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kodder
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 19:45:54
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Dear All.
We are not attacking other fetishes at all, like scarf said some people would see the cuck fetish extremely weird.
What we are saying, this site is called cuckoldplace, a place for cuckold fetish.
that's it...
If we really wanted to see other fetishes we go to their suitable site.
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luceiia
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# Posted: 6 Mar 2008 23:13:56
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Quoting: PalmCoastCouple I completely disagree with your opinion that the "vast" majority of men on this site embrace the gay theme. If you read through the posts that deal with homosexuality, it's supported by a small, dedicated group that use the Cuck theme as an outlet for their homosexual desires. That's cool... we're not judging... all we're suggesting is that their interests would be better served on Gay.com rather than CuckoldPlace.com.
Thanks for your response.
First, my opinion is NOT that the "vast" majority of men on this site embrace the gay theme.
What I said was:
Quoting: luceiia I think MBC (and the vast majority of users on this board) embrace the gay/piss/femdom and other forms of humiliation because there is clearly an element of mental emasculation involved for the vast majority of men who find out they aren't the only male spreading seed within their marital contract/agreement. Seems pretty reasonable to me.
The keys there are "and other forms of humiliation" as well as the reasoning as to WHY the vast majority of males users associate humiliation with cuckoldry.
Homosexuality is only one aspect of male humiliation in today's society that can be fantasized about. If it doesn't do it for you, then obviously you should skip that and find the things that get you off.
Others find that various forms of humiliation via/with the cuckold theme gets them off. MBC agrees with that, obviously, since he added forums specifically for these themes, which brings us to your post script.
Quoting: PalmCoastCouple p.s. - I looked through the forums and couldn't find any that MBC created about homosexuality.
How about:
Ruined Husbands
Forum about husbands RUINED and EMASCULATED by dominant women through cuckoldry, crossdressing, strap-on feminization and forced bisexuality.
CleanUP and Creampies Forum
for real experts of how it to taste
Sissy and Chastity Forum
...the place for sissies and chastity postings...
Those three are clearly embracing homosexual fantasies and/or activities.
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For what it's worth, I fully agree that a couple of the fetishes that get posted to this website don't belong here and MBC already agreed to
Quoting: MrsBigCuckold start new fetish place and move to it all noncuckolds fetishes (it will be better for cuckold and for near-cuckolds fetishes)
Since you consistently revisit your revulsion towards the homosexual aspect of cuckoldry, you seem to be lashing out against homosexuality with a thinly veiled shotgun approach by trying to include several non-issues (bestiality, incest, pedophilia). Homosexuality is clearly and reasonably lumped into the pile of male emasculation humiliations that are directly related to the fantasy and/or reality of cuckoldry.
So, again, outside of your personal opinions on what the term cuckoldry envelopes (which are definitely in the minority based on the huge popularity of those humiliation types of threads, and even the owner/operator of the website appears to disagree based on his repeated actions), once MBC moves a couple fetishes to his other site and institutes the ignore function, you should hopefully be a happy camper.
I look forward to these site enhancements very much, and am glad we can discuss them.
-Luceiia
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PalmCoastCouple
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# Posted: 7 Mar 2008 17:18:15
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Quoting one another's quotes can get distracting, so I'll pick the more relevant points to discuss. I selected "gay" merely as an example. You lumped "gay" in with a handful of other fetishes that you contend the "vast majority of men embrace" here.
I believe that is an incorrect assumption. I contend that most men on this site are actually quite straight.
However, to make your point... let's pick another fetish. Piss-play.
Again, I contend that most men on the site do not wish to read posts, pictures or stories about Golden Showers or Piss Drinking. That's a fetish unrelated to Cuckold.
As you acknowledge, MBC has indeed created no "Gay" forum. Therefore, IMO he has not openly "embraced" the homosexual themes, as you contend. Similarly, he has also not created a "Golden Shower" forum.
IMO, he's probably allowing those posts until and unless they reach a point where they become problematic and interfere with the primary purpose of CuckoldPlace.com. Only he can decide if it's reached that point, and address it (or not).
