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dcuckw2b
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# Posted: 17 Mar 2008 09:37:28
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During exchanges of posts with other wannabes like me ,all sorts of ideas about how to approach your wife about your fantasy have come out. very few people suggest just letting their wives know that they visit Cuckold or Hotwife sites. ...Is that such a bad idea. At least the wife would know what turned hubby on.It also would be clear after reading a few posts that a Cuckold ISN'T looking for other women. I would love to know the cuckoldress point of view on this too??
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dorsetnaga
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# Posted: 17 Mar 2008 10:08:50
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Quoting: dcuckw2b I would love to know the cuckoldress point of view on this too??
And how many women -cuckoldress or otherwise- do you think look at this site? Primarily, it is a site by men for men with an audience of men.
However to answer your question, if you have a wife that will understand that their husband likes porn then you probably have a wife that you can discuss the cuckoldry theme with anyway. If you can do that then I would skip showing her this site altogether.
Cheers,
DN
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Bongobongo
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# Posted: 17 Mar 2008 11:50:42
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I agree with dorsetnaga views. Whenever I open this site (with the exception of the illustrated guy in the logo) I am met with understandably explicit hardcore ads which I know for an absolute fact would turn my wife completely off wanting anything to do with this site.
Also, whilst looking for a Bull for my wife, despite a handful of sincere guys the vast majority of replies have been from pic-collecting time wasting retards. It has sadly become quite obvious that loads of so-called "Bulls" rely on cucks offering up their wives and gfriends for sex purely because these so-called studs are such ugly pencil-dicked losers that they couldn't get a woman by themselves unless they paid for it. If my wife had read half of those replies it would have turned her completely off the idea of playing with another guy forever.
This site is by men for men, most of them dreamers that type their stories with one hand. What the market needs is a site by women for women. Any suggestions or recommendations would be welcomed!
For the moment I'm relying on watching the occasional porn movie with the wife which coincidentally involves a cheating wife or a guy being blatantly cucked. Preferably amateur or gonzo stuff with real women rather then perfect pornstars. My wife's major stumbling block is her self-confidence rather than disinterest in the idea.
Try printing out some select pages or stories from here with the site details in the page header or footer. Tell her that you got them from some mate (or found them a bin at work). If she's intrigued or turned-on by the idea then she can check out the site and subject matter for herself. I'm trying this route to get my wife to grow to like the idea and to explore it 'herself'! Slowly getting there. Good luck.
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mygirl
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# Posted: 17 Mar 2008 15:28:02
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I showed my wife this site a long time ago. She is a hotwife in the true sense. She has fucked other men while I watched several times. The first time was while we were playing truth or dare. One of the best nights of sex we've ever had. I refuse to indulge in the humiliation part of this. It just plain turns me off and she would never do it to me either. We enjoy a good fuck session with select friends every once in a while... End of story.
We then decided to start a hotwife site. Since building websites was a hobby of mine for years. It started with just pictures or her and I. That site has changed over time and now is devoted to the hotwives and obviously the husbands that love them. I do get a lot of posts from people that are more into cuckoldry than simpler hotwifing but I suppose that's what people are interested in. Cuckoldry is more taboo so it should naturally draw more interest. Even though it's not my thing I still come to this site and weed out all the crap I don't like to find a few that I do.
Our site address is in my profile if you're interested.
J
Not into Humiliation? Me either.........Visit Hotwifeplace.com
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dcuckw2b
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# Posted: 17 Mar 2008 23:26:53
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Thanks for that Mygirl. I'm doing loads of soulsearching trying to get my head around the way I feel. I keep thinking should I just keep my fantasy to myself and not trouble my wife. I read other Posts and threads and think everyone else seems to have it figured out. but as you say there is probably some exaggeration going on here. Do you ever go on Ourhotwives. There seems a lot more posting by actual wives there,so one gets that perspective.
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uklund2
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# Posted: 26 Mar 2008 21:12:14
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iv showed my wife this site and the lava of byulls she says im a sick man yet teases me about sucking cum the cum of a blk man from her cunt .
