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newatthis17
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# Posted: 4 Jan 2008 14:39:17
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I agree with VT. Your husband was cool and strong enough to bring the subject to you. Do not do it without him knowing: that is cheating not cuckolding. If the black dude is not confident enough to do it with your husband watching, find another one. Speak to your husband about it: if he agrees that you do it first by yourself, which could be better for you, then all is good.
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oleeaglefeather
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# Posted: 5 Jan 2008 03:35:30 · Edited by: oleeaglefeather
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Check your PRIVATE messages.
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laurelready
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# Posted: 5 Jan 2008 08:57:56
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There has been too much talk about what your husband wants and what the potential bull wants. What do you want sexually...foret everything but what you really want sexually for a moment. If its being with hiom a long in a local motel and having your first black sexing you should do it, tell hubby you are doing it and then afterwards you can tell him what it was like to be with a real alpha male, to feel full of a man's sex...believe me he'll love it and you....few tha have done it would disagree you will be thrilled and only wonder why you waited so long. Its called cuckolding him, which is what he has asked you to do...and you become dominant and you set he rules except for what you new bull demands of you in the bedroom..one othr option...tell the potential bull you want him to do you on your maritial bed and record it...hubby can watch the tape
...thre is a females point of view - one who ws in your exact spot 2 years ago...
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Habib Maamria
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# Posted: 5 Jan 2008 20:37:30
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The black guy you met isn't very cool to try and disrespect your husband like that. Find a guy who will include you both instead of a jerk who is just trying to get his game on and nothing else.
Stop being racist, Vanilla. She should fuck him.
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mrocket
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# Posted: 6 Jan 2008 00:54:07
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lisaissa
I agree. Don't go behind your husband's back...
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mrocket
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# Posted: 6 Jan 2008 18:20:05
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Lisa, please update us when you can...
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vanilla_thrilla_2
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# Posted: 6 Jan 2008 18:29:27
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STFU up Habib. She should not do anything she doesn't want to do or anything to disrespect her husband just because it gets your tiny dick hard to think she might.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/oreos_double_stuff/
http://www.swinglifestyle.com/profile/lookup.cfm?usercode=12633862
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abernathy101
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# Posted: 7 Jan 2008 01:11:17 · Edited by: abernathy101
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I will say this you need to be sure what ever you do that its your choice not hubby's not your potential lovers wants but yours.
I would hope that if you do or don't that you will look back and say you are happy with what you decided to do.
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lisaissa
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# Posted: 7 Jan 2008 02:12:14
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Hi everyone.
I'm happy to see all the interest this has. Reading your posts, i see that many of you have very strong opinions about this subject, and that is decent.
Well, I've been chattin with the guy on line still, and I told him that i'd meet him in public. I haven't told my husband because I'm not going to sleep with him, I just want to see how i feel. I'm nervous, very nervous in fact, but maybe after i meet him and get to talk with him a little more openly, maybe I'll feel better about doing it? Maybe I wont?
I'm meeting him tonight. My husband is out of town, so he wont' know. If I decide to do it then I'll tell my husband that I want to set it up, and that I met with this guy while he was gone.
I'll let you all know how it goes.
Lisa
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lisaissa
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# Posted: 8 Jan 2008 00:36:55
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Hi Everyone.
Well, I met with the guy last night, at a bar that is about 30 min from my house. I was so nervous. Driving there, and going in, my heart was pounding. He was waiting for me and we got a booth, ordered drinks and had dinner.
This is the first time since I dated my husband, that I'd been out with another man.
We talked about a lot of stuff, how my husband brought this up, how I feel, what my concerns are, stuff like that. He was very nice, very charming. I noticed a lot of people staring at us, which i suppose is normal.
He says that my husband is the selfish one, that if I want him there then its my decision and he should understand. He said that if I want to do it, he'd love to sleep with me (big surprise there), and that if I want to again, then bring him into the mix. He said if I don't like it, then I'll always have the thought of my husband forcing me to do something I didn't like.
We held hands for a while, and like, I have to admit, he turned me on. When we left he walked me to my car and we wound up making out for a few minutes. I was so scared, excited, nervous, turned on. When we finished i hopped in my car and left, and I've been thinking about him since.
Well, that is all for now. Husband is tomorrow, so I'm relaxing tonight.
Lisa
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Big_jim
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# Posted: 8 Jan 2008 02:49:17
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I just have to say, this is just wrong.
Your husband wanted to experience this with you, be a part of it.
