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maphestosca
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# Posted: 8 May 2008 17:30:02 · Edited by: maphestosca Reply
Some facts about our relationship and how we have managed to balance our lifestyle in our marriage.
It works for us and we are both having the time of our life.
Feel free to comment, or question.
I love my wife.
I am still infatuated with her after almost 20 years.
She is just under 40 years old and looks maybe 30.
She is a beautiful woman, receives many compliments from many people, always gets attention.
She is height and weight proportionate, great figure.
She enjoys the company and attention of other men.
One of my missions in life is to give her every pleasure I can.
I have little desire to date other women, although I have a few times with wife’s approval. My wife is a classy lady.
I totally respect her as a person, I do not feel she is in any way a possession of mine. I do not feel I “let” her date other men, she does what SHE wants to do and knows that I absolutely approve.
My wife would stop if I became uncomfortable, I feel I am #1 in her life and she is my #1.
My wife’s dating is firstly for HER pleasure although it is definitely a part of OUR sex life.
My wife does not deny me sex.
She does not consider me a wimp and neither do I.
We have great sex together.
I enjoy her dating almost as much as she does. I take enormous pleasure knowing she is having a good time and being satisfied.
I understand that she gets something out of dating others that I can’t give her, the excitement of seducing another man, different styles of love making, different (sometimes bigger) cock, the flattery of being told by another how hot she is.
My wife is a great mother to our kids.
Our home life is kept totally separate from our sex life, She always goes out AFTER the kids are in bed and back before they are up. They are totally insulated from that part of our lives.
My wife is not a “slut” “whore” “cum dump” “pig” or any other degrading name, and personally I feel nauseous when I see these terms used to describe someone’s significant other on these sites. While I admit it might be a fantasy term that the women may even get off on…I feel it must be emotionally unhealthy on some level.
I never tell my wife what to do as far as dating goes, she can date whoever she wants although I would voice my concerns if she suggested someone I think is inappropriate. I never demand she do anything for me on a date, although she knows I love it if she can manage a picture or two or maybe a text message letting me know what is going on. Sometimes she does as she likes to make me a part of it. Other times she just doesn’t get too it. Either the right moment doesn’t present itself or she is too “busy” to do it. That is fine with me.
It took a long time for her to accept that I was cool with her dating. She finally understands that I have no ulterior motive. It is not so I can fuck other women, I am not pimping her out for my own gratification, I have not lost respect for her or fallen out of love with her.
We casually mention aspects of this lifestyle without fear of the others reactions. She will say things like “The last time I fucked ____, did you masturbate before I got home?” just as casually as If she was asking me if I remembered to take a video back to Blockbuster.
She has 2 regular boyfriends right now.
They do not know about each other.
One is black, the other is white.
One of them knows our situation, the other thinks she is a cheating wife.
I do not go along or watch her with them.
I have a slightly larger than average cock according to whatever I can find statistically, and according to her observations of the 10 or 12 lovers she has had in her life. I am bigger than all but 2 of them.
Her white boyfriend is about the same length as me, just a bit shorter and not as thick. Her black boyfriend is much bigger and thicker than any she has had before, she estimates maybe a real 10 inches and thick.
Her white boyfriend is very very very long lasting, makes her cum many times and even squirt occasionally, he is just the right size and shape and seems to just hit her g spot if in the right position.
Her white boyfriend and her have real dates, a few hours for dinner, drinks conversation, then sex later. The occasionally meet for just coffee or drinks with no sex. They talk on the phone or chat online most days.
Her black boyfriend and her usually meet for a quick drink, say hello, then get down to business. It’s all about the fucking.
Her black boyfriend is by far the best fuck she has ever had, every time, bar none. She often tells me she feels light headed to the point of fainting when she comes with him. He usually fucks her for at least 2 hours with her cumming at least 5, 6, 7, who knows how many times.
She always tells me the details when she gets home, I always kiss her and caress her while she tells me. I always tell her how happy I am she had a good time and how Turned on I am having such a sexy wife.
I usually fuck her if she is not too tired or maybe too tender when she gets home. If she is then she will blow me or I will stroke as she tells me more about her date.
cuckmaphestos on yahoo
cuckmaphestos@yahoo.ca


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cuckoldgary
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# Posted: 8 May 2008 21:49:22 Reply
Very well said and written. Our relationship is very similar. Just yesterday i gave her a new anklett charm and relleased her from our sexual marriage vows. we are still married, especially our souls but she has accepted her sexual freedom to call all the shots now. she is now ok with sleeping over with her boyfriend and wil be doing so this weekend. most of all she has elected to leave her her wedding ring in a nice box on my bedstand. she will take it off, i will put it back on each time she comes home. she will not take it off for everyone, just special men. to me it will be like marrying her every time i get to put it back on her. i know i can't please her , she is insatiable, and i am happy to give her the gift of her sexual freedom , and she is happy to accept it. i await with butterflys peering into my little box when i come home from work saturday, seeing her ring, knowing she is off with him for the weekend. i will hold it tightly while i masturbate that night envisioniing her bliss and satisfaction in his arms.
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nicehub
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# Posted: 9 May 2008 01:13:43 Reply
Dear Maphestosca & Cuckoldgary, Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart as I sit here in front of the computer and cry my eyes out. You have described our situation to the T! This information & manifesto will help me deal with my wife's relationship with her younger ethnic boyfriend. I really needed this. Thank you!
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asian_fever
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# Posted: 12 May 2008 11:16:29 Reply
Great - very good to hear all that - it summarizes your situation nicely.
Everyone is different, but I love to hear how it works for other people. That was detailed and interesting, and not over dramatic!
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PalmCoastCouple
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# Posted: 12 May 2008 13:00:15 Reply
Thanks for sharing... that was a wonderful testimony to what I suspect is the essence of most real Cuck-Hotwife relationships... a loving, mutually respectful, open minded marriage that balances sexual needs with family and real life in general . Our situation is almost identical to yours. There's no 3-inch pecker, sissy-wimp, sexually denied manly man here! Thanks again!
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1. the husband of an unfaithful wife. NOTE - It DOES NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, sissyboy, crossdresser, cocksucker, scat eater, piss drinker, beastiality, incest or pedophilia.
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redimac
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# Posted: 12 May 2008 15:39:01 Reply
maphestosca
While you may have input now, the situation can and likely will evolve in ways that you may not inmagine. That's where the real cuck fun starts.
Joe Preston
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wifedateshubwaits
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# Posted: 12 May 2008 16:03:28 Reply
What a beautiful description of your marriage! We live a very similar lifestyle and love it. Thanks for sharing.
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asian_fever
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# Posted: 25 May 2008 19:24:51 Reply
Wise words also Redimac. That's life isn't it? I just want to ride the fucker for all its worth!
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