So many "cuckolds" claiming to be cuckolds, but they are not.

I see a lot of people calling themselves "cuckods" to find out they only are voyeurs.

If you plan something with your wife, then there is no cheating, because it's planned, you agree with her... where's the cheat? It's a self-made situation, all is artificial, there is no thrill at all.
This is not cuckolding.
No cheating = no cuckold.

You are a real cuckold just if your wife DOESN'T KNOW. You agree with a bull, you make him know her and seduce her, and when he gets her, that's only THERE you are a real cuckold.

You can call yourself a cuckold how many times you want, but if you just planned your wife's fuck, you're just a simple voyeur.

Your definition is too limited, I think.

Yeah, I guess I'm more of a voyeur. I just want to watch my wife get fucked by guys with huge cocks.
My wife's ass: http://www.cuckoldplace.com/13_28160_0.html
Want to to stick your cock in it?

And your point is ?

There is a broader definition...what about role play? And cuckolding...?

kuroishin

Incorrect

By definition a cuckold is "A man with an unfaithful Wife"

Plain and simple. How it plays out after that is up to the people involved.
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I AGREE!

I am not a cuckold, but I play one when my wifes lover is here.....

A Cuckold is one who's wife is unfaithful. He may in fact know of her tryst before during or after. He may not ever know to the degree she is fucking around on him. Normally in a true cuckold situation the husband does not condone the wife extramarital activities but feels helpless to change the situation.

cuck·old
ˈkəkəld,-ōld/nounarchaic
1. The husband of an adulteress, often regarded as an object of derision.
verb
1. (of a man) make (another man) a cuckold by having a sexual relationship with his wife.


What most who write in on these forums would be is a Wittol. wit·tol ˈwitl/noun archaic

A man who is aware and tolerant of his wife's infidelity; an acquiescent cuckold.

All these variations on what people think the definition is are fine, if they are the particular one that turns you on. I'm turned by watching my wife do it with another guy, and when she does it and tells me about it afterwards, *and* when I think it's happening but I don't know. They are ALL HOT!
Old Enough to know better...but I don't!

I have to agree with gsndhyte! No matter what the definition is I get off on my wife having sex with other guys...there have been times when I didn't find out until after the deed was done and that was FINE! There were times when it was all pre-planned and she did it and then told me about it, and that was more than FINE! There were times when it just happened during a night out on the town and we met a lucky stranger, and it was super FINE! There was a party where she ended up in a bedroom with 2 guys while I waited by the door and that was AWESOME! There were times when I was lucky enough to be included in the lovemaking and that just blew my mind when I did a 69 with her and he entered her doggy style from behind!! A close up view, for my eyes only!!!! No matter what you call it, if you enjoy it, if it makes your wiener hard, makes her cum, then it's ALL GOOD!

I don't think you're a true cuckold unless you're truly submissive. Most of the "cucks" I've met are actually dominant. They find the bull, they insist on specific scenarios and activities, they have things they'll do and won't do. They have all sorts of requirements that as a bull you feel like an actor in a movie.

I've finally gotten to the point that if I contact a cuckold male online if I'm not able to text or IM with his wife right away, I cross him off the list. Once we've made initial contact and concluded that I"m a potential bull, I shouldn't be talking to the cuck at all, except to tell him what I expect of him.

Instead, I've got some guy telling me all the scenarios he's envisioning and making all kinds of plan about what I'm going to do with his wife. I'd rather just have one on one sex than some bossy cuck getting all whiny because I'm not doing things his way.

I don't think it matters much about the actual semantics. If my wife or girlfriend is fucking other men, it's fine
with me, and I don't really care what some dictionary says. I don't worry if I know, if it's been planned, if it's spontaneous, or if i don't know. I just want her to have as much sex as she wants with whoever she wants. I don't care what you call me, as long as she's as happy as possible.

Nearly every girlfriend I ever had fucked others because they all knew I was 100% OK with it. I deliberately chose women who were the most promiscuous to date, and I was lucky enough to marry one who had outdone nearly all the others. I'm very proud of her and the tremendous number of men she's fucked.
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Pussy-Free For Life

I almost completely agree with you, Sir, and the fact that you are hung like a horse would make me acquisce, but you have to cut the cuckold some slack for the simple fact that he is allowing you to fuck his most priced 'possession'...... don't you think?

I know of course that the fact the wife is getting penetrated by a huge cock in and of itself is the price the cuckold gets, that the satisfaction of a well fucked wife is even more priceless, and the *********** the cuckold faces makes it really an almost complete play for the Dom.......maybe we cucks have to learn to suggest, not plan?

larrycuckold

My problem isn't allowing the husband to enjoy himself or refusing to consider his desires and needs. It's husbands who are actually dominant, and "topping from the bottom" that bother me. I've encountered lots of cuckolds who script encounters down to the last detail.

I'm fine with general rules and limits. But within those limits I expect to be in charge. I expect the husband to submit to me and do as he's told.

For me, it's about more than just having sex. If that's all I wanted, it's a lot easier to just hook up with single women. I get off on humiliating and dominating another man by shamelessly having my way with his wife, and pleasing her in ways I know are impossible for him for one reason or another.

So, for me, I prefer a truly submissive man who I can bully, to be frank. And my point is that if he doesn't get off on being dominated by another man, then he's really a swinger or a wife swapper and not a true cuckold. A true cuckold is in a submissive role to the bull.

Sybil279

I wish you would not have written the above - it just makes doing with anything less than you painful!

Every comment, your entire description, is like the exact script I am looking for - I want to be dominated by the man taking my wife, be humiliated by the act of his taking my wife, pleasing her better and making that fact obvious by her desire to get used by you, because she also wants a dominant man using her properly for his pleasure as she derives pleasure out of that - but just as much by getting the dominant man show me why he is fucking her not I - gawd I wish we would still live in Naperville.....

What do you care? You come on here to correct people? It's a matter of semantics. Nothing better to do?
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