dildo for wife question

I have a small cock and cant make my wife cum with it. i recently made my wife cum by licking her clit and fingering her pussy. it was exciting because i got 3 fingers into her for first time ever. she is very sensitive down there though and said she was sore from my fingernails. she doesnt know i got 3 fingers in her. i thought that next time i would try licking her clit and using a dildo on her so i wouldnt scratch her again. a couple of questions i have though

1- where is a good online site to get a dildo
2- what kind of dildo should i get
3- should i get about the same size as me or should i get a bigger didldo than i am. i would like to stretch her a little so maybe i wont cum so fast on rare occassion she lets me fuck her, however i dont want it to hurt her or else she wont want me to use it on her

thanks for Your advice

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sissyjilly
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sissyjilly

any advice what kind of dildo i should buy?
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sissyjilly

Spend the $ and go with 100% silicone. Some of the vixskin ones are nice. My wife learned quickly the rubber and other materials caused allergic discomfort afterwards. I'd try one that is a little longer and wider than you but not too big at first. Hopefully a few months down the road, she'll be ready for something larger. Good luck.
fender

dont forget the clit is where they love it, i have a 4.5 willy and fucking is not really fun any more dispite using cialis. she prefers clit rubbing and the vibrator up the arse and she will come violanty when she has finished she will relax i can only get a come if i wank in her arms while she sucks my tits.
she said that things go through her mind while comming but she wont tell me i feel so left out. i would love to wank while she fucks somebody eles.

thank You for the advice, would love to hear more, want to make a decision in next few days
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sissyjilly

i got mine a inflatable one she told me i could never put in her, now thats all she wants. calls it her giant black penis. tells me shell use her fingers to keep her cunt loose for the dildo. two days later by the way.

I saw some "penis extender" dildoes at the adult store recently. They stick on the end of your dick like a French tickler.

Your dick may not be enough to hold the dildo, so you could also just buy a strap-on. Be warned though, given your relationship, it sounds like she might soon be the one fucking you with it.

thanks again the more input i get the better decision i can make. i did recently see the kind of dildo online that would strap on and go over the top of my own cock, making my cock thicker and longer so i could still go through the motion of fucking her. i dont know how realistic it feels though, i was researching and apparently the silicon ones are better than the rubber ones or something like that. not sure what the strap ons that slip over my cock are like?
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sissyjilly