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DCSlayHer Member 14	# Posted: 30 Dec 2007 22:46:55 Reply  I wanted my girlfriend to cuckold me and she embraced the idea. She started going out with guys and let them finger her. After a couple of months of playing she broke up with me (October 2007.) Now I'm finding out it was for another man. She told me otherwise and we've been talking everyday since the breakup. She even lead me to believe we'd get back together. But she is on vacation with him right now although she told me was going with a female friend. Someone I know saw them and wrote me and told me about it. I know he is fucking her and I'm jealous and angry but I can't stop cumming all over myself knowing all the dirty things they're doing together.
Hearnest Member 94	# Posted: 30 Dec 2007 23:34:10 Reply  Quoting: odunroc life sucks, sometimes. Yup.
Ronald Curry Member 114	# Posted: 31 Dec 2007 00:18:09 Reply  Yeah it happened to me years back while in college. I let the cat out of the bag with all my fantasies; foot fetish, ass worship, panty worship, cuckold. The day she realized I was happy and eager to lick other men's cum from her pussy her assjole is pretty much the day it was over. I remember the day she took her pussy away. I took her in the bedroom after she told me that she had bee sleeping with a guy on a regular basis and she indirectly told me she was falling for him. I began kissing her feet as usual making my way to her pussy. Then she said stop and got dressed. She met me once more after for a cleanup session and a goodbye. Never had her sweet slutty pussy ever again Ronald Curry
bostamp Member 279 Pictures: 4	# Posted: 31 Dec 2007 04:18:46 Reply  Sorry to hear that, I guess that is a chance we all take when we live this lifestyle. But most of us have had great fun living this lifestyle and are still together.
bullcock2222 Member 93	# Posted: 31 Dec 2007 04:37:37 Reply  Are you surprised? Seems like you got dumped shortly after she "embraced" the idea. Are you really that clueless? bullcock
DCSlayHer Member 14	# Posted: 31 Dec 2007 14:38:13 Reply  I don't remember typing "surprised" anywhere in my story. Maybe you should learn how to read.
drfarmer Member 110	# Posted: 31 Dec 2007 16:10:28 Reply  Now, now, children. DC, you may not have used the word "surprised" explicitly, but surprise is written all over your initial post. Bullcock, you may be right, but there is no call for rubbing it into his anger and jealousy. In a manner of speaking, I have been in your position, DC, having suggested to the wife about playing with other men very early on, but then she ran with it, lied to me about it, would have run off with her bull had he agreed (He didn't because who would say she wouldn't run off from him like she was proposing to do with her first, me.), blamed me, and made life miserable for me for decades. Women are more sexual creatures than men, they are feeling about it all the time (rather than thinking about it like us males of the species), they just don't admit it to us. So her quick reaction to your suggestion is likely a confirmation of her pre-existing thoughts and desires, if not actions. Your relationship with the chick may well have been doomed long before. From that perspective, you are better off without her. We come here for advice and to dispense advice as well as sharing the fantasies and real stories. I certainly have found this forum extremely useful in dealing with the wife, even though I have followed only about a third of the advice, utterly rejecting the rest, and continue to come back for more. I find I am now giving out advice in this area to people around me. Who'd have thunk! Those of us who have been there, suffered that, are qualified to do so, seems to me. Bullcock, luv ya. You are probably right, but dial back the rhetoric a bit. He's hurting enough. Good luck, DC.
redimac Member 1917	# Posted: 31 Dec 2007 16:20:59 Reply  You have to have a strong relationship prior to this is you want any chance of maintaining a marriage. SImple as that. Joe Preston
PalmCoastCouple Member 274	# Posted: 31 Dec 2007 16:50:39 · Edited by: PalmCoastCouple Reply  Agree with redimac! Like any of the alternative lifestyles that involve others, you'd better have a rock solid marriage before stirring in anyone else. Along with all of her other wonderful traits, my wife is a pragmatic individual. She pointed out very early that this can be playing with fire. There is always the possibility of introducing, or allowing your wife to find, a better "Mr. Right". With the new relationship involving new and exciting sexual unions with dominant, attractive, well-hung men, the recipe is there for the fantasy to become bitter reality, and your wife to end up married to someone else. Like my wife says... be careful what you wish for! When you're dealing with 3 people in a relationship, you're only in control of one of them! cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1. the husband of an unfaithful wife. NOTE - It DOES NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, sissyboy, crossdresser, cocksucker, scat eater, piss drinker, beastiality, incest or pedophilia.
