. Recorded in it would be a list of the guests in attendance, the vows used, etc. in addition to other details of the day and night to come. This album would be created by the husband for his wife as a gift to her for making and keeping him as her cuckold.
Gifts
In general the guest in attendance should not be expected to bring a gift since the ceremony is an affirmation of something that has already been established. If some guests really want to give a gift the following should be considered;
• A gift certificate for lingerie or sex toys.
• A locking chastity harness or tube for the cuckold husband (if the couple doesn’t have one).
• A gift certificate for a piercing or tattoo at a local parlor.
Celebration Ending
Any gifts would be presented to the wife at this time. Unlike a marriage ceremony the wife should open each gift so everyone in attendance can see what she got.
As the guests exit the couple’s home the wife, husband and any studs would greet everyone as they left thanking them for attending. This would be similar to the practice of greeting the new bride and groom at the conclusion of the marriage ceremony. The wife would stand by the doorway with her husband and stud on either side of her. The husband should be kneeling to denote his position in the marriage. If the wife was very dominant she could also have her stud kneel as well.
Once all the guest had left it would be time for the “Cuckymoon”.
The Cuckymoon
Like the Cuckold Ceremony the Cuckymoon parallels the standard honeymoon but with particular emphasizes on the wife’s freedom to pursue sexual pleasure and the husband’s deference and submission to her.
Based upon the wife’s wishes and lifestyle there are two types of “cuckymoons”. One where only on Stud has sex with the wife and the other where two or more studs satisfy her. The basic idea is for the wife to enjoy herself. The role of the cuckold husband can vary. The wife can chose to include her husband in the activities based on her preference and that of her Stud. The husband can be excluded entirely, allowed to listen, to watch while bound or participate more fully by assisting the Stud or Studs in providing his wife with sexual pleasure.
One Stud for the Wife
This type of cuckymoon can be held either in at the couples home of away from it.
Two or More Studs for the Wife
This type of cuckymoon should be held at a large hotel. In general the husband must book several rooms. The husband should book one room for him and his wife and one for each of her studs participating in the cuckymoon.
Hotel Accommodations
Based on how the wife enjoys her studs several options should be considered. If the wife has an openly cuckolding relationship and her studs know about one another the hotel rooms should be reserved so they are as close together as possible.
If the wife’s studs do not know about one another then each room should be on a separate floor from the couples and one another. In this scenario the husband must make the reservations in advance telling the hotel that he is planning a surprise reunion and each guest cannot know about the other and therefore needs the rooms to be on separate floors of the hotel. Of course the reunion will be his wife with her various studs.
The husband should tell each stud to check into the hotel that evening and to order room service (within reason) while waiting for his wife to arrive. They should be instructed to wait in the room for the wife.
The husband should also advise each stud on the purchase of a little surprise for the wife. This could be flowers, jewelry, sexy lingerie…etc. The studs would present the wife with these gifts when she visits them in their hotel room.
The husband and wife should check into the hotel early. In their room the husband should prepare the wife for the evening’s activities.
• He should draw her bath.
• Help her get into and out of the tub, and towel her dry.
• Trim her pubic hair and
• Assist her in picking out her clothing.
Cuckymoon Dress
The wife should put on her best or new lingerie. Garters, nylons are a must. She should also put on a blouse leaving off panties. She should have with her a raincoat to put on over her lingerie. After the husband slips her sexiest high heels or high heeled boots onto her feet she is ready to visit her first stud.
The cuckold husband should dress simply in slacks and a shirt.
Husband’s Accessories
• It would be best if the husband was locked in a chastity harness so he cannot masturbate and remains frustrated while his wife has fun. This is important to the process since it is in opposition to a honeymoon where her husband had his sexual pleasure with his wife.
• A laptop computer. This would be used by the husband to document the wife’s activities of the evening. Which stud she visits first, what they did, etc. The husband would also offload any digital photographs from the ceremony or the cuckymoon itself. This work would be done by the husband when his wife was visiting her studs and be the basis for the wife’s memory album.
Visit Accessories
Based on the wife’s preferences and the relationship she has with her studs the following can be brought on the visit to each of her stud’s hotel rooms.
• A digital camera for her to snap a few memory photos. This of course assumes that the wife would want to take photographs of herself with her stud. Any photographs would be added to the wife’s Memory Album.
