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stubbyhubby36

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OK, I will try not to get too deep here.

The wife directed me to an article that she read. Without going into great detail the premise of the article is a discussion whether or not monogamy fails because it is not natural. The idea is that on a basic level humans are just naturals, and since monogamous relationships in the natural kingdom are very rare it just makes sense that humans may be inclined to have multiple sex partners even though they are in a committed relationship.

A CNN poll found that 1 in 5 women admitted to having sex with someone other than their spouse/boyfriend while in a committed relationship. Since most women "under-exaggerate" about how many guys they have fucked, that number is probably more like 2 in 5 or 3 in 5.

My wife thinks it is instinctual. She said that she can be going about her daily routine and not the least bit horny or thinking of sex and when the right guy comes around she suddenly becomes consumed with thinking about fucking him. She said that she can remember having this same urge come over her as early as 12 or 13 years old, when she started having her period. She thinks it is a hormonal thing. When a man emitting the right mix of hormones/pheromones comes near her her own hormones kick in and the urge to breed becomes her focus.

Opinions? Is it instinct or not?
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I think that sounds about right to us, women tend to be controlled by their emotions. So if they see a guy that turns them on it ignites feelings of wanting to have sex even though they think they are faithful to their partner. Interesting thread!
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Agreed, now lets all get back to our roots ;)
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In Nature the female looks toward the Strong healthy male and is most sexually attracted to him.
It is also natural to insure her genetic strain and not put all her eggs in one basket or with one male.
Quite often the male is chosen by battle, and it is natural for the female to mate with the winner and even violently reject the loser

It appears that the fantasy of cuckold is driven by the natural instincts of both the female and the male.

The female has these instincts, and her fantasies of finding a strong powerful male to over power her and or drive off the the male she is with, would be a natural result.

The male may instinctively know he is not the superior and is fantasizing about having the woman taken, perhaps violently away from him. Sometimes it is with offense and shame. Sometimes with pride in his woman having the strength to reject him for a superior male.
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Wonderful thread and would be very interested in links to articles etc
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this is a very interesting if small thread and i think the posters are hitting on something but i see it from the(sometimes)beta male perspective.when your woman comes home with her vagina filled with another mans semen where does the urge to lick it out of her pussy come from?....i think its also instinct....tO clear the other mans cum from her before its too late(ie.before she falls pregnant).for those of us that have licked a "dirty"pussy clean its plain that a vagina with semen inside has a much more enjoyable taste than a "clean"vagina.my point is that a beta male's desire to clean might also be instinctual.
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I agree. Natura moves us to fuck (not only with our "official" sexual partner, so, cuckoldry is 100% natural), while social norms seek to restrict and regulate this instinct.
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dickles:
In Nature the female looks toward the Strong healthy male and is most sexually attracted to him

Well, I must say strong healthy males (usually referred to as 'alpha males') generally take the partners they want. That is, in our case, stronger, sexier and more dominant males take our wives and girlfriends to be their females for as long as they want. Of course, women also signal 'yes' or 'no', and sometimes consenting hubbies and boyfriends may also have a say (which is usually 'yes'). That happens a lot between white females and black males, which explains the success of this and other sites.
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My wife is the same way. She won't be thinking about sex at all for days. I am very submissive to her with a 3 inch erection. I can be naked in our home and sex won't even cross her mind. But, when her lover texts her that he is coming over she finds all kinds of energy. When he arrives she is literally vibrating with arousal. When he pulls down his pants to reveal his 10 inch cock and heavy hanging balls she is all over it. When he leaves she is completely spent, fucked out is what we call it. Sex won't even enter her mind. We're back to being a sexless couple.

Her lover leaves town often for weeks at a time (work related). During these times, I am always naked at home and she never thinks about sex (she is always covered in some kind of clothing). I will beg to worship her feet or ass and she enjoys this and will usually comply. She leaves her used panties on my pillow in my room so I can sniff them at night.

With me she has no arousal. She doesn't even masturbate. She doesn't even think about sex. But, when she is with her lover (or other men she meets from time to time) she is all about sex and can't get enough. Worse for me is after she's had a couple of days of sex with her lover and he leaves, she goes through cock withdrawal. She gets very bitchy and mean with me. After about three or four days she calms down and her sex drive goes to zero again.

It has been fascinating to watch this happen over and over again these past several years.

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Forming a social hierarchy based on sex and dominance is a very natural thing, its seen in nature all the time with alpha males but in the more intelligent naturals like chimpanzees the females help too, often using a weak male as a kind of babysitter or servant while going off with the dominant male. In our closest relative the bonobo chimp males exert dominance over other males in a similar manner to the cuck/bull relationship.
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johnuccal:
where does the urge to lick it out of her pussy come from?

This actually happens some in the wild where packs are involved. I know that in wolf packs the beta males will often lick the genitals of bred females.

johnuccal:
tO clear the other mans cum from her before its too late(ie.before she falls pregnant)

In fact, licking your wife's pussy might induce impregnation. A study by IUI showed that women are more likely to get pregnant the longer they remain prone after insemination. The hyperlink is visible to registered members only! Her laying on her back with her legs in the air while you go down on her is in reality increasing the likelihood that she will get pregnant.
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I love this thread. The "natural" instinct in a woman to choose a superior man... it's so erotic for us cuckold types.