You are correct that there are Gay and Golden Shower posts to be found sprinkled throughtout EVERY forum (forgive the pun  ), yet that is exactly our point. Gay & Golden Showers are NOT Cuck themes... and should be on separate websites. Most men don't want to browse thru posts about Piss Drinking as they browse Cuck content. Some will just abandon the site in disgust.
p.s. - Humiliation and Homosexuality are completely unrelated. The enjoyment of humiliation is common among submissives. However, as a Dom with 15 years experience, I can tell you that the "vast majority" of subs do not automatically associate homosexuality with submission. Athough some are admittedly both sub and bi, most males are actually straight. Females are much more inclined toward bisexuality.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1. the husband of an unfaithful wife. NOTE - It DOES NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, sissyboy, crossdresser, cocksucker, scat eater, piss drinker, beastiality, incest or pedophilia.
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Timmy27
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# Posted: 7 Mar 2008 17:50:31 · Edited by: Timmy27
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My aren't we becoming ridgid. If you go to Literotica.com and read any of
the cuckold posts there, they get blasted as being perverted. Are we now traveling down that same path? Are we now falling into the trap that any fantasy other than our own is disgusting and obscene?
PalmCoastCouple you suggest that most men here don't want to read about golden showers. I would be very interested to learn how you arrived at that conclusion. It is my impression that they are in fact a rather popular fetish, but that's actually beside the point.
The point is that the beauty of this web site is it's freedom. People can create here and feel free to push the envelope a little. Yes we do pay a price for this freedom. The penis removal threads are a little too much for me so I avoid them.
I also don't happen to be particularly excited by the idea of interracial cuckolding. My feeling is one lover is as good as the next regardless of color, but I am also observant enough to understand that there are large numbers of people whe are excited by this aspect of cuckolding and I say more power to them. Create your posts and enjoy yourselves.
I happen to like a little humiliation in my cuckold fantasies (actually I like a lot of it). I also know many people don't like the humiliation part of cuckolding. To those people I say create your own threads and let me have mine.
Placing a narrow definition on cuckolding is no better than placing a narrow definition on sex. There are people who believe intercourse should only occur in a dark room without foreplay or enjoyment and should be followed by a healthy dose of guilt. Shall we let those people define the limits for this web site?
Yes there are somethings on this web site that make me feel uncomfortable. When I see them I move on to something else.
There are some things that must always be taboo. Child pornography is an obvious example. I would add nonconsentual sex and crimes of violence to the list. But I think we have to be careful as we add to the list. It is a slippery slope that can lead to a web site that only allows the sexual fantasies that are acceptable to small, very judgemental group of people.
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PalmCoastCouple
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# Posted: 7 Mar 2008 18:22:21 · Edited by: PalmCoastCouple
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Quoting: Timmy27 It is a slippery slope that can lead to a web site that only allows the sexual fantasies that are acceptable to small, very judgemental group of people.
Timmy... your points are well heeded. In fact, I've made them on other threads/venues myself.
Nobody is judging here. We all have our "thing" and we have no right to judge anyone else.
Our point is simply this: CuckoldPlace.com has evolved away from just Cuck. It is now EveryFetishUnderTheSun.com.
Basically, if you want it, it's here. Conversely, if you WANT Cuck content you have to sift through unrelated content to get to it.
Someone mentioned drifting toward "censorship". It's not censorship if MBC chooses to limit non-Cuckold content on his website called CuckoldPlace.com.
It's no different than going to a Dogs.com and posting about your cat. It's not censorship... it just doesn't belong on that forum.
Oh... to answer your question on "who decides" the content... MBC does. He can do as he chooses, including asking me to leave if he feels I'm off-base on this thread.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1. the husband of an unfaithful wife. NOTE - It DOES NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, sissyboy, crossdresser, cocksucker, scat eater, piss drinker, beastiality, incest or pedophilia.
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GGLAW3
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# Posted: 7 Mar 2008 19:04:53
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Or what?
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Scarf
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# Posted: 7 Mar 2008 20:44:20
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To each his own thread -
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latinoheat102183
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# Posted: 7 Mar 2008 23:37:51
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I think you are very right there is no one that could handle that type of treatment. My wife and I have a mutual agreement and though she enjoys it she said the biggest turn on for her is knowing that she can please and arouse me in more than one way. She is respectful and would stop if I really wanted her too.
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duckandbunny79
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# Posted: 8 Mar 2008 00:03:35
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My point remains like I said earlier on you will have as many fantasies and opinions as people can have wants. For me I don't care if people want to chop their bits off and sell them on ebay whilst watching their wife take all their money and do a runner with the pool guy then fine.
