Instructions for being a perfect wife for BBC

I posted this in a different thread and thought it would be a good idea to make this into a thread of its own.

Help me build a set of definitions and instructions for how a woman can be a perfect wife for BBC!

Here's what I've come up with, so far (from my own opinion):

(1) Be a wife, not a slut.
The internet is already filled with lots of porn stars who look fake and act fake as they get paid to make porn scenes. While these sometimes are sexy, the appeal of someone like you is on a much higher level: reality. Be a real wife. Be a pretty wife, not a porn star. Express your true feelings..

(2) Emphasize the contrast.
Demonstrate your small size body compared to your bull's larger frame. Make clear how thick and long his cock is compared to how cute and tiny your pussy is. Have is cock flop onto your tummy before he squeezes it in to you, so that we can clearly see how deep he's getting. Wear while high heels, stockings, and lingerie to present the images of a pretty little white wife. (and demonstrate how much you like the contrast!)

(3) Dress perfectly for who you are.
Dress like a sexy wife. And, no matter what you do, don't wear porn-star clothes and shoes. Hell, a smple busines skirt suit is sexy. A tight tank minidress is sexy. A bouncy pleated skirt is sexy. wear 4" stiletto pumps (not higher, stripper shoes), garters and stockings are nice, but don't go to trashy with them. Stay away from stripper clothes that are too trashy. We don't want you to look like a porn star or a stripper. We want you to look like a cute, pretty, normal, loveable white wife. Oh, and leave the clothing on during sex! (for as long as you can!)

(4) Be submissive.
Your bull's role is to be the big, strong, dominant, naturalistic black lover with a giant horse-cock. Your role is to be the pretty white wife, being dominated by him and submitting to his desires, and having your pussy devastated by him, yet thoroughly enjoying him and worshiping his cock. Present the attitude that you are greatly enjoying being his sex toy and letting him use you, and your pussy, and your mouth for whatever pleasure he wants.

(5) Communicate to us
Tell us about him. Tell us he's big. Tell us he's stretching you. Tell us when he gets really deep. Tell us when you're about to cum (no faking). Moan when you feel like it. Don't tell us in a dominating way - tell us in a whimpering, submissive way... in the voice of a woman who is being dominated.

(6) Film it all and film it well
The best lighting you can use is sunlight, so if you can film in the day with windows providing sunlight, it will look much better. Hi-def cameras are very cheap now - I suggest you have two fixed on the action from different angles, with one or two in hand for close ups and mobility. Get great, full shots of your bodies together. Get shots of your pussy lips stretching to accommodate your bull's cock. Don't just stay on the penetration for too long, get images of your head bobbing up and down on his lap. get images of you kissing. Most of all, get lots of images of your face as he penetrates you (especially during initial penetration) so we can see you wince with pain and pleasure as you take him.


What else do you think should be on this list?

next, how you control your husband and make him clean

Actually, you don't "instruct" a woman for BBC... or BWC... or any Hotwifing. Once she gets started you have to let her find her own comfort zone and go about it in a way that suits her and her needs.

Those "instructions" were written by a male, based on what the cuck wants. It's not based on what a woman wants out of the experience.
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

SheDatesHeWaits is exactly right; a woman who is cucking her husband, especially for BBC, is not all that interested in # 1 and # 3. The Bull will tell us how to behave and how to dress.

Spot on.

On a personal perspective, if I was not interested in "pornstar" looks and behaviour, I'd have stayed vanilla.

posarrobba The Bull does have a lot of influence. I'm not saying that a Hotwife will totally ignore her husband's wishes. Most will make an effort to accommodate their husband. But they also will want to please the Bull, as he is the new man in her life. So the husband's wishes often take a backseat to the desires of the Bull and/or Hotwife, and a cuck needs to be prepared to lose that control.

Giving a Hotwife "instructions" isn't realistic. Like my wife told me when she finally agreed, "Fine... I'll do it, but I'm doing who I want, when I want, and I'm doing it MY way".
cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker

Cant agree with most of this, sorry.

Its a specifically male perspective and one that will not get you far, in my opinion. Cucking is about ceding to the woman's needs or at least making them a priority, not the males.

I get what I want and need in our marriage because I let her have the lead, and in turn she makes sure I get "my thing" taken care of. Its a bit like the old bird and cage story. If you want the bird to stay and enjoy staying, open the cage door, if it stays you know its because it wants to, not because it has no choice.

pops

'Instructions' by the Hubby are worthless once the cuckold lifestyle is off and running. When we first started I was so naïve I thought I would lay ground rules for my wife and her bull. Starting with 'no kissing', the rules went out the window in no time at all as when her bull was about to cum in my wife's pussy he put his tongue against her lips and grabbed her hair by the back of her head...I could see her immediately open her mouth to let his tongue inside and her hips were grinding against him like she could not get enough.

When they finally parted she simply looked in my direction me and blew me a kiss...I was so dam hot and excited watching them that they could have kept on French kissing like that for hours. She had made her own rule and imposed it on me and I just loved her for it. Other silly contact rules were broken as well if and when she wished and she simply would say "I knew you would enjoy watching so I was doing it for you too!". Women have a magical way of making us men truly believe that what they want is what we want.