I've captioned this theme a lot here:

https://www.cuckoldplace.com/27_74912_1.html

Nature has always chosen the "fittest" to prevail. Those of us who are weaker often don't want to admit it. We cover it up with superior intellect or technology that helps us feel like we're better than others, but when we get right down to the truth of the matter, we KNOW we're weaker.

Remove all the "stuff" around us that enhances who we are, and stand face-to-face, nude, with a superior male, and we will ABSOLUTELY know our place. It is under them, and in service to them. We willingly provide our wives for them to pleasure and our wives willingly take that superior pleasure.

And we simultaneously suffer and delight in it all. That is the cuckold's role - the cuckold angst - exactly where we are meant to be.

Would love to hear more people's thoughts on this topic... very exciting stuff.
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A new documentary aired on the science Channel recently. It reviewed the latest research regarding female orgasm. there was a lot of very interesting information, and much of it has implications for cuckoldry.

one important finding demonstrated that the female orgasm [u]increases[/u] the chances of conception. Basically, peristalsic, orgasmic spasms help drive sperm into the uterus. this puts a very different twist on cleaning up our cummy wives. if we give too much pleasure in the process, we are increasing the chances of them having bull babies.

another subject that deserves more than this brief mention, considering how so many of us obsess about it-- the full structure of the clitoris nearly follows the entire vagina. it looks like a wishbone with the clit at the junction and the forks running to the cervix. permisterally, I am surprised medical science is still making elementary discovers about basic anatomy. However, more importantly for us, was the finding that while organisms via the clit tip are introduced by direct stimulation, orgasms that originate in the vagina are induced by deep tissue compression and expansion. in other words, it really does matter how deep you and go and how thick you are. bigger cock enables more orgasms which increases likelihood of impregnation. Bottom line, size does matter biologically. is therefore no surprise that women are giving a evolutionary reward-- increased pleasure-- for mating with big cocks.

I think all of this is yet another reamister why women should stop trying to comfort us about our small sizes. it's patronizing and misleading. I prefer more honesty, and I think many cucks do too. perhaps this is why many of us get turned on by teasing us or humiliating us about size. it is [u]refreshing.[/u]
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ponytail26:
I think all of this is yet another reamister why women should stop trying to comfort us about our small sizes. it's patronizing and misleading. I prefer more honesty, and I think many cucks do too. perhaps this is why many of us get turned on by teasing us or humiliating us about size. it is [u]refreshing[/u].

Well said!
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I love this thread. Would love to hear other people's thoughts on this topic. Just thinking about it gets me excited, particularly KNOWING that I'm a beta male and inferior to alphas with big cocks.

I often fantasize being back in time and living in a small village with my wife in our cozy little "hut". The leader of our "clan" is an extremely good looking and strong alpha male and is also married, but he eyes my wife and plans to take her sexually.

I see my wife is seriously aroused by the knowledge of his pursuit and am shamed because the entire clan has also noticed and have sneered and snickered at me for doing nothing about it. I am hurt by her response, but also somewhat aroused knowing that my beautiful bride has caught the interest of the best looking, most powerful male around. I even fantasize that he'll impregnate her with a strong virile misters to carry on the clan leadership, as his own wife has failed to conceive, and my wife will never conceive with my infertility.

mmmm... maybe I should write a Cuckold Stories post!
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Interesting and educational thread.
I also believe we are instinctual naturals, just a higher form then say, a wolf.
A human female, more or less, is attracted to a male who will give her superior
DNA.
A human male is attracted to a female who he sees as a superior young bearer (to carry on his DNA).

So the Cuckold in this, understands this is the Way Of The Wild, accepts it and finds his role in it.
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<< She treats me more like a girlfriend than a man - gossiping with me about the men in Her life. And we couldn't be happier. >>

The so-called "alpha" males don't understand the level of bonding that women have with each other. When I realized how much they communicate, and how they communicate, I wanted to be in on that and still do.
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I say yes, it is! It's only natural that the sexually active females may look for the most able males to fulfill their both psychological and biological needs. Conversely, most active males also look for sexyer females for sex and procreation - which is both an instinct and conscious desire. Many cuckold relationships end up in 'illegitimate' babies. Very often, these days, such relationships involve a white couple and a black bull.
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My wife definitely treats me more like a girlfriend than a man. There is no doubt in my mind that there is an instincual need for women and alpha males to be with each other. Cuckolding is a natural expression of this among humans. I am reminded of it every day, as my wife and I have been engaged in this lifestyle since 2000. She settled on one man almost 7 years ago and it is still going strong. It's dangerous fun, but it has worked so far.
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My wife also shows a tendency to transform me into her confessor by sharing her feelings on how her lover has been treating her and what crosses her mind when they're having wild sex. She also uses me as an advisor for lingerie and stuff like hair size, clothes and so far. I feel a little sissy by accepting it, but as we've always been close friends, I don't know how to deny this to her.
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I think some of you guys should not put yourselves down so much by referring to yourself as sissy's or second rate. I think it takes a great deal of strength to share one's woman and we shouldn't forget that! Mind you we're not into the offense thing and my partner would not find it arousing if she thought I was.
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ponytail26:
in other words, it really does matter how deep you and go and how thick you are. bigger cock enables more orgasms which increases likelihood of impregnation.

