My wife's way of humiliating me

My wife and I aren't into the "cuckold lifestyle" but my wife loves to humiliate me, and she knows it turns me on. Here's an example:

I started playing racquetball a while back with a friend of mine named Vince, and my wife wanted to join us recently. Since she's not very good, and Vince is better than I am, I suggested that she play on his team, and I play alone, and that should even things out. We were pretty even, because I could hit it toward her to win the point. That worked for the first couple of weeks, and we all had fun plasying, but as she got better, they started really winning every game. They would gloat, and really let me hear it when they would score the point.

Last week, I suggested we play cutthroat or round robin, but my wife quickly dismissed that idea, saying that she and Vince made such a good team that she had more fun like this. I looked at Vince and he just laughed, and said "Hey, she knows who the winning team is!" My wife high-fived him, and told me "Now go serve us, loser!" and threw the ball right at my feet. It bounced past me and they both laughed. I knew she was really getting into it at this point. I also knew that this would be one of the last times in the game for me to get a chance to serve, so I gave it my best shot. It did no good, as my wife blatently got in my way every chance she could, and Vince would intentionally hit it right into the back of my leg whenever he had the chance. I had several welts on my hamstrings and calves! He would apologize and give me the point every time, but when I walked up to the service area, I could hear he and my wife whispering congratulations to each other.

Of course it was over quickly, and they celebrated like they just won the Superbowl! They went and got water, and told me to "stay and practice", so I was really feeling like a fifth wheel. When they got back about five minutes later, my wife asked me if they could play against each other while I sat out. I said "sure", so she handed me the keys and told me to go wait in the van. I gathered up my stuff and headed out. I sat out there waiting for over two hours before I went in to check on them. They weren't in there, so I asked the lady at the front desk if she knew where my wife was. She told me, almost apologetically, "Yeah, you're her husband? She wanted me to tell you she and Vince were going to go get something to eat, and you should just wait here for them." I just said "ok" and waited out in the van.

They pulled up in Vince's car about an hour later. They said goodbye to each other, hugged, and Vince took off. My wife got in, looked at me with that knowing grin of hers, said "You have fun waiting for us, loser boy?" I just said "If you had fun, I had fun." She grinned, gave me a kiss, told me she loved me, she yes, they had fun, and we drove home. She told me that they played racquetball for a while, then decided to go get something to eat. Vince asked if she was going to come get me, or if we were all going to ride in our van. She told him "Oh he already ate. I'm sure he won't mind if we go without him." He just smiled because he knew what she was doing, and they went to go eat. She paid for his meal as a "thank you" for giving me "racquetball lessons".

We both have fun doing stuff like this. It's all in good fun. She's always looking for ways to humiliate me like this. I know, not exactly cuckolding, but it's a turn on for me, without as much risk of anyone getting hurt.

Have you ever considered encourging your wife to cuckold you? Maybe for her to go black only?

I don't think either one us would want that in reality. It's more of a fantasy thing for us. I've never asked her straight up, but I've asked her if she'd ever want to be in a threesome, and she immediately said 'no'. She wouldn't even consider it. I'm glad she did, let's me know where we stand. Neither one of us would cheat, and neither of us are interested in anything more than "roleplaying" type stuff. She gets a kick out of humiliating me, and being the "superior" one, and I get a kick out of the humiliation aspect, and being the submissive one.

And I'm just curious: how do you know she isn't already going "black only"? ;) It's OK, I don't blame you for making that assumption, but I wonder how many black men, or non-white for that matter, are into "being the cuckold". It seems like it's mainly white males into the submissive stuff. Genetics? Sexuality is fascinating stuff. I've always wondered why my brain is wired to like some of the things I do. I have a foot fetish, and I've wondered why. I'm glad I do, because cute female bare feet are like bare breasts to me, so it's a good thing! Thank goodness I'm not into (what I would call) sick stuff, especially the illegal variety. I feel bad for those souls.

OK, I'll stop rambling on... This isn't the place for this. I posted this topic to see what people thought of my wife's games, and to see if anyone else had some cool ideas like this. There are some nice posts on this board!

Balling Bull Elk, I think I understand why my wife likes it. It gives her a feeling of power, and she enjoys the attention from other guys. Why do I like being humiliated? Who knows?

Tom Johnson, we never shower at the gym, but that would be a good idea if we did. Mine is five inches, so there's a good chance his is bigger than mine anyway. I told my wife once that 6 inches is the average length for a guy, and she just said "Wow, that's not that big!" I told her "But, it's an inch longer than mine..." and she just looked at me and said "Yeah, I know..."

