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blackside999
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# Posted: 29 Apr 2008 09:14:41
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Don't you guys ever worry about your wife leaving you for another man? Couldn't she easily fall in love with someone else and decide she has no need for you anymore?
And women, how do you feel about it?
Cuckolding is fun in theory, and it would be great if you could count on it not ruining the relationship, but isn't there a major risk of real-life consequences?
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Creampie Lover
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# Posted: 29 Apr 2008 09:50:45
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My wife although she doesn't do it often, when she does 'cuck' me, loves it because I love it! She only fucks other men to satisfy my desire for her to do so.
She may be a freak of nature but she wouldn't do other men if I didn't obsess about her doing it. She does enjoy the few guys that she fucks...they're good fucks and always satisfy her but, she wouldn't do it if I didn't have the burning desire to eat her sweet freshly fucked pussy and drink the cum from her after she fucks her select lovers.
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joranc
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# Posted: 29 Apr 2008 12:19:46
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blackside999
this is my biggest fear and rather complex ...the risk of this happening in life with out the assistance of this..lifestyle is also a bigy..,as we never really know what life will thow @ us...we can only hope to take care when driving the vehicle and make good choices along our path , so as to
lessen some of this risk or @ the vry least minimize the negative impact and nurture any positive outcomes.
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Facers
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# Posted: 29 Apr 2008 12:49:57
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The chances of her leaving me or vice versa don't go up because we play in this lifestyle. If anything, with her and I, they go down. Regardless, if it happens it's going to happen. Ain't shit you can do about it.
I learned awhile ago to live for today. Tomorrow isn't here yet so I don't care about it. We're together now, and we're going to enjoy every moment of it.
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sissytomakeYOUsmile
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# Posted: 29 Apr 2008 23:45:08
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You would only go into this Lifestyle hopefully with the foundation of any strong, stable relationship...........TRUST. It is in my opinion from that point only can you build upon, explore, enhance, divulge and make reality your fantasties with someone whome you trust and love. I personally know no matter what happens sexually the true love and understanding of O/our relationship conquers everything else.
Best regards,
sissy amber
Property of Mistress Dolly
Have a fantastic day !
Best regards,
sissy
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blackside999
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# Posted: 30 Apr 2008 08:18:00
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Interesting responses. Thank you! I hope more people lend their thoughts.
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QueenB and He
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# Posted: 30 Apr 2008 11:14:25
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Anything can happen in life and everything is a risk but if you have a good communication with your partner then its unlikely that she will leave you for another man. The most important thing for a woman is the emotional bond she has with her partner not the size of another mans cock.
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subcuckguy
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# Posted: 6 May 2008 19:33:06
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I can say with Certainty, that I would not be a Cuckold, if I did not love my wife and she would not leave, if I put my foot down. I have become accustomed to the life, as a way of staying in touch with her sexually. Better to be clean up and called upon, when she is not able to get a "real" mans cock, than to just be alone and jerking off to playboy. If I would not do as she likes, she definitely would leave. So I am a more or less willing cuck, because of that reason.
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subcuckguy
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# Posted: 6 May 2008 19:33:25
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I can say with Certainty, that I would not be a Cuckold, if I did not love my wife and she would not leave, if I put my foot down. I have become accustomed to the life, as a way of staying in touch with her sexually. Better to be clean up and called upon, when she is not able to get a "real" mans cock, than to just be alone and jerking off to playboy. If I would not do as she likes, she definitely would leave. So I am a more or less willing cuck, because of that reason.
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cuckoldgary
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# Posted: 7 May 2008 00:23:26
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my wife started cuckolding to please me but now on her own to please her. so i did get more than i wanted.now she is doing to please her but i trust her, knowing she already has a couple of boyfriends that have offered to take her away from me.and she still comes home. a few months ago i asked her to take her ring off with one of boyfriends and she was very upset. but this last weekend after a bacchnal gangbang and when we were alone, she on her own said she was going to start taking her ring off for select others, and for yet others she would bring it home in a condom of cum. we now have a small box she will leave the ring in next to my bed stand when she is out sleeping over for the night or weekend. this is hard to write but i hve been in a constant state of arousal to the point she is caging me next week. do you think i will lose her?
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provoke
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# Posted: 7 May 2008 17:33:49
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I was married to a women and she cuckold me, when she fall in love to her bull, I think we take the "cuckoldrelation" to a higher level and I enjoy it werry much...!
We are a Cuckold couple from Sweden, like to talk to cuckoldcouples...
My wife have a bull...
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renebe
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# Posted: 7 May 2008 21:24:38
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When I started asking my wife how she felt about fucking other men, seven odd years ago, she told me "no way" she'd ever do that. A year and a half later she had her first guy. She did it for me, liked the sex, but found there was something missing.
