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#3 Posted: 25 Nov 2007 07:25
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How It’s Done
More and more the question arises: “How do I turn my wife into a slut for black cock?”
I suppose it’s not unexpected on a site devoted to interracial sex between white women and black men and certainly, as one who has some experience in the matter, it’s only natural it would often be directed towards me. And yet, before I began this little hobby (for lack of a better word) I would never have realized just how many other guys like me there were out there. I suppose all of us, when this temptation first arises, wonder if we are “weird” or “perverted” - probably, we are. But if there is anything we are discovering in the age of internet sexuality, it’s that a lot more of us (men AND women) are sexual deviants than anyone would have guessed.
What can explain a white man’s desire to see his sweet and loving wife, especially if she’s a very conservative “good girl”, turn into a total slut who’s addicted to sex with well hung black guys? Certainly, some men have a submissive bent and they find there thrill in all the practices that are associated lately with the term “cuckold” - denial of the wife’s affection or sex with her, humiliation and ridicule, even sissyfication. But those activities are a clear minority among the men who have the fetish. Most of us guys who are turned on by watching their wife go slut are not at all into the notion of being thought of, or treated as, a lesser man. So what is it? I don’t think there is any one answer. One common theme is the idea of seeing a woman revel in her sexuality the way a man does by nature. Another popular aspect is that nothing appeals to a latently dominate man like watching the ultimate submission of a white woman to a powerful man.
In any case, it is not my purpose, in these articles, to explain why the fetish seems to be exploding in popularity (except as it relates to methodology), rather, my purpose is to provide a how-to guide for the man who wants to do what I did - take a good girl and turn her into a total slut.
Let me first look at some very preliminary, foundational, considerations. First, if you think your wife would be shocked, outraged, and disgusted by the idea - don’t be so sure. Certainly if you are ham-fisted in introducing the idea you may get a strong negative reaction. But I have found, the longer I have investigated this fetish, that women in general are far more open to both interracial sex, and to seriously liberalizing there sexuality, then most husbands imagine.
Second, you are far better off, at least initially, if you are dealing with a woman with submissive tendencies. It’s not necessary that she be aware that she is a natural sub, but women who are naturally submissive are strongly attracted to the mythos of the dominate, aggressive, black male. This can only work to the advantage of a man trying to make the conversion.
Third, if you are reading this and saying “I don’t really want her to be a slut, I’d just like to see her explore a bit on the side” - my advice to you is: be VERY careful! I admit I have no scientific survey to rely on, but it has been my observation that MOST women DON’T just “get a little” and say “that was nice”. Rather, the great majority of them find they have boarded a runaway train in which her desires, and her experiences, carry her away to places she would never have thought she’d go. Once you get her started, you may totally lose control of the situation. Women, if you are reading this, the same applies. I would never ever want to discourage a woman who wanted to go black - but it’s only fair to warn you that for some women, especially sub women, this hobby can quickly turn into a real addiction which takes you to places you never thought you’d go. I, like most all men in this lifestyle, sincerely hope you go there anyway. I think all women should give in to the opportunity to become sluts.- but you have been fairly warned.
Fourth, and deriving from that, guys - take this to heart: be very sure this is what you want. There is literally NO predicting where this road will take your good girl. Depending on her appearance, her opportunities, and the dominance of the man or men she hooks up with, almost nothing is off the table. Can you imagine your wife being picked up by a stranger in a bar, or being gang banged? I’m sure you can. But can you imagine that stranger keeping her all weekend and dropping her off Sunday in full view of the neighbors? Can you imagine that gang bang being thugs who get her high gift her with a nice obvious spade tat to “mark her”? Can you imagine her stripping? Or floating around the net in an amateur porn video? Can you imagine her so intoxicated she would give in to her lovers desire to make her pregnant with a black baby or even whore her out? Some guys find these possibilities exciting, others find them terrifying, but be warned - they ARE possibilities. The nature of porn, and sexuality in general, for many people, is that of a progressive addiction.
Just as some people can smoke pot and never want a better high, while others are in a constant escalation looking for the “more and better” thrill. . . .just as some can gamble a few dollars on the weekend ball game or the occasional lottery ticket and be content while others crave the “high” of greater and greater risk. . . even so for many women and couples, this lifestyle is one of constantly seeking the more extreme experience. And as with drugs, or gambling, or any other potentially addictive activity - you cannot know ahead of time whether you, or her, are one of those people. Look in the mirror and face up to this possibility: you may get more than you bargained for. If you can’t handle that risk, don’t do it.