Your actions are a danger to your marriage and yourself.
For you and your husbands sake I hope you stop before going too far to turn back and tell your husband what you have done so far. Then you can move on.
I would say with someone who will respect you and your marriage enough not to try and talk you into cheating.
Good luck.
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BlkISbetter
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# Posted: 8 Jan 2008 02:49:22
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Very cool Lisa. What will you do? Tell hubby or keep it a secret until the next meeting with your black stud?
Do you think hubby would be offended if you told him what happened, or would he get turned on? Maybe you could play like you're kidding about meeting someone while he was away just to see what his reaction would be!
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discreet7
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# Posted: 8 Jan 2008 05:29:16
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I have to agree with Big_Jim on this one. I know you are turned on by all this but if your going to explore this, explore it with your husband...
This is something you need to share with the hubby....explain what has happened so far.
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abernathy101
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# Posted: 8 Jan 2008 06:40:25
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while i would agree going behind your husbands back could create a problem i think your still at a stage that you can talk to him and tell him about your night out...nothing serious having occurred i think this offerers you an opportunity.
as i see it you can now talk to your husband offering him a hint of his fantasy by telling him what has occurred. at the same time you can gage how he is actually going to deal with the situation.
for example if he cant handle you making out a little with this guy you met with then he certainly wont be able to handle any thing more.
ok lecture over now so let me say i am happy for you that you enjoyed your night and were excited...
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cbrown
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# Posted: 8 Jan 2008 16:28:16
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Lisa, give the black some of that sweet pussy of yours! There's nothing more exciting then"real world"white women fucking blacks....and loving it! Can't wait to hear about him cumming in your married pussy! Both me and my wife are flirting with a black in our town,and hopeing to have some of him...
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mrocket
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# Posted: 8 Jan 2008 17:29:09
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Lisa, it's not too late. You really need to include your husband in this; that will be part of the enjoyment for both you and him. Your husband was kind enough to offer to let you sleep with another; he didn't want to ruin your marriage doing it. Think about it. Email me if you want more advice...
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phredd2003
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# Posted: 8 Jan 2008 19:29:52
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Lisa, good for you about your date and having the courage to check it out with the blk guy. Could you see yourself having sex with him, is he attractive to you like that, if so, that's great. He sounds like an assertive bull who will train you and take your body over so be sure you're ready to do that.
I think you should tell your husband about the date, and that you made out with the guy and let him know where you are at and that it is his last chance to change his mind before you go black.
Communication is critical-find out from you husband exactly what he wants, that turns him on- does he want you fuck BBC, and come home to tell him and clean up? does he want to watch, or get sloppy seconds? Make sure he is aware of everything and that you have his agreement, after all, it was hi idea. If he doesn't agree, then you will have to decide if you want BBC enough to go ahead and try it with the other guy anyway. It is about you and your sex life, ultimately.
Very hot, keep up the good work
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phredd2003
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# Posted: 9 Jan 2008 21:24:54
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lisa, so did your husband actually meet and talk to the guy you met at the niteclub? if so, that's very good. it looks like you have actually decided that IR sex is hot, that you need it and are going to go for it. speak with your husband tell him you love him for thinking and caring about your sexual happiness, and thank him for bringing up the idea of you getting BBC. be sure to let him know that it is only sex, and that you love him only. tell him you have decided to go ahead with sex with the guy from the club, and the only question is would your husband like to be there to watch, clean up and get seconds, or have you go it alone, come home and share the dirty details. then give him a hot blowjob, and he will agree with you.
pls keep us posted- maybe have a date for your first blacking this weekend?
be sure to come to an agreement and understanding with your husband before going ahead with your BBC training.
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lisaissa
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# Posted: 11 Jan 2008 00:44:21
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My husband came back Tuesday.
I told him about my date with the black guy, and at first he was angry. We talked about it, and he said that he understands how I'm real nervous and if seeing him first makes it easier than he understands. He told me that he believed me when I told him that I didn't make it with him. He then asked me if me sleeping with him alone would make it easier for me to make it with him while he watched?
I was really surprised by this question, because I didn't think he'd ask anything like that or want me to do it with him alone. I told him I wasn't sure, and that i'd have to think about it and then talk to him about it.
He said that was fine. Well, he's gone out of town again until Sat. My friend has been emailing and calling me, so I agreed to see him again tonight.
I'm not sure if I'm going to make it with him or not. I'm really nervous still, so hopefully getting to know him will clam my nerves a bit.
