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Following are posts from the other mentioned forum, I've missed out a large number of thank you its working posts and hope this doesn't destroy the continuity of our own thread.....
08-13-2010, 11:26 PM
mikewhitey
Finding same advances
I have only been doing this since finding the file here and with encourgement from my online buddy who told me this stuff works after using it himself on his wife!
Just like you SquirtKing I have noticed very definitive changes like my buddy said I would.
Unlike yours mine has NEVER been with anyone but me, shes shy a little reserved . All of a sudden I'm seeing her looking at black guys on the sly and when we're playing in bed suddenly she's getting passionate and I don't think shes thinking of me. I played with the "going black to what I said last night thing" and she seemed to clear off into her own little world for a minute and was completely oblivus of me. I've been saying and following the pdf and using triggers to drop her into sex states. Over roughly 2 weeks my sex has increased from before 2 x 2 weeks to 7 x 2 weeks. I'm a little frightened by how succesfull this is being so far! If you want to use this thing people might really consider wether they want this for their wives and girlfriends. I really could have done with this LW and other stuff at least 10 years ago or more. Hephaestus I thank you sincerly your a god among white bois.
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Originally Posted by SquirtKing
Many thanks. Unfortunately I am unable to lovewhisper every night but I do what I can. As it seems it works after a few times whispering, I will go on.
Doing it a few times a week is probably good enough - more often the better BUT one can get fatigued that way! You may have noticed that the pdf thread relates situations where wife/gf is particularly tired after a hard days work or night work, and / or if shes taking relaxing tablets for what ever assortment of reamisters - these are the cream times for implanting desired suggestion and can carry much deeper into the core of *** thoughts and on the same basis can be said much more loudly and with power.
and again saying this stuff at anytime that you feel safe and recognizing her breathing patterns and accommodating the volume of your voice to accommodate. Just after (10 minutes approx) shes dropped off to relax is good and for different reamisters before that period shes liable to be waking is good to connect her mind with some very erotic dreams in the REM period of relax. Waking horny is a great way to start the day and if shes had some of the best BBC dreams its really going to get her thinking too.
Sometimes it can be good to test her by asking "hey baby, what was that hot dream your were having this morning, WOW you were muttering something about......" you fill in the spaces with what you thinks appropriate.
Again just to reiterate - ALL of these techniques and everything else your doing will all reinpower where you need to go forward so that there's many method - all methods for awakening the natural slut in our ladies. The bigger and better our armory and imagination and creativity to exploiting each and every situation to our advantage the better we'll be for connecting all the dots until we've got from one stepping stone to another and crossed the river and looking back and feeling that sense of accomplishment then now seeing our newly reborn natural slutty wives in the arms of black lovers and feeling that desire in our loins growing stronger for this new happy sexually fulfilled woman.
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snuggums
still working
My wife is a light relaxer so I have to be cafeful that she is arelax, but when I can LW she will wake up wet and ready, but she claims not to know why. Will continue LW eventually will suggest a black cock when she is wet and ready.
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SquirtKing
My wife discovered some interracial porn pictures on my PC. I didn't push the pictures in a hidden map because I don't want to have secrets for her.
She asked me a few days ago: you like IRsex? I was a little bit shocked. Yesterday I tolked about it and she didn't mind that I like it. I asked her if she would like to use a bbc dildo and she said yes.
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Talking Softly is good if u can do it and it's all about what you think you can get away with by slowly testing during a LW session. The better the volume without her waking the better but as long as her *** / subconscious is able to pick it up then this is all that's needed. Rememberng how tired has she been before going to bed. Has she been takeing that evening, has she taken relaxing tablets, does she have any hearing deficit in a particular ear, which way is she laying, is she laying flat, does she have covers up close to her head, is she breathing loudly.
Apply the principles adjust to responses for instance if her breathing suddenly quietens this may be a raising of her consciousness but as in all methods knowing your wifes breathing pattern is something you can know and anyone else can only guess at.
Taking what can be described as a base reading before you start a LW session is a good idea.
You all seem to be doing pretty well which is expected , as to light relaxing snuggums that's unfortunate for really being able to let the LW taking hold BUT seems like your getting some great desired effects!
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mikewhitey
Its all good
After following your PDF and the Loving Whispers at night and asking my wife to tell me she wants me to use a big black vibrator on her with me licking her clit my wife is now using a delicious black vibro / dildo with a inflatable girth (my addition) to slowly pump it up to increase the stretching effect on her as I lick her clit and taste her pussy as I work the big black vibro in and out of her. this new direction and Loving Whispers directing her desire is sending her ultra horny and wants the big black vibro and my tongue ALL THE TIME. Shes now exploring black men fantasy with my helping mind and hand THIS IS FUCKING AMAZING STUFF HEP, I REALY WISH ID FOUND THIS STUFF MUCH EARLIER. SIMPLE SO SIMPLE AND SO EFFECTIVE!
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Originally Posted by tincanman
My wife usually goes to bed after many red wines. Will this interfere or help with the whisper suggestions?