I don't think we would get to the point of actually going through with it, but it's a great fantasy for us. She's always telling me about the stuff she did with her boyfriend in high school, and that's a huge turn on for me.

By the way Tom, as far as him being more of a man than me? We played this week: they beat me 15-8, 15-9, and 15-2. No. of times they laughed at me: about ten. No. of times my wife congratulated Vince on a good shot: about 20. No. of times she congratulated me on a good shot: 0. No. of times they high fived: after every point, 45. No. of hugs Vince got at the gym from my wife: once arriving, once leaving, and once for each victory: 5. No of hugs I got from my wife at the gym: 0. What does that tell you? We're friends with Vince and his wife. I've never hugged his wife, but he'll hug mine right in front of me. LOL! There you go!

sounds kinda fun actually

Hot stuff!

You should play for higher stakes, like

If you win she has to give you a foot job!

If she wins, she gets piss in your face!

usemybride, it is fun!

Kittensucker, playing for stakes is a great idea, although since I haven't actually won in a while, I'd rather not get pissed on! LOL! I've never been into that. I'll let you know what we come up with. If I win, it's usually the first game, since I get too tired after that to keep up with them. So it will have to be a bet on one game only to make it fair.

Tom Johnson, I agree, it is a big difference. I understand what you're saying, but I don't think it would ever come to that. None of us wants to get divorced, including Vince! ;)

You aren't supposed to enjoy it when you lose!

LOL! Good point! But my wife should enjoy it, and she's not into that either. She thinks it's gross. Maybe if she and Vince win, I should cook and serve them dinner, but if I win, then I get a fj from my wife. Hmmmmm , that sounds good to me! I know Vince will go for it, but let's see what my wife says... She'll probably add that she wants a week of massages and 'face time' from me.

OK, so we're going to play again on Monday. As far as Vince knows, if I win, then I get to pick the next 5 movies that my wife and I go see, and Vince has to pay for the tickets. If they win, then I have to drive them both to a nice restaurant and drop them off at the door and wait in the parking lot while they have dinner, then drive them to a movie and wait in the car while they enjoy a movie. Just between my wife and me, the winner gets head whenever and where ever they want for a week. My wife told me she's looking forward to her big date, and using my face to satisfy herself after she gets back home. It's win win for both of us! Although Vince won't want to pay for me to go see a movie, so he's going to be bringin it on the court!

I really like this thread. I have had competitive relationships with more than one woman. While I am fiercely compteititive, I found it much more erotic to set it up so that they win, and are able to rub it in a bit.

As I read DD's post, I can't help but think that his wife is getting a little on the side. Just sounds like it a bit.

On the topic of "not supposed to enjoy it when you lose". I agree. There is someting erotic about the penalty pushing the envelope a bit. The more difficult penalty is more exciting.

Like submission. One is not submitting if you enjoy the penalty. I think that a good dom always pushes the envelope.
I will make you crazy.

Makes sense. Maybe someone can give us some ideas about what we could do for a bet.... Maybe something more than just humiliation.

As to getting some on the side, I just don't think so. Neither of us wants to go that route. We like fantasizing though. Any one that wants to tell me that they've banged my wife and left her begging for more is welcome to, because that would turn me on big time! But the only one who can truly say that is her boyfriend from highschool, and every once in a while she'll tell me about some of the things he did to her, now that is a turn on! :-D

Her butt for your enjoyment...

Nice butt. I bet you can't wait for it t be sat on your face when you lose. Maybe one day it will be dripping someones cum into your mouth.

Whow, Cuckslut is right, I'd love to have that sweet butt over my mouth after she gets a good fucking from her 'friend'.:shame:
John

Cuckslut, you're right! It feels great for her to sit on my face!

We played yesterday. They actually tried harder than ever to beat me and they won 15-2. It wasn't ever even close, they started on a 11-0 run!!! And that was at the beginning before I was even tired! I did my best because I wanted to get head for a week, but I couldn't do anything when every place I hit one of them was there... They had so much fun with that one game!

They mocked me the rest of the other two games, planning where they want to go on their date, what movie they want to watch, etc. And of course last night my wife used me for her pleasure, and loved it! She told me, while grinding on my face (I think my nose is bruised!) that it felt great that she could make me lick her butt if she wanted, and I couldn't do a thing about it. She finished herself off by putting me on my back and laying on her stomach with her crotch on my face, and arching back and humping my face hard! I got pretty sore, but she didn't mind! LOL! She rolled over, thanked me, and told me to go clean up. I felt so loved! LOL! She asked me afterwards if I wanted her to give me head, and I sadi "sure, but you don't have to, since you didn't lose the bet." She said "I kknow, I was just asking..." Then she kissed me passionately, rolled over and went to sleep! Nice.... LOL!