But the family stuff disturbs me as it involves an abuse of trust, it's no longer about what you do to yourself its exposing your own family to your own sexuality never a good result look at the blue bloods of the royal family. But seriously the being cucked by your daughter threads seam to show a side that people get off involving even if just in fantasy their offspring in their sex lives if I was the CEOP i'd be watching here like a hawk.
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R Couple
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# Posted: 8 Mar 2008 00:52:24
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I've been reading this thread and cannot believe some the stupidity I'm seeing.
Cleaning your lady's freshly-fucked pussy is not a homosexual act. This is classic femdom and has nothing to do with male-on-male homosexuality.
Other than licking a woman's pussy, it is the ultimate act of submission to her. If it turns both of you on, why label it homosexual? Maybe, your man is bisexual. Take advantage of it, if this is the case. My wife is bisexual, but I won't have anything to do with a man unless wifey demands it and she's in the action. Even then, she knows I won't do certain things. We are a fucking great pair... literally.
I DO find the daddy/daughter and "family" stuff a bit disturbing, but not so much the mature/young stuff. Hey, caption it one way and it's the pits; another way, and it's great. But, there is a line and the wife and I just ignore the stuff that's really offensive. Oddly, people complain about the castration stuff, but this is integral to the male psyche and good castration play can be a real turn on. Have you ever seen how much pain women endure in BDSM? If that turns them on, then you should get a subscription to meninpain.com - totally vanilla, IMHO.
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luceiia
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# Posted: 8 Mar 2008 01:13:11 · Edited by: luceiia
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Quoting: PalmCoastCouple I selected "gay" merely as an example. You lumped "gay" in with a handful of other fetishes that you contend the "vast majority of men embrace" here. I believe that is an incorrect assumption. I contend that most men on this site are actually quite straight.
You are willfully ignoring and/or misstating the meat of my argument. That amounts to intellectual dishonesty. There is nothing meaningful to be had from further discourse.
To other members reading this,
PCC's assertions can be (as he's shown) marginally valid when taken as individual disconnected points.
When taken as a whole, in context with the overall sexual turn on of humiliation stemming from the VAST number of ways we humans have found to obtain such humiliation, his points lose (as I've shown) all validity. With cuckolding as the common glue, all of the ancillary forms of humiliation that show up WITH cuckolding are quite reasonable and expected -- even though various couples may choose to only partake of one or two of the multitude of forms.
Threads devoted solely to golden showers are not particularly appropriate for this website in my opinion, but I've not seen any. Perhaps I missed a couple, but not very many. The threads I've seen that contain golden showers REVOLVE around a central cuckold theme. And that's the case for all of the potentially valid concerns I've seen PCC mention.
Last, I don't think it takes a rocket scientist to figure out the very simple, very obvious, universally recognized connection between humiliation and forced bi/homosexuality. Thus, I won't comment further on that.
Again, thanks to all who choose to participate in a meaningful way to the betterment of this website.
-Luceiia
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R Couple
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# Posted: 8 Mar 2008 01:21:31
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HOT
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PalmCoastCouple
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# Posted: 8 Mar 2008 15:43:13
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Quoting: luceiia PCC's assertions can be (as he's shown) marginally valid when taken as individual disconnected points.
Thank you for saying that. Simply stated, here's where our opinions diverge.
You tended to bundle things together in your points above. I tend to dissect them, break the problems down to lowest denominator and address them.
You feel that the "bundling" of other fetishes together with Cuckold makes them acceptable for a Cuck venue. i.e. - you said Golden Showers as a separate thread is inappropriate, yet Golden Showers as part of the Cuck play IS acceptable.
There is (literally!) a discussion in a thread somewhere where a man was sucking another man. There was a portion of a woman's foot evident in the lower corner of the photo. So someone made the argument that it was not a homosexual act, because a woman was present.
I, and apparently other posters here, disagree with that philosophy. Men sucking off men is a gay act. Doing it to a "bull" doesn't change that, and I still maintain that most men don't come here for that.
This shouldn't digress to a point where everyone feels a need to defend their preferences. Nobody is judging anyone else. But this is a Cuck site... and we're just looking for a productive dialogue that will help better sort and/or organize the content so everyone can find what they want more efficiently.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1. the husband of an unfaithful wife. NOTE - It DOES NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, sissyboy, crossdresser, cocksucker, scat eater, piss drinker, beastiality, incest or pedophilia.
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blazingsun
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# Posted: 8 Mar 2008 20:42:36
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I agree that this site it a cuck site. But when it comes to a couple where they loose love and respect for each-other is something that makes it scary. A third person can influence your decisions, which always revolve around it is a problem.
