What Am I?

It started when my wife told me she was into girls.. We started playing with girls.. then with couples. Now we swing.

For over a year now I can't stop fantasizing about her sucking and fucking other guys. She has been with other guys when we swing, but never had two guys on her for long.

We have never done full swap but I would love to see her fucked by another guy.. I think I would prefer to fuck her with just another guy and not a couple (but that's fun too)!

I'm not into guys at all.. I'm comfortable with accidental touching but not into dick.. not into eating cum.. Not into being humiliated or any of that stuff.. but god help me if I can't stop getting off to thinking of my wife getting the works by me and another guy.

I've been talking to her about it much more lately and I think she's into the idea.. I can tell she likes it but she is shy...

I'm not a cuckold.. what am I?

And how do I get this to happen?

I believe the correct word is pimp

Fear not. You are a voyeuristic straight swinger into threesomes.

You have a lot of overlap with us cuckolds, but there are important differences. The charge we get from our wives having sex with other men is based on the humiliation (slight or heavy) we feel about having "our woman" choose someone else over us.

Since you don't get off on (or even feel?) the humiliation of it for yourself, this is not you. However, you say you like to watch (voyeur) and participate (threesome) but only with her in the middle as it were (straight). Enjoy.