Dunkin Donut
Your posts are refreshing

From an egoistic point of view, I hope you'll keep that pace, as there are enough hardcore threads elsewhere when this is what I'm looking for...

Although it is more similar in degree than in nature, your story reminds me of how I felt when I confessed to my girlfriend (not so long ago, actually we've only been together for a few months) that the idea of her fucking another guy "kinda" turned me on, and asked if she found the idea exciting... I thought she'd either say no, not at all, or yes, that's a nice idea. Instead of that, she said rather seriously: ok, but not yet.

I'm just like you, I don't seriously want this to happen, but playing with the idea feels so good...

it DOES seem like most subs are white guys, but i get the impression from personally meeting and seen in movies and the interenet, that a lot of black guys are into feet. anyone else notice this?

Argyrose, I'm glad you like my posts! I like talking about my relationship, because I'm sure there are a lot of people who like the fantasy, but are jealous like I am (yes, I get jealous easily) and would never want to go outside the vows of their marriage. Not saying one way is 'better' than the other, just saying that you need to do what makes you both happy. And what we do makes us both happy, and Vince gets a real kick out of it too!! He ought to! He's getting a free steak dinner and free movie with my wife, with chauffeur!!

curiousinca, I've noticed that too!! Maybe it's that they're more open about it. I know a black guy where I work who said something about one of the girls at work having "nice toes" and everyone just laughed, started making fun of him. His response was one of surprise, like "What? Cute toes are nice on a girl? You telling me you never look at a girl's toes?" Like this was the most normal thing ever! As a 'test' I showed him a picture of my sister in law on m computer where she was barefoot, and he got so excited because he liked "my camera" and what a nice picture it took! Right! I figure there was a little something about the subject he enjoyed too!

Anyway, sorry to ramble on. My point is I know a lot of black guys (and those I see in movies, online, etc) who are into feet or toes or something like that, and they tend to treat it like everyone is into that. Now THAT'S refreshing!

dunkin donuts--nice story
and my gf is gonna setup a humiliation thing /scene like that soon too
if you want email me or IM me -we can trade stories
newshadowz58@yahoo

Dunkin Donut. Love the tale and as I said before love her butt. Anymore pics of her? Keep up the good work.

I once lost a bet to my girlfriend and the penalty was to lick her pussy for an hour, with the understanding that I was not entitled to intercourse after. Of course, I was allowed to jerk off. She likes to stick her toes in my mouth when I jerk off.

She bragged to her girlfriends that I licked her pussy for an hour. That was cool. If she ever leaves me, I will be able to count upon her "letter of recommendation".

There was something that she liked about it being for a whole hour. There was no rush, she came more than once, she got really relaxed, juicy and swollen.

Try that for a penalty next time you lose. Let us know how it goes.
I will make you crazy.

She should up the up the stakes for the next game since you lost!

Tobias, I'll do that.

cuckslut, I'll post some more. I don't have a lot because she doesn't like me taking her picture in the nude, so I have to be quick! LOL!

jacana, an hour?? She would love that! I'll ask her if she'd like that to be the penalty next time. I think she'd go for it!

Kittensucker, I'll see what else we can come up with.

We're going out this weekend. I'll let you know how it goes. I'm kinda curious myself because she hasn't really talked about it much... Vince emailed me last night: "You busy this Saturday? I was thinking we could go do something... Oh wait, I'm sorry, I can't. I just remembered I have a date this Saturday night with your wife. Sorry man. Maybe next time. LOL! Don't be late picking me up!" So it sounds like I'm picking him up at his house. That's the only detail I know so far. I'll post and let you know how it goes...

So, DD, how's your Saturday going? ;)

Soon will be the time for your wife to find something nice to wear for her date...

Enjoy!

It's going great! When we woke up, my wife wanted me to service her again like earlier in the week, and I obliged! She then made me breakfast in bed and while I ate breakfast, she serviced ME! NICE!!!!! She's so good to me! Of course after breakfast she then had me make reservations for her and her date for a fondue restaurant and then buy tickets for them online for Spiderman 3! UGH! She knows I want to go see SM3 and she picked that movie just to get to me!! She knows all the right buttons to push! LOL! To top it off, I then had to rent a car to drive them in! It's got to be a luxury sedan, so I'm off to the rental place to get their car. We wouldn't want them to have to ride in an inferior car like my little four cylinder... LOL!