redimac Member 1917	# Posted: 31 Dec 2007 18:23:00 Reply  PalmCoastCouple Or perhaps in control of none..... Something new, forbidden...is always and ultimately intriguing, if not addictive. Which is why your bull needs to be mature, experienced, and thoughtful in his approach. Joe Preston
drfarmer Member 110	# Posted: 31 Dec 2007 20:51:45 Reply  redimac, palmcoast: I agree. The fact is, we were in a rock solid marriage, had started a family, and claims not to remember us talking about threesomes and moresomes beforehand. It just happened, then continued, she says. She does remember from that time how wonderful being pregnant by the right man (me) while fucking her bull. A recent article through WebMD says there is sometimes no reason at all for an affair to begin or continue, that it frequently enough happens to the strongest of marriages. Presumably, this happens regardless of swinging or cuckolding prospectively in the picture. Hence, there is always a risk. But life itself is a risk, a grand exercise of exceptions to the rules. Anyway, I made lemonade out of the lemon of a marriage she had made for me, and so far, things are quite good, swinging, swapping. (i.e., once a cheating wife, always a cheating wife, so why not take advantage of it?) Still looking out for danger signs, and may have in fact seen one just last night. Says she is considering giving me a hall pass, and expressed admiration when I did not jump at the opportunity. Might mean nothing, might mean she wants to, or is already, stepping out without my knowledge. Still, the risks are worth it to me, since I will not go back to the previous situation with her. I'd rather be divorced. The real issue here is DC's reaction to his situation. That is my concern.
PalmCoastCouple Member 274	# Posted: 31 Dec 2007 21:21:35 Reply  Agreed. Any marriage runs the risk of one partner cheating... my point is that by deliberately strirring in the sexual element you are increasing the likelihood of an affair IF the marriage is less than solid. Having said that, I personally derive part of my enjoyment from this particular aspect of the relationship. In another thread we discussed motivations... I get part of my thrill from the "risk" that my wife could be stolen from me. It brings out my competitive side and stirs passions resulting from that unique jealousy-related twinge that one gets from knowing his wife just spread her legs for another guy... When my wife returns from an encounter, I ravage her hard. There's none of that submissive, sissy-boy crap here. She damn near gets a concussion from the headboard banging, while her aggressive, Dom, type-A hubby plows her until dawn... In other words, I get off on the thought that another guy could possibly steal my wife... while at the same time dreading anything like that materializing in real life. So goes the life of the hubby of a cheating wife. cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1. the husband of an unfaithful wife. NOTE - It DOES NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, sissyboy, crossdresser, cocksucker, scat eater, piss drinker, beastiality, incest or pedophilia.
drfarmer Member 110	# Posted: 1 Jan 2008 00:45:06 Reply  You don't necessarily increase the likelihood of a marriage breakup as a result of swinging/swapping/cuckolding. I have personally come across too many couples who have experienced the opposite. Strength is directly proportional to flexibility, so by adding sexual flexibility to a marriage, removing the straight jacket confinement of a "conventional" marriage, the brittleness (which is inversely proportional to strength) of the relationship is mitigated before it cracks. Of course, it can only work if there is cooperation in the partnership, where neither party takes undue advantage of the other. It is this last point that had my marriage to the brink. I had to destroy the super-bitch mode behavior in her first. It was tough, took many years and many attempts before I realized I had to be a bigger asshole than her just to get her attention, let alone invoke the new rules. Made me sick to my stomach at times, but I stuck to my guns, and it worked quite well in the end. I, too, get off on the wife being banged by another. Of course, the way I'm doing this, I'm banging his woman. There is a certain beauty in the symmetry of the situation.