i knew it! my wife use to say it doesnt matter that i have a small cock., but in the past few years i have fucked her with large dildoes and made her come real good - better than with my small cock., now she readily admits that a big thick cock would feel special in her little pussy., i almost have her convinced to try the real thing - its just a matter of time and place - but theres no doubut in my mind that most women prefer to be fucked by a very thick cock.,
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I like the idea of offense, but I agree with you QueenB and He, people put themselves down too much here at times, so much so they make it sound as if you have an average sized penis that you are pathetic and all round worthless and as if they were born the wrong sex
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I agree. I was only saying it feels funny (or, better said, weird) being treated by your lovely wifey as if you were kind of a girlfriend to her. My wife says when her black lover enters her she feels a bit dizzy first, and next, all the veins, muscles and nerves in her body start working at a hundred percent. She compares her lover's black tool to a 'happiness stick', or to her 'daily chocolate bar' which gives her energy and pleasure. She consults me for hairdo, suntan and highheel shoes ... stuff like that! She also asks me to advise her on gifts for her lover. How should I feel, then?
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Totally agree about being more like a 'girlfriend' to my wife than a hubby. We are always talking about men, their cocks, etc...doing a lot of comparing. I love it.

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A few additional observations:

Look at how many of the posts refer to the husband searching for bulls, helping the wife dress, fluffing prior to sex, cleaning up after sex, even making breakfast for the bull afterward. It seems like these urges are all natural and relevant to ensuring that a woman can attract an alpha male and have a successful match. I feel incredibly proud when my wife is desired by a bull, I get excited as he pursues her until she submits to him. That feeling comes totally naturally.

There can only be so many alphas. There's nothing wrong with my role. The more I embrace it, the happier I become.
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Very interesting and provocative thread. When I think about my male friends some of them are so essentially alpha while I am whatever the reverse is called. All I know is that I love women, love to be around them, to serve them, to share with them. To me they are far more interesting than men, generally speaking.

What is intriguing is how women see men and what attracts them. Having worked as a male P A and hearing women talk in unguarded moments I think most of the comments made above are spot on. Most women love alpha males but value in a different way beta males.
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ponytail26:
one important finding demonstrated that the female orgasm [u]increases[/u] the chances of conception. Basically, peristalsic, orgasmic spasms help drive sperm into the uterus. this puts a very different twist on cleaning up our cummy wives. if we give too much pleasure in the process, we are increasing the chances of them having bull babies.

I have heard before that a woman's orgasm increases her chance of conception. Only recently did I realize the correlation between a large cock (more intense orgasm) and the likelihood of pregnancy. Obviously if a man is able to induce an intense orgasm or multiple orgasms then the physical aspects become more relevant.

ponytail26:
another subject that deserves more than this brief mention, considering how so many of us obsess about it-- the full structure of the clitoris nearly follows the entire vagina. it looks like a wishbone with the clit at the junction and the forks running to the cervix. permisterally, I am surprised medical science is still making elementary discovers about basic anatomy. However, more importantly for us, was the finding that while organisms via the clit tip are introduced by direct stimulation, orgasms that originate in the vagina are induced by deep tissue compression and expansion. in other words, it really does matter how deep you and go and how thick you are. bigger cock enables more orgasms which increases likelihood of impregnation. Bottom line, size does matter biologically. is therefore no surprise that women are giving a evolutionary reward-- increased pleasure-- for mating with big cocks.

That answers a lot of questions. I had noticed that my wife cums often and much easier with a big cock buried deep in her. If the guy is a "pounder", in other words, if he buries his cock to the balls and then hammers her pussy deeply, then she cums within minutes and her orgasms are majorly intense and she always has multiple orgasms.

Which brings me to another idea. When a woman orgasms her "spasms" induce the man to orgasm. In essence, her orgasm increases her likelihood to get pregnant, and at the same time physically attempts to draw the sperm out of him at the optimal time for her pregnancy to occur. A larger cock would induce more frequent and more intense orgasms, increasing her ability to get pregnant, and by default increasing the likelihood that when he cums in her she will be the most ready for impregnation. In contrast, a smaller cock is much less likely to induce an orgasm and thus highly unlikely to ejaculate at an optimal time. The smaller the cock, the less excited she is and the less ready she is for impregnation when the sperm arrives.
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God, I love this thread! Ponytail and StubbyHubby, your points make it all so clear, and the fact that I get a huge hard on reading it says so much.
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stubbyhubby36:
My wife thinks it is instinctual

I'm thinking genetic
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