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More pics....

What are you guys talking about as you snap those pics? Is she excited?

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She is amazing and you are very lucky. Please to hear she has a BF again as she deserves a BF to make her feel like no other. Look forward to more updates.

Thanks....I just got a text from her...

"His cock is huge! dont wait up for me"

Great news. Congrats to you both.

She just got home about an hour ago. They fucked 6 times last night. I asked her if we could have sex...her reply..."I don't want to fuck you after he's fucked me"

she is a beautiful woman. Any videos?

wow thats a real woman.lucky u

Do you blame her? LOL.. she just was satisfied beyone belief for the first time in a bit and now has a new BF to play with. Look forward to more updates and pics.

Wow, she's beautiful. Sounds like things are off to a great start with her new boyfriend!

Very hot slut.

That's awesome. You are a lucky man.

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Congratulations! It's good to see your wife is back in the swing of things.

quickie update...she and her BF went away for the weekend this past weekend...she got back home last night and is still sleeping right now...I unpacked her bag for her and she hasn't taken a birth control pill since last Thursday

iwashyde,
I just read through your posts (even the ones from last year) and I was hoping you would post more about how you and your wife got interested in this lifestyle.

Here is what I gather so far:
Typical suburban family, mid 40's, 2 kids, wife has breast implants, wife has had 5 or 6 boyfrinds in the last 4 or 5 years, wife stays sexually exclusive to her boyfriends, likes to "forget" to take birth control and doesnt think it is any of your business if she does.

Please explain the following:
1) How did you and your wife agree to follow this lifestyle? Is she not satisfied with your sexual performance? Is her sex drive much higher than your own?
2) Why the trend toward much younger men? Are they less of a threat that she would leave you for them?
3) Whats up with forgetting her birth control? Does she want another child? Does it make her hot to get pregnant by someone other than you? Dont you think it would make life extremely difficult if one of these young men wanted to stay involved with the child?
4) Is this something you enjoy together as a couple, or does she just do what she wants in spite of what you want?
5) Dont the kids wonder where their Mom is when she spends the night or weekend away?
6) Whats up with being sexually exclusive to her boyfriends and denying you? Is this something the two of you agreed on together? How do the two you stay connected without sex together?

Great questions "iwmwtcm"
Also, It sounds like they go out in public? Does it matter who sees them together?
Where do you find the boyfriends?

Let's see if I can answer these...I have to admit that there is a large part of this that "compartmentalize"...in other words, anything to do with our family, we don't let this affect. The family takes precedence over guys she sees, etc...that can be hard at times because of the way she likes to handle this but it's worked out so far...now, answers...

1-I approached her with about 5-6 years ago and she was NOT in to at all. In fact, she resented it...and then one day while we were having sex and I was talking about it for the umpteenth time, she said "you know what, this is BS, I am really going to do it and make you regret it."

Long story short, she did...she started "putting herself out there" for guys, found a guy she liked, and started seeing him. She's not the kind of girl that can go out and pick up a guy in a bar...I wish she was...she has to like the guy and/or trust him to fuck him...but she found a BF and started seeing him. The thing was...she will NOT let me see them together. That was the "make you regret this" thing, I think. Even when I used to fantasize about it with her in bed, she'd always say "if it ever happens, you won't be involved."

I have a higher sex drive than she does, overall, but when she starts seeing someone new, her sex drive gets ramped up.

She is not satisfied with me in bed. She was bored with me, honestly.

The arrangement evolved in to what it is now...she has freedom to date, does it at her will, etc. She now admits that she wishes she hadn't been resistant at first, but she still "holds it over my head" a little.

2-She likes younger guys because they tend to be in better shape, last longer, and there is less threat that they'll want to break up our marriage.

3-The BC thing is also part of holding it over my head. She doesn't do it a lot...I probably overstate that...but she likes to play with me about that. She doesn't want more kids, no, and if she ever got PG we'd likely get her an abortion. My honest opinion is that she uses rubbers when she does this or she makes him pull out or something...but she says it does make her hot to think that another man could knock her up.

4-If I ever wanted her to stop, I could demand it...but if I don't say stop, she can do whatever she wants.

5-Our kids are young...when she goes out on dates, they are told she's going out with her friends, or spending the weekend at her sisters or something.

6-The sexual exclusivity thing is also part of the "you'll regret this" thing...although it excites me too, to admit it. She said early on..if I'm gonna be with a guy sexually, it's gonna be one guy...you or my BF, and the situation just eventually evolved into BF only when she's seeing someone.

7-They go out in public but GENERALLY speaking, not near where we live. She has been seen with her BF a few times by people we know, but we live in a big city so it's rare. The few times she was seen, she gave an excuse as to the guy she was with, but I sometimes wonder if people know I'm being cuckolded.

8-She finds the boyfriends...wherever...one was a trainer at her gym....one was a guy that she met a bar one night....various places.

Wonderful to hear she spent with the weekend with her BF. It appears she enjoys him and will lose herself with him. Love to see more pics of her and how things are going. Thanks for sharing

So when you say you"approached her about the idea" what did you say? Did you say I want you to fill free to have sex with anyone? Or did you ease into it by trying to show her off, or other ways.
When she finally started putting her self out there, what does that mean? I guess she was flirting and dressing sexy?

Iwashyde, thank you for excellent thoughtful answers.

My GF loves that she can do whatever she wants, though she is slow to get started, for a variety of reasons. But she has started.

Beatiful girl!