bostamp Member 279 Pictures: 4	# Posted: 1 Jan 2008 06:02:02 Reply  Hi, just before my wife and I got into this lifestyle, we were on the verge of divorce. We are now both very happy and have no regrets about getting into this lifestyle. We got into this lifestyle as a result of my wife cheating on me with another guy. He was fucking her and when I found out I was very mad and told her she was a slut and to get out of my life. She said fine and left. Some time later I decided I wanted her back but she did not want to come back. She was having fun fucking this other guy, or maybe guys. She finally decided to come back after I begged her. Eventually I liked her slutty acts. Then we started going to the nude beach. There mostly men there so the females get alot of attention. My wife has very big tits so the men love to see her naked tits. Mona, my wife, and I had our first experience of me watching her with other men last summer. We were at the nude beach taking pics of each other when this fellow asked me if I would like him to take a pic of us. I said yes and he took a few of us. Then I just got the idea that it would be fun to see Mona nude with this guy in a pic. I then took some pics of this guy with my wife. We started talking with him and then he joined us at our area on the beach. It was exciting to have a totally nude man inches from my wife talking to her about sucking cocks and how she liked to be fucked. He was telling us how big and beautiful her tits were. I then asked him if he wanted to play with her big tits. He said of course and then started to play with them. There he was in the middle of the nude beach playing with my wife's tits while myself and about 30 other people watched. I was also taking pictures of him playing with my wife's tits. He got hard and was dripping cum in the process. We had to be careful because it is against the law to have sex on the beach. We had so much fun we met this guy a few more times during the summer. My wife is not only a slut, but at times, a very nasty slut. My wife has considered doing almost any sex act that you can think of. My wife becoming a slut has added much excitement to our lives. This guy has fucked my wife many times and always cums in her pussy bareback. My wife has also fucked many other men during the last few years. We all had fun. I doubt that this lifestyle is acceptable to most people. It does add risk to the marriage. You can reduce the risk by agreeing that your wife only fucks married men or men from out of town. Good Luck and Happy New Year
experimenter Member 124	# Posted: 2 Jan 2008 09:40:33 Reply  I would like to add a few thoughts to this excellent thread, if I may. I have been thinking about this over the last week. All of us cucks, whether wimps or alphas, and all shades in between, kind of worship the sexuality of women. We regard them as awesome and mind-blowing. We think of how a woman has so many more erogenous zones than us, how the clitoris has as many nerve-endings as our entire penis, how a woman in heat can fuck almost endlessly, how a woman has multiple orgasms, and so on. And then, to top it all off - they are penetrated in the sexual act AND it is they that give birth and then feed kids from their breasts. Holy shit! But then, I had this other thought - not so positive about women. It went like this. Many women have not experienced orgasm. A significant number of women do not experience orgasm from fucking alone. Hell, I had an orgasm when I was 12 years old, and I always cum when I fuck! Why do I worship them?! Anyway, to jump to the conclusion, I realized that a woman who "discovers" orgasm for the first time after marriage, with a guy who is not her husband - well, that has to be confusing. I mean, orgasms are life itself, and if you suddenly "get" it later in life - its going to be irresistible. Given how highly I rate orgasms, I can understand how a woman would walk out on a partner, even a family, to get more of that magic stuff. So, it is their sexual inadequacy earlier in life, their neuroses, that make them so susceptible to the excitement. Just a thought.
joranc Member 855	# Posted: 2 Jan 2008 12:54:17 Reply  an agreeable and excellent analysis experimenter though i would say ,imho, not as you put it Quoting: experimenter it is their sexual inadequacy earlier in life, their neuroses rather..... that a repression of sexual freedoms especially for women of an earlier generation(more so than 2day)has and to some degree continues to play a large influential part in contributing to ...not their sexual inadequacy or neuroses(as this could apply to both of the sexes ,yes?)... but a non understanding and or mis -comprehension of a human sexual condition? DCSlayHer my heart goes out to you...the lying is where the betrayal lays and the mistrust that follows a burning reminder of that. you may ask yourself..what are her motivations for deceit? are you able to discuss this admirably with her?(women sure do have strange motivations @times) what is the long term consequence over short term pleasure; especially when deception and mistrust are the foundation? can you get over it and can you live with it ultimately? is it worth it? thanks for sharing your experience and feelings , i hope all turns out well for your family
redimac Member 1917	# Posted: 3 Jan 2008 18:42:17 Reply  joranc your almost profound....imo, it all about today's freedom. Joe Preston
joranc Member 855	# Posted: 3 Jan 2008 19:56:01 Reply  redimac hmmm? my poor simple mind is stumped, as i am uncertain as to the meaning/intention of 'almost profound'...weather a kind appraisal or polite and gentle vituperation?but thanks nomatter.....you say all about 'today's freedom' ....your sophic insight is always welcome with my ears/eye's...please would you expand on your thoughts there.