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tincanman there isn't a reamister in the world why this won't strengthen the response - with this effect you can expect to go in much sooner and with power / sound volume of LW methods. Same thing goes for relaxing tablets and the depressive effect on the nervous system giving a clear and open ride straight to the *** / subconscious
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Originally Posted by SquirtKing
I am back from a few days abroad. The first day (sunday) my gf was laying down on her stomach with her legs a little bit wide. I layed next to her and stroked the 8" bbc dildo on her legs, closer and closer to her pussy. Later she put her ass a little bit up so I could caress the dildo around her wet lips. I asked her if she would like it inside; she agreed. First slowly, and in a few minutes it slides completely in her pussy. I fucked her hard with the dildo while she was moaning. In a few minutes I even couldn't see if it was a black dildo or a white dildo because she was creaming as hell
During our stay abroad I couldn't whisper because she wasn't relaxing deep. Today I will start again.
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Beautiful stuff SquirtKing delicious - were you doing fantasy IR talk too - or is this still to come? All good.
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dwm_Wants2Obey_BM_WF
Hello all.
I decided to go ahead and post on this after spending much time reading, learning and experimenting with these procedures on my girlfriend. She is one of those rather faithful to one man types with no visible desire to change that. Until now anyway.
I started out rather slow on this because I didn't want to alert her about what I was doing. The longer I went soft voicing her during relax the more I was noticing that she was responding to it and the happier I was becoming because of it.
This is amazing the way it works. Recently I tried a little test on her while we were in the car. I seen a black guy waiting to cross the road as we pulled closer to him. I said, easy there pencil dick. Don't walk across there yet and she said pencil dick? Why would you say that? I said I don't know, that's probably what he is. She said ha, I doubt it. You maybe but I doubt he is.
I was surprised at what I just heard and she actually caught me by surprise so much that I wanted to keep the conversation going but I drew a blank on what to say. But I do know that she would never had said that without these procedures and it is only just beginning.
It does work and it gives many of us the snowballs chance that we never before thought we had. I am truly enjoying this as I try new things to test her to see what type of reactions she has. I will update soon on this and thanks a bunch for this invaluable info.
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mikewhitey
Lifted below 3x posts from another forum and think it offers people some general and useful advice that I think are useful and run along side the LW methods.
It has some insights that really mirror your pdf.
How It’s Done
More and more the question arises: “How do I turn my wife into a slut for black cock?”
I suppose it’s not unexpected on a site devoted to interracial sex between white women and black men and certainly, as one who has some experience in the matter, it’s only natural it would often be directed towards me. And yet, before I began this little hobby (for lack of a better word) I would never have realized just how many other guys like me there were out there. I suppose all of us, when this temptation first arises, wonder if we are “weird” or “perverted” - probably, we are. But if there is anything we are discovering in the age of internet sexuality, it’s that a lot more of us (men AND women) are sexual deviants than anyone would have guessed.
What can explain a white man’s desire to see his sweet and loving wife, especially if she’s a very conservative “good girl”, turn into a total slut who’s addicted to sex with well hung black guys? Certainly, some men have a submissive bent and they find there thrill in all the practices that are associated lately with the term “cuckold” - denial of the wife’s affection or sex with her, offense and ridicule, even sissyfication. But those activities are a clear minority among the men who have the fetish. Most of us guys who are turned on by watching their wife go slut are not at all into the notion of being thought of, or treated as, a lesser man. So what is it? I don’t think there is any one answer. One common theme is the idea of seeing a woman revel in her sexuality the way a man does by nature. Another popular aspect is that nothing appeals to a latently dominate man like watching the ultimate presentation of a white woman to a powerful man.
In any case, it is not my purpose, in these articles, to explain why the fetish seems to be exploding in popularity (except as it relates to methodology), rather, my purpose is to provide a how-to guide for the man who wants to do what I did - take a good girl and turn her into a total slut.
Let me first look at some very preliminary, foundational, considerations. First, if you think your wife would be shocked, outraged, and disgusted by the idea - don’t be so sure. Certainly if you are ham-fisted in introducing the idea you may get a strong negative reaction. But I have found, the longer I have investigated this fetish, that women in general are far more open to both interracial sex, and to seriously liberalizing there sexuality, then most husbands imagine.
Second, you are far better off, at least initially, if you are dealing with a woman with submissive tendencies. It’s not necessary that she be aware that she is a natural sub, but women who are naturally submissive are strongly attracted to the mythos of the dominate, aggressive, black male. This can only work to the advantage of a man trying to make the conversion.