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longkeel
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# Posted: 28 Mar 2008 10:00:42
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Quoting: uklund2 Member 131 # Posted: 26 Mar 2008 21:12:14 Reply Quote Report iv showed my wife this site and the lava of byulls she says im a sick man yet teases me about sucking cum the cum of a blk man from her cunt .
Ah but has she played yet??
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Sexy sub TV
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# Posted: 22 Apr 2008 04:28:53
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I was introduced to this site by my sissy, and i'm so glad he brought me here.
Tracy xxx
tracy69er@live.co.uk
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jamesriske
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# Posted: 22 Apr 2008 09:31:54
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no, absolutely not.
And don't take advice from women as to how to treat them, big mistake that men make.
Sites such as these are too extreme and too geared toward men. Keep her out of here unless you are both very advanced in this lifestyle.
Just introduce her slowly into things. NO pressure, keep it fun.
Watch a mainstream cuckold movie, I recommend Animal Instincts, the first one with David Carradine (the sequels to it suck) and that will bring up the conversation naturally. Then confess to her that you do like to watch but don't make it a big drama deal.
Then bring it up again and so forth until you both agree to have her give a hand job while you watch. No pressure, just a hand job. Find a guy and meet him for drinks and be honest, that it's just a hand job.
See how you both feel.
Next time, let her kiss or suck his dick a little.
Then the next time, a full on blowjob....etc.
Just ease her into it, have fun all along the way. Take your time but have a definite plan and keep the wheels turning. Don't just shock her by showing her a site like this.
That is what worked for me. In real life.
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rick181au
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# Posted: 22 Apr 2008 12:25:15
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We started swinging BC = "Before computers" I started showing her local contact papers, she was not all that interested to start off with but it did let her see just how other people lived and behaved, we were married 15 years before she went with another guy (I had taken her cherry when she was 19), we have enjoyed the life stile for over 25 years now and have met guys out of chat rooms for threesomes, you have got to move with the times LOL.
No regrets this way I can tell you.
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creamcleaner
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# Posted: 22 Apr 2008 12:51:19
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Hubby showed me this site now I use it more then him.....
Hi I am Sally a slut wife with very big slack pussy for big cocks for bare back all holes sex. My hubby has a very small cock and is only good for cleaning my cum filled holes.
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PalmCoastCouple
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# Posted: 22 Apr 2008 15:33:10
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Quoting: jamesriske no, absolutely not.
I agree, ESPECIALLY if this site would be her first exposure to the Cuck lifestyle. There are so many variations and other fetishes blended together on CP like bi-gay, submissive male, crossdressing, humiliation, golden showers, etc. A novice would have difficulty sorting it all out.
This site is 95% men, and 95% of them are strictly fantasizing, so their desires, stories, fantasies, etc. are often to the extreme. A novice wife would be shocked and probably turned off by the extreme content.
The last thing you want is to blast her with a "shock-and-awful" effect. Much wiser to ease into the subject through pillow talk, fantasizing together, watching vids, using toys, etc...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1. the husband of an unfaithful wife. NOTE - It DOES NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, sissyboy, crossdresser, cocksucker, scat eater, piss drinker, beastiality, incest or pedophilia.
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DarsLangly
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# Posted: 27 Apr 2008 09:31:28
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Related question: What sites WOULD you show your wife? I have told my wife about my fantasies and interests, and don't conceal my internet cruising from her. I find it is a useful, un-aggressive way to keep the idea in her mind without harping on it like a weirdo. Any suggested favorite sites?
darslangly
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dcuckw2b
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# Posted: 27 Apr 2008 13:06:03
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Well at least your wife knows about your fantasies,and I presume she hasnt given you the hairdrier treatment ,so youre one up on most wannabes. If I did show my Mrs a site ,it would be a Narrative type site like Ourhotwives. Its just a forum like this,but absolutely no pictures and links to porn. Its also free. Like most of these sites its mostly US contributors,but there are plenty UK contributions. I find theres less of the Indulgent Bi/Sissy fantasy on there.its just frank discussion.Also ita handy that a lot of ladies post as well.
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DarsLangly
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# Posted: 29 Apr 2008 07:26:03
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Good suggestion.
By the way, I like the UK part of the board the best, even though I'm from the US. This is a relatively sane corner of the site!
darslangly
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