How big of a dildo before its ruined?

What about the Bam dildo? Thinking of seeing where she's at with that one soon.The Bam dildo is huge. I'd love for her to not only take it but demand it to cum. She takes 10 inchs and about as big around as pop can fairly easy, sometimes I get the feeling its not enough. I made a refrence to Shane Diesels cock the other day in comparison to her dildo. We both agreed it was close to the same size. What do you think wil it be ruined or what? Any one else been stretching their girls lately with huge toys besides me?

My wife takes a coke can full size no problems and 2 fists fully

My wife is still working with a fairly small 8 incher but its about time to get something bigger. She'd said for awhile that she could never take this one, now this one is no problem at all.

I used a dildo i made out of a 24" double ender!! it was 13" long and about 10" round, Got it from a gay sex shop. I worked her up with big toys then pulled this out!. It was a delight to see her eyes open wide the first time like she did with each progressivly bigger toy. She took about 9" the first try. By the end of a week or so she was almost able to burry the whole thing.

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just a quick note on the bam.. and first post to the site..

Bought this for my wife at christmas.. we'd had a pretty large toy before the bam which she got used to.. still have it.. but it's a hard plastic kind of vibe rather than the bam's more flexible material...

First few times she struggled to get it in.. but now she can take it with ease when turned on.. and boy does she enjoy it.. I tend to hold it in place and let her work down as far as she's comfortable.. then slowly move it in and out for her.. definately not at the ram it in as hard and as far as you can stage yet.. I'd say the most she's taken is probably about 9 inches.. that's just going by what's left.. but damn does it feel good slipping in afterwards...

Wife has the Bam, she loves it.

does the 'bam' come as a vibrating model?

A Baby!!

any ideas how to reach permanent gaping without years o stretching 7

i believe that with enough time the pussy does come back to original shape. the tightest i have had was not a petite, but a fairly normal sized woman who had been abstinent for a long time.

Like I said, try having 2 or 3 kids, she'll look like a bucket! Forget that dildo nonsense, it would'nt have nearly such a dramatic effect!

Again, after periods of abstinence some moms get Very tight again.

mine didn't!

you are so lucky

Different women are indeed different. What a surprise! Anyway, my advice, unless you specifically have a dildo kink, is to go the fisting route, at least for the most part. It's much more personal and IMHO it's a lot more fun stretching a pussy with your hand than with a bit of plastic. I vastly prefer a nice big loose pussy; It's just more fun all around; longer and more frequent fucking without her getting worn out; more positions that work without hurting; easier to lick; and a lot more toys that will fit when you decide to play that way. One of my current lovers has several children, and very much craved feeling "all the way full" again. So we worked up to fisting and now we do that almost every time. We get together a LOT, so she's been fisted on a routine basis (3+ times a week) for several years. I love stretching her out as much as she can stand and leaving her gasping after amazing orgasms. By some standards this is "ruining her pussy" (but I like more every time!): There are a number of positions now where I can't orgasm in her, and even one or two where it's difficult to achieve enough friction for me to stay hard. Lucky for me I actually like it better this way. It drives me wild how I can penetrate her with extreme ease from any angle. My hand slips in easily now also, with only a moderate amount of lube. She also gives amazing hand-jobs and is creative in other ways, so it's not a big deal for me that her pussy is getting looser. Her husband, on the other hand, has a lot more trouble. She has to finish him with her hand every time, he just can't get enough sensation to orgasm in her anymore, no matter how long he tries. This makes her feel very naughty and very horny, so it's good for everyone but him. If you're lucky you'll find that your wife is a woman like this who stretches easily and stays that way. But don't be surprised if you find that it isn't that easy, I've know several women who never seemed to get any looser no matter how hard we played. (too bad for them!)