Third, if you are reading this and saying “I don’t really want her to be a slut, I’d just like to see her explore a bit on the side” - my advice to you is: be VERY careful! I admit I have no scientific survey to rely on, but it has been my observation that MOST women DON’T just “get a little” and say “that was nice”. Rather, the great majority of them find they have boarded a runaway train in which her desires, and her experiences, carry her away to places she would never have thought she’d go. Once you get her started, you may totally lose control of the situation. Women, if you are reading this, the same applies. I would never ever want to discourage a woman who wanted to go black - but it’s only fair to warn you that for some women, especially sub women, this hobby can quickly turn into a real addiction which takes you to places you never thought you’d go. I, like most all men in this lifestyle, sincerely hope you go there anyway. I think all women should give in to the opportunity to become sluts.- but you have been fairly warned.
Fourth, and deriving from that, guys - take this to heart: be very sure this is what you want. There is literally NO predicting where this road will take your good girl. Depending on her appearance, her opportunities, and the dominance of the man or men she hooks up with, almost nothing is off the table. Can you imagine your wife being picked up by a stranger in a bar, or being gang banged? I’m sure you can. But can you imagine that stranger keeping her all weekend and dropping her off Sunday in full view of the neighbors? Can you imagine that gang bang being thugs who get her high gift her with a nice obvious spade tat to “mark her”? Can you imagine her stripping? Or floating around the net in an amateur porn video? Can you imagine her so excited she would give in to her lovers desire to make her pregnant with a black baby or even whore her out? Some guys find these possibilities exciting, others find them terrifying, but be warned - they ARE possibilities. The nature of porn, and sexuality in general, for many people, is that of a progressive addiction.
Just as some people can smoke pot and never want a better high, while others are in a constant escalation looking for the “more and better” thrill. . . .just as some can gamble a few dollars on the weekend ball game or the occasional lottery ticket and be content while others crave the “high” of greater and greater risk. . . even so for many women and couples, this lifestyle is one of constantly seeking the more extreme experience. And as with haves, or gambling, or any other potentially addictive activity - you cannot know ahead of time whether you, or her, are one of those people. Look in the mirror and face up to this possibility: you may get more than you bargained for. If you can’t handle that risk, don’t do it.
Fifth, and finally, recognize this for what it is, do not practice self deception. This is manipulation, at the least, brainwashing at worst. I have concluded, in my own heart, that manipulating my wife into being that which will give her more happiness and satisfaction, and make our marriage even stronger (and it has done all of these) is not immoral. I am, in a sense, manipulating her into recognizing and accepting her true nature - even though she did not recognize it was there. But it IS manipulation, and the more effort it takes to bring out the slut in your woman, the more you are manipulating her. Some of the more extreme techniques are, for all intents and purposes, brainwashing. If you are going to do this, you might as well be honest with yourself about what you are doing.
In part two, I’ll look at laying the groundwork for the mission you have before you.
There are some things that, in my opinion, make it easier to steer your woman into a receptive state of mind concerning becoming a slut for BBC. Part of it is natural temptation, part of it is the attraction of the “taboo”, part of it is the undeniable desire to feel sexy, attractive, and desired. There is also the issue of trust and security.
To emphasize any one of these while neglecting the other could have less than desirable results. To take them in reverse order, you can’t do anything in this area unless your woman trusts you implicitly. Her first instinct is going to be to assume you are looking for a loophole to have an affair of your own, she’s going to question your loyalty to her and for any woman, but especially a sub, that’s going to threaten her feeling of security. You will be wise to give a great deal of attention to reassuring her in this area. This goes hand in hand with framing your hints toward the idea of swinging in terms which play to anyone’s natural desire to be found attractive. I know in our situation, more ground was covered when she became willing to believe that she really was sexy and desirable - hot - than by any other single factor. It’s more important to make her feel hot than almost anything else that will be suggested to you henceforth. Once you have that pair of factors firmly in place, and this should be done as much as is possible BEFORE you ever approach the idea of swinging or IR activity, THEN you can begin to execute the more direct program.
What you will do, from now on, is to identify, help her to recognize, and feed her desire to break free from the limitations that society has placed on her and experience the height of sexuality. The breaking of societal rules (in its various forms) is the natural excitement of challenging “taboos”. Whether it’s public nudity, bisexuality, or any of a hundred other “kinks” - among which IR sex, and promiscuity are certainly listed - all of us, male or female, find a certain thrill in defying those limits. Your job is to develop a hunger in your woman to free herself from that bondage. Further, you have to channel that broad desire in the direction of fucking black men, if that’s what you desire to see her do.
In part three, I’ll finally get down to the brass tacks of methodology that has worked for many husbands before you.
Okay then, this one will probably be brief because most of it is stating the obvious. You lay the groundwork on this subtly, At first you do it just a little at a time. First of all, if you do not talk during foreplay - shame on you! Get started. Whenever your mouth is not in action on some part of her body, by manipulating her mind. Tell her how hot and sexy she is, how every man would love the chance to fuck her (if course language shocks her, use some euphemism to start (do NOT say “make love”....that’s what people IN love do). Say “get with you” or some such to start but you want to move her towards the coarser stuff. Remember, a key element here is to play to her ego. The more you can get her to see herself as a sexually deliverable permister, the better. If you can get her to respond vocally, that’s a very good, but not essential, element. Get her to the point wher
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