She's roaring back in 2014 (& 15) taking things to a much higher level

Oh... just my tendency to have a few too many. It's not the first time... probably won't be the last. LOL. She'll get over it.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Been there done that !

Me too...

Just another example of how real life can interfere with this lifestyle. Although it's rare, we do occasionally fuss. All couples do. When that happens she'll usually cut back, or even shut down any extracurricular adult activities. I actually lose a little interest myself. Cuck requires a deep emotional connection... and when that's out of whack for whatever reason, things cool off. But it's always temporary.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

SheDatesHeWaits
Yip that is true. When I'm arguing with the wife I normally don't feel like having sex either. That was the case this weekend. I get a call from a Hotwife who wants to meet me. I tell her I'm in a crappy mood and so maybe we should meet for coffee. Long story short as soon as I saw her little sexy self I had to get a room. It was so good. It was almost like make-up sex. Then I went home and continued arguing with the wife.

i122 Well... I don't get that privilege. Ours is a typical Hotwife-cuck arrangement, so no hanky-panky for me when things aren't happy-happy with her. But the ice is already thawed here and life is just about back to normal. (Note to self: Lay off the Patron Silver...)
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Wife is meeting someone today. I noticed her doing her nails last night, and she just got out of the shower and is doing the makeup and hair. Prolly a lunchtime thing... but I haven't said anything yet, and neither has she. Let's see how it unfolds...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Nooners can be fun!

i122 I don't know if it's someone she's already met, or if it's a new guy. If he's new then I'm sure it will be her standard 'Meet N Greet' over a cocktail. But we'll see. She left here a while ago, all dolled up and saying she had to go return some shoes and run a few errands. Hardly! She looks like she's entering a beauty pageant... LOL
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Now come the wait wait wait and wondering. Is she actually running errands, is she just having lunch with someone or will she be someone's lunch? Wait wait wait till she enters through your door again. We all want to hear your next update

It's someone new. She's said that she would be open to breaking her "first date" rule for the right guy, but it hasn't happened yet. So I expect it will be the typical hour or two meet.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

It has now been a couple hours since she left. Has she returned and what did she say happened?

i122 She got home about 2:00 PM, maintaining her cover story that she was out running errands. But I snuck a peak at her phone and I know that she met someone new for lunch. She's been trying to "surprise me" with an encounter that I'm unaware of, and this might be it. So I'm just biting my tongue and letting her carry on with her ruse... hee, hee
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Did you check her panties for evidence?

i122 She doesn't wear panties very often, but there wouldn't be any need to check them if she did. Her policy is not to play on the first dates, and she hasn't yet. Plus, she met him at a restaurant at noon. The place is about 30 minutes away and she was home by 2:00. So nothing happened. If she agrees to meet him again, then it will be game on.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Like I said, she met this new guy at 12:00 and I just found out that she texted the Surfer Dude at 12:32 and they texted back and forth for a while. So, based on that, I'm guessing that the new guy didn't impress her. If she likes someone she'll sit and chat for an hour or more. If there's no chemistry she'll come up with an excuse to bail out pretty quickly. My guess is that she's now trying to set something up with the Surfer Dude for this weekend.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Or she's really getting into her new found freedom.

That's what I mean. She's free to do what she wants, and she's texting him... so I presume she's wanting to meet.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Sorry if youve already mentioned and Ive missed it but how long have you 2 been in this lifestyle including breaks etc?

I do envy how relaxed you are and am wondering how long it took to feel like this.

We started about 16 years ago. Like most couples, I brought it up and talked her into it. Like most wives, she resisted. We talked and fussed, but ultimately she agreed to try it to make me happy.

The first encounter (all 3 of us involved) was a disaster. It took another year before she would give it another go. The second time went much better, and from there we maybe played with one guy a year, although several of them she (or we) met with numerous times. That went on for about ten years. The whole time she was okay with it and had some good experiences, but her heart was never 100% in it with the exception of one guy who she was batcrap-crazy for. She had an incredible 3-month affair with him that could have been a Cuckold fantasy in Penthouse Forum... a totally great experience in all regards.

Then we sort of slowed down for almost 5 years... went to a few lifestyle parties... did a little swinging... she explored her bi-side a bit... but basically not much adult play through that period.

We found ourselves in a real rut last year, and went through a real tough time as a couple (totally unrelated to any lifestyle issues). But we both did some soul searching, came to our senses, and emerged stronger than ever. As a part of that, she basically told me she was ready to commit to the Hotwife-cuck lifestyle 100%, because she decided that she wanted it too. The rest of the story starts with my first post in this thread...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

It took all 16 years to reach this point. Along the way I struggled with every emotion you're dealing with now. That's why I'm comfortable giving you a little advice... I've been through it. When you get to the other side the world looks different, because you're different.

She's a great wife and a wonderful person. I love her and want her to enjoy everything life has to offer, including exploring her sexuality. She's having a blast playing with her slutty side, and she loves that I'm confident and trustworthy enough to give her that freedom.

I'm calm because I know who we are as a couple. I'm confident in our relationship. I don't own her. She chooses to be with me. Once I realized that, then the "Cuckold Angst" was under control and I began to enjoy seeing her grow as a sexual being.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

My wife and I actually separated briefly only a few months ago. I had a new girlfriend for a couple weeks - who is tall, thin, and beautiful. But it quickly got to the point where I would get out of bed with her to go have facebook sex chats with my wife. I was more interested in that than real sex, so I got rid of the girlfriend and went back to the wife. No one can turn me on like my slutty wife.

I'm the same way... and we went through a similar time early last year, with similar results. I've tried to explain to my wife that the idea of HER being with another guy is 10 times more erotic than ME being with another woman. She doesn't quite understand why that is... but she's accepted it for fact. It's goes to the very core of a cuck relationship.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Life has interfered with fun lately, but it looks like things are on the upswing again. The wife tried to hook up with The Surfer last night, but he's started dating someone and wants to see where that goes (just our luck... a monogamous guy LOL).

Now she's talking with someone else... a new guy... with hopes of meeting him for cocktails by this weekend. She still has The Bachelor and The Yuppie texting her. But since they both live more than an hour away she wants to try and focus on finding someone closer, if she can.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

A local lover is always preferred. I would think, if the other guys want some of her sweet pussy..... they should be the ones driving to her. She's way too hot and sexy to chase after cock.
Cuck who loves a creampie.

I feel the same, and have told her so. A lot of guys out there are lazy or selfish. The Yuppie and The Bachelor both text her constantly, trying to get her to come fuck them. She always reminds them that they can drive to us (I'll gladly leave for a while). But they never take her up on it, because it's more than two hours round trip. They expect her to drive to them... and she still may occasionally, however it will only be when she doesn't have better options.

Over the years we've learned that local is definitely the only way to go, if you expect to meet with any sort of regularity.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

The wife is meeting a new guy for cocktails at 5:00. Kinda came out of the blue. She just told me a couple hours ago.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

It appears that it went well. She liked the new guy. The two of us went out for a bite after she got home from meeting him for cocktails, and they were texting off and on much of the night. He's local and has two teens, but said they are often gone so he can host pretty easily. He's available mostly on weekends. I'm betting they try to hook up tonight or tomorrow. I've dubbed this one HVAC Guy.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Cuck who loves a creampie.

Nice one