Fifth, and finally, recognize this for what it is, do not practice self deception. This is manipulation, at the least, brainwashing at worst. I have concluded, in my own heart, that manipulating my wife into being that which will give her more happiness and satisfaction, and make our marriage even stronger (and it has done all of these) is not immoral. I am, in a sense, manipulating her into recognizing and accepting her true nature - even though she did not recognize it was there. But it IS manipulation, and the more effort it takes to bring out the slut in your woman, the more you are manipulating her. Some of the more extreme techniques are, for all intents and purposes, brainwashing. If you are going to do this, you might as well be honest with yourself about what you are doing.
There are some things that, in my opinion, make it easier to steer your woman into a receptive state of mind concerning becoming a slut for BBC. Part of it is natural temptation, part of it is the attraction of the “taboo”, part of it is the undeniable desire to feel sexy, attractive, and desired. There is also the issue of trust and security.
To emphasize any one of these while neglecting the other could have less than desirable results. To take them in reverse order, you can’t do anything in this area unless your woman trusts you implicitly. Her first instinct is going to be to assume you are looking for a loophole to have an affair of your own, she’s going to question your loyalty to her and for any woman, but especially a sub, that’s going to threaten her feeling of security. You will be wise to give a great deal of attention to reassuring her in this area. This goes hand in hand with framing your hints toward the idea of swinging in terms which play to anyone’s natural desire to be found attractive. I know in our situation, more ground was covered when she became willing to believe that she really was sexy and desirable - hot - than by any other single factor. It’s more important to make her feel hot than almost anything else that will be suggested to you henceforth. Once you have that pair of factors firmly in place, and this should be done as much as is possible BEFORE you ever approach the idea of swinging or IR activity, THEN you can begin to execute the more direct program.
What you will do, from now on, is to identify, help her to recognize, and feed her desire to break free from the limitations that society has placed on her and experience the height of sexuality. The breaking of societal rules (in its various forms) is the natural excitement of challenging “taboos”. Whether it’s public nudity, bisexuality, or any of a hundred other “kinks” - among which IR sex, and promiscuity are certainly listed - all of us, male or female, find a certain thrill in defying those limits. Your job is to develop a hunger in your woman to free herself from that bondage. Further, you have to channel that broad desire in the direction of fucking black men, if that’s what you desire to see her do.
Okay then, this one will probably be brief because most of it is stating the obvious. You lay the groundwork on this subtly, At first you do it just a little at a time. First of all, if you do not talk during foreplay - shame on you! Get started. Whenever your mouth is not in action on some part of her body, by manipulating her mind. Tell her how hot and sexy she is, how every man would love the chance to fuck her (if course language shocks her, use some euphemism to start (do NOT say “make love”....that’s what people IN love do). Say “get with you” or some such to start but you want to move her towards the coarser stuff. Remember, a key element here is to play to her ego. The more you can get her to see herself as a sexually deliverable person, the better. If you can get her to respond vocally, that’s a very good, but not essential, element. Get her to the point where she begs, demands, to be fucked (this involves LONG foreplay sometimes so man-up. One good play here is to take her to the edge through foreplay and not let her have satisfaction until she begs to be fucked - in those words - and when she does, ask her “Who do you want to fuck you?” and see if you can get her to say “anybody!” This is not essential, but it shows you have an advanced case.
Is your lady accustomed to porn? If not, this may be a tough hurdle for you - especially if you have a really “good girl” who thinks it’s degrading. Start her then, with very subtle, soft core stuff. She’s a woman and she will react...if she doesn’t, you probably have a woman who can’t be a slut ever. Escalate it as quickly as possible to the harder stuff but strive mightily to stick to the “amateur” look porn - the stuff that sledges to be involving the MILF next door. Try to avoid the plastic tit doped-up looking girls with skyscraper shoes and huge tats for now. Why? Because you are not just trying to turn her on for a quick fuck, you are trying to change how she sees herself. And as you spend many hours telling her how hot and desirable she is, and she also spends time seeing what hot and desirable wives do....the two will mingle in her mind on a subconscious level. Of course, it goes without saying that the male population of these movies show, over time, increasingly be black men.
An important aspect of this...when black guys start showing up, begin to incorporate that in your foreplay. I assume you are pushing her buttons while the movie is playing (if you aren’t, you are insane) and when you see a black guy on screen, you comment in subtle ways - “Isn’t she loving that big black rod” or “he looks like he’s pounding her good with the big black dick” or whatever...but always emphasizing the word black. If he’s hitting a white girl, you must of course, mention that too - “mmmmm, that little white girl is loving that big black dick in her pussy, huh?”
