Question: When a cuck is larger than the bulls

We're more into the hot wife lifestyle and not into cuck humiliation, she enjoys MFM threesomes. However we've never met any bulls that are larger than hubby! In fact its often the bulls who go away embarrassed because of hubby's large cock and we never see them again. Occasionally the bulls are slightly longer but no where near the girth of hubby. Are there any other couples on this site who have experienced this? Its frustrating as we are continually looking for new bulls and to make matters more complicated she is very picky about the type of guys who join us.

Bigger guys are out there. A lot of smaller cucks like to work the so tiny thing, but, coming as I do from a submission domination background, the idea that everything is about size is a myth. Few if any of my wives "friends" have been as large as I, certainly none so "wide", yet they were clearly in control. Good luck, and when you find what you are after, enjoy it!

havewifewilltravel Thanks for your comments. Its not that we're looking for anyone larger. In fact QB would probably find any larger painful! We're just interested to hear how other couples deal with this situation. Especially about how some bulls will feel a bit diminished and some don't return for seconds.

My girlfriend and I have these same issues too, but so far it hasn't stopped anyone from repeat visits. Heh!

It's not that I'm particularly huge, I'm only 6.75-7" long, but I'm rather girthy which means I have to wear larger sized condoms...which means if a bull comes over he's either gotta be big enough or he's gotta bring his own condoms (now we just keep a set of regular sized on hand).

But it's interesting really, my girlfriend and I aren't into the humiliation thing either, more the hot-wife/swinging angle, and we're both familiar with dominance/submission play which doesn't rely on cock-size at all really, so I'm sure the cock-size-play isn't as big an factor. That being said if another guy came and fucked her with a truly massive cock I'm not sure how I'd feel about things. It would be hot as hell, regardless.

have a friend who is quit the accomplished bull, yet he sports something a bit less than 6". But he does have attitude...
Joe Preston

I have an average size endowment a thick 6" and I know how to please a lady and in particulare my wife. We have met bulls larger who have no idea and some smaller who were incredible lovers.

My wife sleeps with other men not because I cant please her but because she like men, confident take controle men who make her wet befor there clothes ever come off. So many on this site focus on the act of sex but cuckolding starts well befor that, forget the cock size of your bull and look at the man.

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Graz

So far my wife hasn't been with anyone larger than me. Unfortunately, the last guy she was with was downright small and she is very picky, so it may be years before her next encounter. But I keep hoping she finds someone who puts her over the edge and keeps her begging for more.

I think it can happen to a hung guy if he have a problem with his self esteem.
It never happened to my ex-wife and me, she was always looking for something bigger than my 6½ inches.
If it showed up the guy had been bragging about having more than he actually had it was surely the only time she let him fuck her.
Jorgen F

My wife will never let me see her have sex with her GF's but she tells me that I am much larger then both of them.

I'm in the same situation. As an example of what I mean you can read my post "Her lover fistfucks my wife and I don't" on http://www.cuckoldplace.com/2_58326_0.html
cornido

I am larger too. We look for bulls on personality and if they understand the game. For us cuckolding is a mental state of mind.

As an aside Mistress says I am by far the best sex she ever had but does enjoy trying to find new bulls too.
Again, again, again.

I definitely see how this can be a problem, it can be very empowering for the bull to see that he has a bigger cock and that will bring out that attitude.

The other way around might diminish that attitude.


I know that you are sort of into the hotwife thing rather than cuckolding, but have you thought about making fun of/humiliating your husband in front of the bull about his big cock? Just like saying that he is too big for you and that he can't even fuck you anymore because it doesn't fit. Or that he has no idea what to do with it which is why you need the bull.
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good for the cucks huh..lol..who cares as long as she cums...not everyone has to be huge to be a good lover...though being big doesnt hurt I guess my wife never complained about big sept when it hurt..lol..but she was happy with a few dudes smaller than me cause they worked for it

I think the cuckold marriage is even hotter when the cuck has a big dick, and the bull is only average or less. All you have to do is lock the well-hung cuckold husband in a chastity device, and then the bull can feel his oats without any reservation. The wife can mock her hubby because he has a huge cock that is useless! All his friends admire him for his big package, not knowing that he is not even allowed to TOUCH it without his wife's permission! It would be hot for his wife to get down on her knees and suck off the bull's little five inch pee pee while her cuck husband watched with his big fat stud cock twitching helplessly in it's cage! To me this is an even hotter scenario than the usual one! I think we need to use our imaginations a bit more sometimes, rather than just doing what everyone else is doing.
Looking for a hands-on type woman who wants my hands off.

The chastity cage is a great idea!

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