And last but not the least it the manipulation of many people, esp. hubs. where they are driven by excitement, which is just a mental excitement, but not sole fully fulfilling. Eg. if the husband does not want to denied sex, or does not want his wife to bear anyone else's child, but because of excitement and things manipulated starts excepting it. Remember, these things come from wife who is the closest person, and hence has the highest impact. Even subtle verbal abuse or degradation or complain can cause performance anxiety, and stretch it further and you have a hub. feeling guilty and a willing cuck.
I believe its great if couples willingly do it, or guys who are just cuckold, or subversive and a wife willing to have fun outside and still have each other as their prime focus. And a bull who respects their relation and only imposes when its pleasure for all the people.
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Cee
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# Posted: 10 Mar 2008 22:22:28
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I jus thought this site was about woman who like to fuck, feel sexy and men who like to watch etc, with full willing participation of all parties.
Pissing me off when I get paranoid about all the bullshit on here re sick images, suggestions etc and themes that are not cucking types.
Cucking is nothing to do with weirdness or illegal fetishes.
This site is sexy and a bit dangerous but all in a good way.
Wish the big guys would clean out and ban all the non cucking, wierd shit that gets posted, but time is precious.
Ban the sickos.
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Scarf
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# Posted: 12 Mar 2008 04:53:54
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Cee - I totally agree - Ban all of those sick bastards!
This site should only be for "Normal" people, like wives that enjoy fucking other men while their husbands watch, and of course the husbands that get off on watching it...like you say"cucking has nothing to do with weirdness", I mean what could be more normal then cucking?
BAN ALL THE SICKOS!
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luceiia
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# Posted: 15 Mar 2008 16:28:56
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Quoting: Cee Ban the sickos.
MBC - please ban yourself. 
Luceiia
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goodhusband
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# Posted: 16 Mar 2008 19:32:18
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This discussion is silly.
Figure out which threads you find enjoyable, and figure out which threads you find offensive. Go to the threads you find enjoyable and have fun. Avoid the threads you find offensive.
It's not all that difficult. If you find a thread labeled, "Should a Wife Be Allowed to remove her husbands testicles" Don't Open It!
Well that's about all I have to say about this. I'm going to go find a thread that looks like it might interest me. When I find it I'm going to open it up and hope it will give me a little stiffy.
GH
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luceiia
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# Posted: 16 Mar 2008 22:45:20
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Quoting: goodhusband This discussion is silly.
I don't think the entire discussion is silly - signal to noise ratio is important to a lot of people, and probably increasingly important as society (in the Information Age) continues to get faster and faster. Folks don't have a lot of spare time to sift through rubble to find diamonds.
You're spot-on about the discussion about which 'diamonds' are legit CUCKOLD activities and which are not - it's pretty silly.
And I think Cee should be banned for his discussion of banning sickos. =)
-Luceiia
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Greenman
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# Posted: 20 Mar 2008 12:38:07
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I must agree with goodhusband, if you don't like it, don't read it.
If you are a regular on this site you will soon find what threads offend you, then don't open them.
I don't like too much official censorship, be your own censor.
Greenman
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stfu
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# Posted: 31 Mar 2008 15:28:27
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PalmCoastCouple
Quoting: PalmCoastCouple Stop ya whiney bullshit and just ignore the crap that don't tickle ya fancy. The problem is that you have to wade through all the "crap"
I agree with an earlier comment you were discussing in another thread ,about labeling adequately.
kodder You have gone and got your "real person" status recently, well done.
So I accordingly stand corrected.
Bill
I.. I ......[small font] I'm sorry dude [/ small font] [smaller font][squeaky voice] I love you[/squeaky voice][/smaller font]
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asian_fever
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# Posted: 4 May 2008 07:10:49
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I always worry when people dismiss some fantasies - and the people who post them.
Lets face it - Multi Orgasmic Mary is so extreme - she is obviously a fake!
Except we know she is not.
I think people are always looking for a new buzz so they get wilder and more ridiculous. But most times the pleasures are in the simple things. The first time I was ever cucked by a girlfriend is really clear to me this morning. I will never ever forget the sensation of my cock almost melting into the boiling pot of her well fucked cunt. That's pretty much it!
I posted this story in Cuckold Place under "Sweet Reminisce" if anyone wants to revisit the pure beauty of it!