Well, that's all for now.
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phredd2003
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# Posted: 11 Jan 2008 02:53:17
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that's awesome Lisa, I'd say it wen very well with your husband, he certainly is understanding and thoughtful to offer for you to do it with the blk guy alone first to get used to it before letting your husband watch.
I think you should dress real sexy for your date with the blk guy tonight,have him seduce you and do it with him to break the ice. this way you can see if you like it or not, then tell your husband about it either way when he gets home. wow, this is hot--good luck to you have a good time tonight
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joranc
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# Posted: 11 Jan 2008 05:50:25
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it is a good thing you are taking things slow...just like you said you would... alas ,i can only see a poor end result in regards to your relationship of trust with your understanding husband. ....only sadness will come from this.
many of these so called bull that i have spoken to are just lonely guys looking for a relationship of their own... they honesly do not care about destroying a marriage, some even get a sick thrill
whilst you are out enjoying the company of strangers who are in all probability well rehearsed and researched in the arts of courting the inexperienced confused wife......i ask this question even though the answer is seemingly simple and obvious.....
where is your husband.???
the answer must be thought out in depth(outside the obvious)
what if something goes wrong with this person you really do not know from a bar of soap.
how is huby going to feel the next time he needs to go away?
what will his unspoken thought be in regards to this?
what state of mind will he be in when he is away and has a moment of remorse or panic ...and he is away helpless....what unfathomable emotional battles will he fight in the loneliness and distance as an enemy?
no offense, but women are most certainly the worst judges of character especially when it comes to men..... and can be very easily persuaded into doing things that will bring regret by those that are skilled in the arts of manipulation.
your husband is your safety net....and you are learning to swing without it...bad move
hey i am often wrong and i really hope i am in you case...i honestly hope you end up with the best possible outcome.
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joranc
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# Posted: 11 Jan 2008 06:12:52
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the snares of deceit are well hidden on this road of obscurity lisaissa....
be careful..
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mrocket
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# Posted: 11 Jan 2008 08:03:32
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Lisa, I think you are really rushing into this. What is the hurry? Get to know this guy more before making the leap. If it doesn't go well you could always come back to your hubby, but not if he is out of town...
Anyway, since you went out with your bull tonight, I hope you will have a good story to post next. I'm pretty sure he was able to seduce you...
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gaforrest
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# Posted: 11 Jan 2008 18:43:44
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great story, keep us informed please, have fun and stay naughty...
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abernathy101
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# Posted: 11 Jan 2008 22:24:45
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well i must say i for one cant wate to hear what happnd your second time out to see him
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phredd2003
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# Posted: 12 Jan 2008 04:38:29
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Lisa, what happened? have you been to the dark side? we're all anxiously waiting to see the details-
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funinthesun7
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# Posted: 12 Jan 2008 14:04:37
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Lisa, plse continue with the ongoing story & feelings as my wife & I are interested as it is something weare considering, she loves the videos & pictures & would like to try bbc but is also scared
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lisaissa
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# Posted: 13 Jan 2008 20:12:55
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Everyone,
Thanks for all the interest.
I met my b/f again on Friday night. We met at a bar. He came dressed up and looking really good, and we talked for about 2 hrs, and had a few drinks. He kept telling me how beautiufl I was and then out of the blue, leaned across and kissed me right there. I can't say that I was completely surprised, but I was nervous.
We sat for a while longer talking, and then I agreed to go back to his place with him. That was at like 11PM.
I won't say what happened, but I didn't get back to my house until after 3 AM.
I can't begin to describe how I feel right now. I have so many emotions swimming in my head. I don't even know what to say?
Well, that's all for now.
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Rodger
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# Posted: 13 Jan 2008 21:35:11
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I have enjoyed following this posting.
You spent between 11pm and 3am alone with him in his house and you are teazing us by keeping the details secret! Now have us all thinking about the various "activities" that you and your boyfriend may or may not have been doing! (What a teaze you are!) I bet hubby will enjoy hearing the details from you, but if you think you have a range of emotions swimming in your head, think what it will do to hubby!
Just keep talking to him and withhold nothing, and given a day or two he will find it just as much fun as you did.
I look forward to reading the next installment where hopefully we will hear more about the evening and about the reactions you got at home!
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gaforrest
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# Posted: 14 Jan 2008 00:48:10
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lisa, u aint being fair..hehehe, come on, tell us what happened, we wont tell...hope ya had fun...
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