bullcock2222 Member 93	# Posted: 4 Jan 2008 05:30:45 Reply  Quoting: drfarmer You don't necessarily increase the likelihood of a marriage breakup as a result of swinging/swapping/cuckolding. I have personally come across too many couples who have experienced the Absolutely dr. It seems the trend now for younger women- even in their 20s is to stay married and fuck around w/o telling the husband- or will at least make it look like he doesnt know- this is especially true if there are kids. I dont think they get married w/ that idea though. Some do, I'm sure, but not too many. Sometimes there is a breakup but many time the guy discovers that he enjoys it- And your right, I was a little harsh- sorry DC. bullcock
experimenter Member 124	# Posted: 4 Jan 2008 12:17:31 Reply  joranc, when I spoke of woman's sexual inadequacy and neurosis, I wasn't blaming them for it. We agree it is from a miscomprehension of their sexual nature due to society's repression. But the result is the same - neurosis and inadequacy. Anyway, that's what I was thinking. So what of today's girls? They are much more sexually liberated (I have heard!) - but I still think some will not get the picture until later in life - and then the scenario of the poor cuck losing his cock-struck partner will still occur.
joranc Member 855	# Posted: 4 Jan 2008 13:38:41 Reply  cool, i was worried that i would offend you again....i don't mean to. todays girls... seems like a double edged sword for the future... as i see much of todays male youth are educated toward single life and metro sexual ideals. and many of the young ladies i come across have no intention on ever having 1 single male life partner. and the married ones also not much intention of fidelity......hmmm you are an excellent observer experimenter ....most marriages fail these days ,so many people getting married today are experiencing it for the second or third time.... marriage is happening at a later age in life.. but still failing. so many only focus on the marriage breakdown and not the even greater fall of the family unit... so many parents do not want to face the reality that emotional well being is passed on to their children which in turn can grow up with non understood and hidden issues unresolved that fester and rot away the foundation of security destroying life and joy around them....repeating the cycle but as always.. one step further one foot deeper... there are so many factors such as greater life expectancy so on so forth... i don't see it to be just about the sex..as that becomes, just the easy excuse... or a mask of the real truth rather... i see this life style as a glimpse of the future. much like damian 70 describes about our ancient past.......yet with out the wisdom and nourishment to maintain the emotional stability of the family...
redimac Member 1917	# Posted: 5 Jan 2008 23:01:44 Reply  Today's lasses are more liberated you say...well perhaps more open to casual sex, for sure. But denying the hardwired biological/genetic desire sets....no. Given the studies I read, I sense that the trend lines a run little different than the openness to casual sex would suggest. Females from 16 to 24 would prefer a stable/monogamous relationship that lasts a lifetime. Reason most often given....the unhappy experience of broken marriages that they experienced or saw close hand as they grew up. "No, not for me." Then there are the economic realities to consider, given unlimited resources, I dare say we'd all be like movie stars, moving from relationship to relationship. But unfortunately, most of us face the realities that personal resources temper and modify our desires. joranc You hit on it again... whether we like it or not, appreciate it or not...or even have a sense of it, the singular underlying value of the stability of the family... needs to be protected, encouraged, maintained and promoted. SO one wonders, can we intellectually (and safely) separate sexual play from this? Joe Preston
redimac Member 1917	# Posted: 15 Jan 2008 18:20:02 Reply  this was a interesting thread, anymore? Joe Preston
Male2PleazeU Member 20	# Posted: 26 Jan 2008 03:12:58 Reply  I think everyone has their own underlying reasons. I would tend to believe that most couples who are marry, recite their vows with real intent to follow through on them. Eventually reality has a way of chipping away at that foundation, and no matter how solid a relationship might start off, if both partners needs/wants/expectations are not fostered and encouraged, they will eventually find other outlets to fulfil them. This is why members of both sexes go outside of their marital vows to fulfil certain desires. I agree, that us cucks do expose ourselves to some risk of the gf/wife meeting someone who changes their whole perspective, It is no more of a risk than many other factors faced by "non lifestyle" couples. In the case of cuck/hotwifes, if both parties openly discuss their views/fantasies/limits beforehand, and they both truly care for each other, they run no more risk of being walked out on, then any other couple engaged in any type of relationship
experimenter Member 124	# Posted: 26 Jan 2008 14:15:45 Reply  Male2PleazeU, My wife and I lied in our marriage vows. Even in a non-religious ceremony we found there were restrictions imposed by the state on what we could say in our vows. So we just mumbled part of the ceremony that we didn't agree with.