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stormydog
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# Posted: 4 May 2008 07:34:07
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As usual, goodhusband's point is right on target and eloquently stated. I enjoy posting stories on here and hearing from people that have read them, whether positive or critical of the stories.
Some of the stories that I do are mostly true with just a grain or two of "creative license", while others are mostly fiction with just a grain or two of truth. But so what - you decide whether or not you enjoy them or care to read them. We enjoy the lifestyle, but don't engage in it on a daily basis by any means. It just keeps things interesting and exciting for us, but that is our choice, make your own.
It's the same with the other, more extreme posts. If you think it might disgust or offend you, click elsewhere.
I also very much enjoy the other story posts and photos that are put up here, and salute the time and effort people put in for the enjoyment of others. Thanks all, for your efforts, and thanks to MBC for all the work maintaining the geat site.
Again, don't go out of your way to read stuff just so you can get outraged and complain. Just ignore it!
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duckandbunny79
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# Posted: 19 Jul 2008 01:21:47
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The whole thread is good because this is what the internet is about, self censorship. We the readers and posters have to say what is right or wrong as no one else can. People are free to post what they like true enough but if you don't like it your just as free to say so as those who do like it.
If people never commented other than to give a positive responce then when something illegal is done if no one comments then as a society we are giving the ok by not acting on it.
Society are the first line of policing and on the internet sometimes the only policing possible is to make a comment to spark others into thinking hey is this actually ok.
Just as it is for others to say actually if you like it go for it that way everyone gets to see the balance of opinion and with informed debate can make a reasoned judgement.
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jbrown
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# Posted: 19 Jul 2008 16:52:33
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wow good read i'm glad for members like pcc and others pointing out what cuck play is when we first started and i read some of the shit posted i couldn't beleive it.then i realized the way of shit is some desperate fuck and his secrete fanatsy i stay out of about 98 percent of the forums stick to real world and basic cucks the rest is mostly b/s and worthless for me.for others thats thier thing.i feel for the poor fuckers that you know are just making shit up makes your wonder how sad their life really is to post shit like that up.i like posted about our play and keep things real in hopes of new people coming will run across my post and see others are fine with their wives getting some extra dick without out all the other fetishes attached
truely enjoyng married life one fuck at a time
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jbrown
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# Posted: 19 Jul 2008 16:59:23
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another point i don't know if you guys get alot of pms but some of the shit i get pmed me gets out their there are a few guys i'll talk and send pics and some that offer advice and help with posting stuff is cool there are alot of good posters here. but the fucks that call my wife a dirty fucking whore ect... and what shit for me just isn't going to happen.i maybe a cuck but i sure the hell aint their free private porn site.
truely enjoyng married life one fuck at a time
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wildone69
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# Posted: 19 Jul 2008 19:21:29
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I agree with the original post. I just like my wife to have sex with me and other men thats all. Kids and freaks prowling around playing games is part of the B.S. that we have to deal with on the web.
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Thesimeon
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# Posted: 19 Jul 2008 20:47:38
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I have been a lurker on this site for a long time, and this is the first thing I have really wanted to chime in on. First, I think the original poster really has something, and I agree to a large extent with what he says.
I think that easily the best analogy submitted thus far is "signal to noise".
Can i get my cuckolding through all the scat/ped/beast/ whatever? Sure, but... On a fuzzy radio station, i can usually tell which song is being played, but its very difficult to get any pleasure out of it with all the other static.
All that said, I hope we don't ignore one thing that I LOVE LOVE LOVE! about this site, is that every once in a while, someone will jump into the "daughters" caps or some other odd perversion and start raving about how sick this is, and they may be right, but they are consistently shouted down.
And that is wonderful in and of itself. Even this thread is wonderful for the assertions that the scat, gay, ect crowd has gotten too loud. It's not those the sick, sick fucks are sullying our minds like janet jackson's boob, they just might have gotten too loud. Can you imagine what this thread would look like anywhere else on the net? Can you imagine seeing this thread most places on the net?
We read this site for sexual gratification, mostly, but it has become, because of the open mindedness and kindness of the community, a place where people with fetishes ranging all over the damn place can come and feel safe, and happy, and un-judged.
Its annoying, but its wonderful too. I hope you can take a moment to congratulate yourselves.
Zach
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Jeannette
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# Posted: 19 Jul 2008 21:18:26
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I think it's the best site on the web because of diversity.
We can all have fun here...choose your forum.
Fem Sissy
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