Lucky lucky you

I just found out what it's like to be a professional limo driver -- boring! LOL! I went by myself and picked up Vince from his house, then drove back to my house and parked out front and picked up my wife. They both sat in the back seat while I drove. Very professional! So as I drove to the restaurant, we all talked and had a great time. Vince kept saying how much he was looking forward to this, and said he can't wait to have more bets like this in racquetball. They both referred to me as "Driver" the whole night!

So we pulled up to the restaurant and I let them out, and went and parked the car. Turned out I had parked in the valet section, but they didn't have it coned off yet. So as I sat in the car, the valets arrived and put the cones out. I asked if I needed to move and they said no, not if I was waiting on someone in the restaurant. I told them I was, and that the couple I was driving for was in there. I told them that it was a married woman and her boyfriend, but I didn't say that I was her husband! They laughed when I said that, and joked "Ahhh, she's gettin some on the side huh? Is she hot?" I said "Yeah, she's pretty good looking. Her husband's probably just not doing it for her." They all laughed and agreed. It was spur of the moment, these things I was saying, and it was a turn on to hear other guys laugh about me "behind my back" but to my face! Not even realizing I was the husband I was referring to!

So about three hours later I get a call on the cell from my wife. She just says "OK, we're done, go ahead and pull the car around..." So I pulled to the curb, and got out and opened the door for them as they got in the backseat. i got some knowing smiles from the valets, and caught them checking her out. Very cool!

We drove to the theater, but had about an hour before the movie started, so Vince told me just to drive around for a while. As we drove, they talked about how good the meal was, and all the courses. Cheese fondue, salad, entree fondue with lobster, filet, sirloin, etc., and dessert fondue, which was dark chocolate with Grand Marnier. It always takes about three hours when my wife and I eat at this place, so I figure that's why she picked it for last night.

They said the waiter asked if it was a special occasion, and Vince said he told the waiter that they were celebrating their latest victory in racquetball, and that the 'loser' was paying for their meal, so no expense was to be spared. So the waiter congratulated them both, and suggested an expensive bottle of wine, which of course they ordered! Their bill ended up being over two hundred dollars! As they left, they told the waiter they would be probably be back, since the loser they play against probably isn't getting any better, and the waiter laughed and said "See you next time! Keep winning!" I loved hearing all this!!!

So we got to the movie theater, and I let them out at the curb. They already had their tickets so they went right inside, and I went to park the car. I was sitting there wondering what they were talking about, since the movie wasn't to start for a hlf hour yet. It was weird sitting there knowing my wife was inside with my friend, sitting together at the movies! I would get jealous, but turned on at the same time. I wondered if they were holding hands, what they talked about, etc. About 2 and a half hours later I got the call on my cell frm my wife to come pick them up, so I drove to the curb out front and got out and waited. They didn't show up for about 15 minutes! I started to get worried, then I finally saw them walking out and laughing. They were just taking their time leaving was all.

On the way back, they talked about the movie, and how good it was. Of course they spoiled the ending for me! And laughed about that! I dropped Vince off at his house first, and as we pulled up, Vince hugged my wife and thanked her for a great evening. She hugged him back and said "Driver, go get the door please!" I couldn't tell what they were doing after I got out, but she told me later that they just hugged and laughed because i had to stand there because the door was locked, and they waited about thirty seconds before opening the door.

Vince shook my hand and thanked me, and my wife and I went home. On the way back she sat in the front seat with me and told me about their evening. She asked if I could tell that she and Vince were holding hands in the backseat, and I said no, it is too dark. She asked if I was jealous, and if it was a turn on, and I said yes, big time! She said "Good!" She said they just talked the whole time about what was going on at work, and with our families, and life in general. Nothing mind blowing. They talked about this deal, and about how it spiced up our relationship, even for Vince and his wife, because it turned him on, and made him want his wife when he got home! My wife was so turned on, she was all over me in the car as she's talking, and she started to unzip my pants! For the first time in my life I had to turn down a blow job in the car, because I was afraid I'd run off the road! LOL!!!

When we got home, we had incredible sex! We were both so turned on we couldn't wait to get at each other! It was really cool. Afterwards I was feeling some doubts, and was wondering if I took it too far, but when I looked at my wife and saw how much love she had for me when she looked back at me, I wasn't worried at all. She told me they never kissed, and never would, and I believe her. She said if she ever kissed another man, that would be just as bad as having sex with him, and she'd never jeopardize our relationship.

So we continue our games. I'm sure we'll have another bet when we play Monday. I just hope it's something not quite as expensive! LOL! I'd rather make them dinner, at least it would be cheaper! And I'm sure my wife and her "lover" would like it!