chas allen Member 34	# Posted: 10 Feb 2008 02:52:51 Reply  Experimenter, your Jan 2nd posting is absolutely spot on the money. We all, cuckolds, that is, realise how crazy it must seem but even in my case with my marriage breaking up, it still represents, for me, the sexiest thing by miles on earth. It is not that the cuckold is not interested in sex, far from it, in fact, but a huge part of his enjoyment comes from his total adoration of the female. And even though during our marriage Barbara often orgasmed with me, particularly when I was performing oral sex on her, I was hugely turned on by wanting her to be fucked by better lovers than me, even if it was only in my mind, well, at least until she became involved with her great lover, Dave I well remember even years before my ex-wife finally cuckolded me, being almost entranced by her look when being fucked and I was so turned on by that aspect of her sexuality, dying for her to be behaving and looking like that with other men, that it became almost over-whelming. And even with the women I have sex with today, although I won't go down this cuckold path with a woman again, knowing they have all had many sexual experiences, is so much a part of my desire for them, is such a huge turn on. I revel in this part of a woman.
tobias Member 377	# Posted: 4 Nov 2008 16:31:53 Reply  broke up with after being cucked for a year now i jack about it all the time to cuckold caption pics..like the ones I used to send her wimpwimp00@yahoo.com on IM if anyone wants to talk about it
MrsBlackBlowupDoll Member 266	# Posted: 16 Nov 2008 19:05:42 Reply  tobias, That sounds delicious and it makes the point that not all such breakups are unqualified bad news. Having said that, I'd like to weigh in on this question about whether fetish cuckolding increases the likelihood of breakup. (By the way, excellent contributions from all - great thoughtful thread. Thank you all for sharing!) It seems to me it is too general a question to answer with any certainty. There are just too many variables. Each case involves different individual personalities at different stages of their lives, different relationship dynamics, and different external social support structures and social pressures. For some, it may be the straw that breaks the camel's back, or the blow precisely at the faultline that shatters the marriage. For other couples it might be just the breathing room, or the shared challenge, or the catharsis needed to make an otherwise iffy situation sustainable. All we really know is that some monogamous marriages last, some don't while some fetish cuckolding marriages last, some don't. Consensual Cuckolding is so marginal an activity in our society that stats are prety much of no use. (And, of course, they are notoriously unable to determine causative impact. I mean, if cuckold marriages were somehow found to have a lower divorce rate, would that be BECAUSE of the cuckolding, or because of the kind of people and relationships who indulge in the activity in the first place?) I personally agree with PalmCoastCouple that the who fun of cuckolding is in the risk of losing. How real that risk is - and how real we want to believe it is - is different from relationship to relationship.
ooze Member 67	# Posted: 17 Nov 2008 04:14:48 Reply  sad post.
jetdoc Member 44	# Posted: 18 Nov 2008 16:59:51 Reply  Yea I've heard you must have a very secure relationship and it can be very dangerous regardless.....most here are cucks, so our wives being with possibly a better looking man who may make more money and probably has a bigger and better cock could lead to disaster.

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