After havng experimented a bit on and off, she more and more got convinced that this cuckolding-thing could be hers. IF she could have that one thing that would spice it up for her. "That one thing," off course, being having certain feelings for the guy.
Nowadays she's waiting for that special guy. A guy to fall in love with. Deliberately. She's looking out for him.
Yes, it as a risk. Yes, I could loose her. But there is no way that I am going to forbid her to continue her search. First of all, if I did and she would happen to meet someone, nobody is going to stop her anyway. But most of all, I couldn't stop her. My hormones would not allow it. This cuckolding-thing is pretty addictive I can tell you!
rene.
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tititoto
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# Posted: 7 May 2008 21:52:09
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My wife cucked me with 8 guys in 7 years of marriage, because I wanted it and she certainly takes real pleasure to do so. It happened two times that she was no more sure of her feelings for these guys. it's not always easy to handel for a woman when one of her bull's wants to go further than only sex in the relation. She has to be strong not to give in to the guys who themselves fall in love with her! Such guys than show their real feelings and can sometimes be very romantic with ones wife. But these things can even happen without the cuckolding fantasm of the husband. So, yes the danger is their but if you keep listening to your wifes feeling in all this cuckolding you have the ability to help her to focus on you again. You than have to let her find her way only with you and wait the time it needs before suggesting a new cuckolding experience. I'm that far now that I let my wife decide when and with whom.
Sorry for my poor English.
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PalmCoastCouple
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# Posted: 7 May 2008 22:22:34
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Quoting: renebe Yes, it as a risk.
I agree. Any time you put two people into an intimate situation, there is a risk of emotional involvement. Women often have a tough time sorting that out... so you'd better have a rock solid marriage before pushing your wife into another man's bed.
It's the confidence in our relationship that allows me to truly enjoy the sexual side of it, without the worry of dealing with jealousy. I get some measure of thrill in knowing that I can let another guy have a taste... but that she always comes home to me afterward. I'm Dom... so it's very likely a power play with me: i.e., what's mine can be yours... but only if I say, and only as long as I say so.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1. the husband of an unfaithful wife. NOTE - It DOES NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, sissyboy, crossdresser, cocksucker, scat eater, piss drinker, beastiality, incest or pedophilia.
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milf4bulls
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# Posted: 8 May 2008 00:45:51
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I've always wanted to fuck around, even in my first marriage but didn't until after I had my tubes tied. And then I only gave my neighbor a bj a couple of times. (we were both cheating actually) but I told my then husband. We'd already been discussing swinging and such fantasy talk. I'd even told him I had no problems w/a poly marraige as long as I was the Top Wife. That marriage went the by the by as we began to further explore swinging and such. COMMUNICATION, the Lack of, was One of the factors in the demise of that relationship.
My soulmate/husband/cuck/switch/sissy/Beloved understood my needs long before I did/do. He recognized the various aspects of my spirit and soul. It has been an interesting road. All things I've done I initially did to please/submit to him but the reality is I wanted/needed it all. And now it is time for me to take the reigns and control.
It is because of all of this prior that I know that no matter who I meet and mate w/I will always come back to my Husband. I have developed feelings for a couple of the gents I've been with over the last few months. But nothing that comes close to what I have with my husband. It is partly the diversity of our sexual/sensual/emotional life together that keeps me confident in that no other would ever come close to matching what I currently have w/Him. I may belittle him, redicule his cock/impotence but it does not take away from my love for him.
It only enhances and strengthens it.
So for me it is not a question of whether I would ever leave him ~ I already know I would not. He is my anchor/my Beloved
I am learning and enjoying myself immensely at my hubby's expense. :) I love a cuckolded husband.
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twisted one
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# Posted: 10 May 2008 15:54:30
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My wife did leave me for another man, after screwing other men for awhile before hand. I'm sure she talked a lot of smack about me too.
Would have loved to have heard it.
Serving the one I love, by letting her love the one she loves.
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asian_fever
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# Posted: 12 May 2008 11:12:19
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blackslide999 - the biggest risk one can take in life is to not take a risk
we all risk losing our partners every minute of every day
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Phxhng
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# Posted: 18 May 2008 04:16:07
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I don't want my lover's to leave their husband's for me...He is part of the rush of it all! Watching him stand there, smaller dick in hand staring at a real man pleasing his wife.
One hubby got more than I think he bargined for as I was balls deep in his wife pumping away. All of the sudden she let's loose with one hell of an orgasm and starts babbling about how it's never happened before and what a good lover I am. The look on his face was priceless. When I left that day the hubby confided that he'd never been able to make his wife cum when they just had sex! Well, she did that time!
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cbrown
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# Posted: 20 May 2008 20:37:05
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I think a wife leaving her husband for another is VERY sexy! Someone using what you previouly had has to be a total turnon! You,masterbating while he's enjoying her pleasures....too much....