• Condoms if the wife desired to use them with a particular stud.
• A wireless intercom. This device would be plugged in and allow the husband to hear everything going on between his wife and her stud while he remains in their separate alone.
Visit Options
The husband should escort the wife to each of her stud’s hotel rooms. Based on the relationship that she has with her studs he might be invited into the room.
If the husband is allowed into the room he could take some pictures of his wife and her stud. The husband could just stay for a moment until being dismissed by the wife or he could stay and watch everything based on the wife’s preference. Otherwise the wife would have to rely using the camera’s timer or a remote shutter control if she wanted more photographs.
If desired the wife could have explicit photographs of herself and her stud having fun.
If the husband is not allowed into the room he should just see that his wife is greeted by her stud and then return to their original room until his wife calls him on the hotel phone.
When the wife calls the husband must go back to the stud’s room. He would knock at the door and be let in. His job would be to help the wife collect her belongs. If she so desired the wife could have her husband take some more photographs of her and her stud. Some of these photos could be show the wife’s post-coital contentment.
During Each Stud Visit
While the wife is visiting one of her studs and the husband is back in his hotel room he should work on the wife’s Memory Album. This would include the off-loading and arrangement of any digital photographs and annotation of the happy event.
The husband would also document for the wife all of the details she shared with him about each visit to one of her studs.
It would be the husband’s job to carefully record what occurred with each stud/visit; in the Memory Album;
• Who she visited
• When she was dropped off by the husband at the studs room
• What sex acts they performed
• If and how many times she had an orgasm
• How and where her stud ejaculated
• How long she spent with the stud on the visit
Between Visits
Once back inside their room the wife would tell her cuckold the details of everything that she did with that stud. The husband would take notes to be later added to the memory album when she visits the next stud and leaves him alone.
During this time the wife could also have her husband massage her feet and/or if she so desired lick her pussy. After she has briefly rested she would put on her coat and go to her next stud with her husband escorting her.
The process is repeated until the wife has visited each of her studs once. If the wife’s desires she could start the cycle over with her first stud. Depending on the wife’s libido and energy level she may make several “cycles” through her “stable” of studs. All this activity would be her way of celebrating her sexual freedom.
At some point the wife would join the husband in their room. Completely satisfied the wife would sleep until the morning. Her frustrated husband might have some difficulty falling asleep based events of the ceremony and intensity of his wife’s activity during that evenin
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revmagus
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# Posted: 27 Jan 2008 19:41:03
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Where are you? I am an ordained minister and would be happy to perform the ceremony for you, in whatever style you choose.
Please contact me at:
Revmaguscgh@aol.com
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tracygurl
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# Posted: 28 Jan 2008 14:48:53
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kb6093:
All I can say is: WOW! you've given this a little thought! It's going to take me a few days just to respond. Some interesing ideas...a great outline or structure!
you've got us thinking...time to find my seamstress!
we just thought of this last summer. very hard to find anything "real".
remagus:
we're in NYC. e-mail sent
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kb6093
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# Posted: 29 Jan 2008 04:34:19
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I go to NYC all the time - chances are I won't be able to make it but if you get a chance and you are going to go through with it I would love to be a part - even if I am only there to witness it.
By the way, I am a professional, 5'8" tall, hung, white, live in KC - but travel.
Good luck,
Frank
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Masterboycro
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# Posted: 29 Jan 2008 11:31:11
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The whole website about it....
Cuckold Marriage
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revmagus
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# Posted: 8 Feb 2008 00:54:49
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tracygurl
Sorry its been so long in returning your post.... I'm in MD. I can do the marriage in NYC (I had to check). Rather than just friends, I always intended to do alternative weddings for those who don't want, or cannot have, a conventional ceremony. Please e-mail me when you have more information or any ideas....
Revmagus
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hot4it31
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# Posted: 27 Feb 2008 06:25:10
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sissy cuckold bride to be
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tiny_tim
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# Posted: 2 Mar 2008 19:41:50
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tracygurl
If you are seriously into BDSM I suggest you check out a site called cybelianworld dot com. Or you could do a search for the term "CYBELE WEDDING". This has a lot of information that sounds like it would be right up your alley.
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tracygurl
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# Posted: 8 Mar 2008 23:34:30
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tiny tim,
great tip, thsnk you.
tracy
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