At some point, when you ask her questions during foreplay, you want to find the chance to say something like “Did you ever wonder what it would feel like to have a big black cock in you?” or “you ever wonder if it’s true what they say?” and when she asks what, you of course give her the size myth or brag on how good they are or even the “once you go black...” cliche.
By the time this stage is done, you should be regular viewers of exclusively interracial porn, you should never have a sex session in which you don’t call to her mind, at her horniest point, the images she say of black dicks and white women, and you should be able to get her to at least allude to a curiosity or a turn on about the subject. If you haven’t by now, you should introduce the thickest black dildo you think she can handle. Forget length, if it’s at least 8" it’s fine....but be sure it’s fat. The combined effect of foreplay, good IR porn, and a fat black dildo are gold. She should, it goes without saying, NEVER see a white dick on film by now.
Finally, if she’s a drinker, it would not hurt to lightly associate drinking with this stage since some “good girls” need the mental “excuse” to play that comes from blaming it on liquor. So it’s good to have the association made.
The next stage is a continuation of the last, except that you begin to take things outside the bed. You should, of course, already be trying to keep her sexual energies maxed out. If you haven’t at least TRIED to fuck her on the kitchen table by now, then step it up. Now you begin to take it outside the house. Encourage her to show more skin - “after all,” you testify, “anyone as hot as you are ought to take advantage of it”...to the extent she does, she again is reminded of herself being a hot, sensual woman, and not just “wife and mom”. Another big advantage of this is that you point out to her guys who are checking her out. They should ALWAYS be black guys, and lie if you have to. Again, it’s critical she feel desirable and specifically desirable to black guys. You follow up on this be asking her things during foreplay like “Did you see that UPS guy checking your ass? He wants you baby! (She protests probably) Nothing, I just saw him checking you out...I bet you’d love to see what brown can do for you, huh?” (Big smile and wink). Try to get her to confess she had a thought of wondering about a black guy as often as you can.
Assuming this is successful (if she’s not seriously ordering you to “knock it off with that black guy shit cause I don’t like that!” it’s been successful) now is the time you seriously begin planting the swinger idea in her head. You should be careful here to make it ALWAYS about HER. “I’d love to watch another man fuck you” NOT “We should start swinging” - she may hem and haw on this decision for a long time....just keep pushing the buttons you see working and making sure as much as possible her sexual thinking is subconsciously associated with fucking blacks.
Now, you are nearing the moment of truth. She is going to arrive at a point in her own mind, though she may or may not reveal it to you, where she is too intrigued by the concept to NOT try it..I say this because the woman who is adamantly never ever going to has already gotten off the bus before you get to this point. If a woman is still playing along, she wants it, she will do it, she just hasn’t realized it yet. But somewhere in this stage, she is going to come to that realization. If she keeps that choice to herself, you may find that she presses ahead and follows through with it without your participation - especially if she works outside the home and has that sort of flexibility. You should be prepared to deal with that.
On the other hand, she may tell you - probably the first time in the heat of passion - that she is willing. In fact, she may affirm her willingness during foreplay or sex several times, then deny it later, before she reaches the point that she will tell you in a non-sexual situation that she is willing. At this point, the trail diverges in several directions. There is no one specific course once she says yes. For some couples, you go out to a club, employ some alcohol, and let nature take it’s course. For others, you methodically solicit interest on line and carefully screen those who have interest and meet for a discreet hotel encounter. Still others take a vacation to some distant city where she can “let her hair down”. There are also swing clubs, the staged seduction, and several other variations. No one method is right for every couple because circumstances vary too greatly from location to location and situation to situation.
On a final note, you should be considering by this point just what the final outcome is that you are going for. Understanding, of course, that it may get out of your control and take on a life of it’s own, it’s still good for you to have a “vision” of what your end game is. For many couples, once she has her first, the mission is accomplished. On the other extreme are couple who are not just looking for “a little extra spice” but seek to entirely redefine who she is sexually. If you tend towards the latter end of that spectrum, it may be that it comes natural to her to be ever-expanding her sexual adventurousness, or it may be that you still have a great deal of manipulation ahead of you - it all depends on her personality, her previous conditioning, and how extreme the change is you want to make. In any case, you need to exhibit considerable patience. Many women have a very deep conditioning in the mental habits of a “good girl” and as much as they want to be free of those restraints, it does not always come easy.
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