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rdvrk
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# Posted: 3 Jun 2008 01:57:43
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My wife got the offer from her (now ex-) boyfriend last year. She loved him very much, and gave it much (agonizing) thought before turning him down. Difficult times for both of us, but it reinforced my feeling that our marriage is strong. If she ever does find someone she wants to leave me for, I will kiss her goodbye graciously and wish her all the best in her new life.
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Mani42
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# Posted: 7 Jun 2008 11:56:12
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Sigh...
"You're not a real man."
You get it. Which is why you don't.
Faggot.
I'd take her, but I bet she's fat and old.
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blackside999
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# Posted: 7 Jun 2008 12:24:50
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All great responses (except for Mani42)! How many times can that guy use the word "faggot?" Why doesn't he just go to a straight-up cheating wives site? Or an all-male site? Anyway, the rest of you, keep up the great insights!
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Mani42
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# Posted: 7 Jun 2008 13:16:18
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I only use the word faggot with you.
That's for a reason. Because "in theory" you're a faggot.
Your 26 year old girlfriend knows it too, or you wouldn't be asking these questions. Still bet she's fat.
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Mani42
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# Posted: 7 Jun 2008 14:31:24
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Quoting: Phxhng I don't want my lover's to leave their husband's for me...He is part of the rush of it all! Watching him stand there, smaller dick in hand staring at a real man pleasing his wife.
This is why I think Bulls are even more gay than cucks. Cucks are cucks for a reason. They are pathetic. Bulls that want a sub male in the room to get them off are just plain homosexuals.
I prefer taking the women of men who try.
That's priceless. Because I can.
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chelo1
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# Posted: 7 Jun 2008 14:46:20
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Quoting: blackside999 Don't you guys ever worry about your wife leaving you for another man? Couldn't she easily fall in love with someone else and decide she has no need for you anymore?
I've fucked several married women who cucked their husbands. Two in particular were beautiful; one in her 20's and the other 40's. I wasn't their only fuck. They had other bulls. Both eventually left their husbands for one of the bulls and are now married to them. Still stay in touch with one hoping for that one opportunity. She was a hot fuck.
Some people confuse lust with love.
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TJ Smith
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# Posted: 7 Jun 2008 14:54:05
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I thought my wife and I had a strong relationship, but recently she started seeing a new guy and has left me. It is tough but I knew going in there was a risk of this happening.
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blackside999
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# Posted: 9 Jun 2008 10:23:01
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I guess it depends on the strength of the relationship, the self-knowledge of the people involved (particularly the wife, but her husband as well), and the wife's level of commitment to her husband. I think self-knowledge is key, because even if two people love each other, if they're not self-aware they could easily discard real love.
Also, I think there's a danger of guys becoming too immersed in the cuckold lifestyle, where their self-esteem suffers and they no longer feel adequate in any way in relation to the wife. So I think guys need to maintain some perspective too and always work to make the relationship good, sexually and otherwise, independent of the cuckolding aspect. Otherwise cuckolding can take over.
I guess that's the case with lots of things in life though.
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wutouthink6
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# Posted: 9 Jun 2008 12:52:13
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blackside...yes never thought about it that way but you are right...the desire to be cuckolded can indeed take over - I think that's precisely what's happening with me. I will try to remember your advice to try and maintain some perspective!
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cuckoldgary
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# Posted: 9 Jun 2008 17:32:30
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In all reality, even when you are still married in a cuckold relationship, the wife "has left you". Some leave as often as possible.
You/I cannot compete with the bigger satisfying cock, the excitement in her life, and in many cases the money and baubles" he" can provide. All wives have the potential to leave, cuckold relationship or not, but the risk is much much greater in the cuckold relationship. Conversely you will seldom find a cuckold leaving. Any comments on this idea? Any cucks left their wives?
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blackside999
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# Posted: 16 Jun 2008 12:16:48
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Hey cuckoldgary! Cucks won't leave their wives, but it's true the wives could leave the cucks. But I disagree that it's always about "bigger" or "more money." Those things are important, but even more important is the quality of the relationship. A woman wants to feel appreciated and loved, and she wants to know the guy feels adequate (at the very least). The guy needs to maintain some friggin' perspective and not lose sight of his self-esteem.
In a cuckold relationship, any cuckold relationship, the wife already has "left you," even when she hasn't. But part of that is her own personal issues. That's part of who she is and where she's at during that point in time, and it's part of where you're at. But it doesn't mean she doesn't love you. It doesn't mean she really wants to literally leave you permanently. She wants freedom, she wants to have her cake and eat it too, but she wants to feel loved and appreciated and pleased by her husband. Cuckolding should only be one aspect of the relationship -- not the whole relationship. When it becomes the main source of excitement (and this is always for the guy, not the wife), that's when she turns from a horny wife into a woman looking for a new man.
I'm being a bit oversimplistic in this message. The bottom line is, I don't think all cuckold relationships are doomed. Not at all. But many are.
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