I hope I'm wrong, but things may not be going as smooth most of us hoped. Most males here think a white wife taking black dick bareback and having that dick ejaculate inside them is hot. I feel that for the majority of females this act would be intensely personal. After all, no birth control is 100 percent and the thought of having a black male impregnate you is a possibility. I know that for my ex-wife the act came with excitement, confusion and some resentment. I hope reno_03us' wife is coping without too much anger. Her photograph on the day after she took black sperm inside her body did not have that cute grin of the previous pics. She looks a little detached, or at the very least not as bubbly. I just hope this possibility is not the case and reno_03us and his lady can experience this intense lifestyle with lust and not disruption of the relationship.
I believe you are correct about the potential initial bumps in the road. And the emotions vary both in type and intensity. For my wife, the big bump came not with her first, but the first time she went away for a weekend with
a very well endowed black lover. When they got home, I sensed a lot of uncertainty in her.
As we talked, she told me she was afraid for our relationship. She had experienced more sex with far greater intensity than ever before. Although she has never used the exact term, she knew she was now "black owned" and was afraid it would destroy our marriage. Although I assured her I was OK with this, it took quite a while living the lifestyle for her to overcome those concerns.
This is just one example of what a couple might have to deal with as the cuckold relationship evolves. So, in my opinion, your observation could be on right the mark.