Wife tells a friend

I find it both very embarrassing and also a HUGE turn-on that many of my wife's girlfriends know that she's made me a Cuckold.
Old Enough to know better...but I don't!

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Interesting thread. I've had nothing to contribute until now. My wife is going out of town to spend the weekend with an old girlfriend. The girlfriend is newly single and quite the man-chaser. We talked last night about the possibility that the two of them might meet a couple of guys when they're out on the town. I asked my wife what she would tell her friend if that happened. She said she would probably just tell her friend that she was cheating on me, since that's the simpler explanation. But she also said there's a chance she might tell her friend about our little "arrangement". I have mixed feelings about that possibility. We'll see if she hooks up, and whether or not she let's our little secret out of the bag...
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

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bicouple4202000 It turned out to be a non-issue. My wife and her friend ended up hanging with family and socializing all weekend. They never went out to the bars, etc. I was a little disappointed, but sometimes they just need girl time and that's cool.

However, among the three women that your wife has told of your "special marriage", what sort of reaction have you been getting? Have the other women seemed supportive or judgmental or shocked or what...?
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

How about a simple statement that "we have an open marriage." Then let it drop. Don't over explain, as we as human beings do too often.

FantMstr I've asked my wife about that. She's telling me that she won't tell people it's an Open Marriage because she wouldn't want others to think I have the green light to play, too. That could open the possibility that her single friends might think they're free to approach me. "I'm cheating on him" is just a lot easier.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

I do understand what you are saying, that first statement is an opening gambit, not the full story. It may end right there. If the friend wants to know more, she can ask your wife. Or if she hits on you, you can tell her that she is free to look, but you aren't. Let the other person go deeper into it if they want.

Sorry to bore you with a story to maybe make the point. A 11 year old girl comes in from play and asks her ****** "where we come from?" The ****** gets into THE talk, complete with books with illustration. The girl blankly nods her head and goes back outside to play. Twenty minutes she comes back and asks "Where we come from, my firend comes from South Carolina.

Again, as in all this, my suggestion your relationship. And you have a successful one.

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bicouple4202000 That's interesting. I doubt our vanilla friends would be as accepting, so I wouldn't want them to know anything. Most of them wouldn't even know the word cuckold... they would look at me like I grew a third eye... LOL
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

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